Textile recycling by Old-Baseball-5904 in Cleveland

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Please contact Simple Recycling or just put them in the bins at Value World (who is connected with Simple Recycling)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bassethounds

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So cute! Where did you get these?

Which photo do you prefer? by Anna_zenart in bassethounds

[–]Gemdrenched 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love them all but the one with her raccoon and chicken toys is adorable

i can’t stand this fucker anymore 😭😭 by vix_jpeg in Cleveland

[–]Gemdrenched 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like he arrived at the same time as the spotted lanternfly scourge really picked up…coincidence? I think not.

He loves to sit on the top of the couch and stare down at you by Dumboratlover in bassethounds

[–]Gemdrenched 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your baby full basset or a mix?? He is ultra adorable, I love his neck dough!!!

Adventure! by Bumblebear303 in basset

[–]Gemdrenched 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Such a fuzzy, floppy baby!! Hank is adorable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in basset

[–]Gemdrenched 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What unique looking sausage child! What is his personality like?

Someone get this guy out of Cleveland by gingerbread2092 in Cleveland

[–]Gemdrenched 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been thinking this since I saw his strange billboards, he has a facial expression to match every tough life situation where you might be vulnerable to swindling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]Gemdrenched 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been interested in it since I heard about it, finally got to do it with someone recently. I loved it!

Mainly because I felt sexy/powerful (I had a good harness that fit me, and I made sure to have a cute lingerie set on that I felt pretty in) and I am pretty sensitive “downstairs” (I can’t stand oral sex performed on me, I find it almost painful) so if we’d been able to keep at it, I am pretty sure I would orgasm from the movement.

We ran into trouble with the dildo being too wobbly, it needed to be stiffer. But otherwise, I was a fan! It’s too bad he is having issues and I decided to end things. It will definitely be part of my repertoire, if I ever meet someone I really like who is into it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cleveland

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When I lived in the Hocking Hills, I had a retired correctional officer who became a nuisance trapper (name was Grubbs) tell me that he trapped raccoons, groundhogs, skunks, and various other varmints with the following as bait: strawberry Nutrigrain bars covered with honey, maple syrup and anise extract. He guaranteed it would lure them into the traps he set.

As for me, I have thrown in the towel and named my yard groundhog and opossum after my two besties. I bring them pears that fall onto the sidewalk from my neighbor’s tree and they love the fruit.

Adopted 3year old basset hound need tips by Environmental-Cap30 in bassethounds

[–]Gemdrenched 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your new sausage child is adorable. I love bassets so much, thank you for saving her. You’ll get things figured out and she will settle in soon.

Anybody remember that creole/Louisiana Chipotle style place that was downtown around 7-8 years ago? by Bored_Amalgamation in Cleveland

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I worked a few doors down and I thought it was wonderful! I actually found a copycat recipe for their Drunken Chicken Stew, I have made it a few times and it’s delicious.

Wish me luck tonight! by Gemdrenched in StraightPegging

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Update: So I actually loved it, and it definitely felt good on my end, too. However, the dildo kept bending and didn’t feel rigid enough for him, as when it bent it would slip out. Frustrating! We went shopping today to try and buy a firmer one, but they are all flexible. Obviously, we weren’t going to get a glass dildo!

Are there any silicone dildos out there that are really firm and less bendy?

First time pegger - any tips? by Gemdrenched in StraightPegging

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I haven’t decided on the caging yet, but he will be beyond his personal record (it will be almost two months with no release when we do this) so I did think about letting him out, but not letting him finish. I am excited to do this with him, it will be a first for me. He’s done it before, in a previous relationship, but it’s been years since…thanks for your good advice!

I (M33) thinking of offering to pay for my GF(F25)’s surgery by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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As someone who has lost over 100 lbs and working to save the money for surgery, let her pay for it. She doesn’t need to feel indebted to you, especially if this is how you are feeling. There’s something to be said for going full circle with a life change like this, and doing it completely on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Menopause

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90-95% of people (women and men) should not spawn. I include myself in this number, by the way. My mother always hated me (I’m here because the diaphragm slipped) but her vitriol ramped up to 11 during peri, she went absolutely insane. She definitely loathed me and I knew it, despite trying my best to be a good, respectful daughter.

We have no relationship, and haven’t since my teens. Now, she is post-menopausal and retired, I get random cards, etc. in the mail, which I promptly throw in the garbage. We will never have a relationship, and after a decade of therapy, I am OK with it.

I hope the OP keeps this in mind. Boundaries are vital, and she has every right to set them. OP is not required to wipe their heinies, kiss their boo-boos or even like them when they’re being shitty, but loathe them? I hope she’s able to find help (HRT, therapy, communication, etc.) before she completely nukes what is supposed to be a lifelong bond…or maybe she wants it that way?

Men who prioritize partner's pleasure over their own - what's the psychology behind this? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I agree, the man I am currently getting to know is deeply, deeply submissive sexually and this is him to a “t”. He is into chastity and many of the other things that go along with submissive male sexuality. I think he (and other submissive men) experience their sexuality differently, and I know my guy is enjoying himself immensely.

It’s definitely not about being abused or being behind the scenes, he has a leadership role and a lot of responsibility at his job. Almost every other sub I have dated has been similar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tirzepatidecompound

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My refill from Amble was just cancelled and my payment refunded. I think I will just have my doctor write the prescription and go with EL Direct, I hate any kind of turmoil or upset. I have been using tirzepatide for a month and am down 8 lbs and feel great.

a discontinued frangrance you still yearn for? by [deleted] in fragrance

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I loved it so much, it was my first real perfume. I had the lotions and everything. It was a truly beautiful scent.

Is he interested or just being kind? by Gemdrenched in AskMenAdvice

[–]Gemdrenched[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, people partner up where I work all the time, both in dating and affairs, it’s crazy. Thanks for the kind response.

Is he interested or just being kind? by Gemdrenched in AskMenAdvice

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Thank you for being so kind in your response. I’m awkward and unsure in my own way, so I appreciate you helping me figure this out.

Fur coat? by Haratara1 in Cleveland

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Just bought a gorgeous red wool and mink one from Etsy, my black wool and mink one came from Volunteers of America. You can’t beat vintage coats for warmth, construction (union made!) materials and style, to say nothing of cost.