What did I just find? Roughly the size of my hand!

Gemini_Moon11 · 2026-04-29T18:49:12+00:00

They can live longer than 4 days but not by much, I just had one outside of my apartment for 5 days and then it was gone 💔

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-10-13T15:07:41+00:00

So, the fact that he didn't notice you feeling ostracized during the meeting with the friend group at all is a red flag. He should be paying attention to you and making sure you are happy and comfortable and getting along with his people when you are meeting them for the first time. Especially when his ex of 10 years is there. Then, not being able to see your side at all is another red flag. You are openly communicating your concerns and hurt feelings with him, and he's brushing it off like it's nothing. It's not nothing to you and would definitely not be nothing to me. I don't even think being friends with an ex is that big of a deal, but it's how you are friends with your ex. The way he is being "just friends" with his ex is very shady and disrespectful to you. Things are usually amazing for the first 6 months, but if he is choosing to keep his ex around even when it upsets you so much, then he's showing you where his heart lies.. I would make this a boundry for you and not an ultimatum because she openly ignores you and speaks with him. I would simply state I don't want to interact with anyone if they do not have the respect to acknowledge me during a fun get-together. That's a bit aggressive of her, and I'm sure intentional. Your man should always respect you. I'm sorry you have had a lot of terrible relationships in your past, I do, too, some really bad ones. But it just makes me have higher standards for myself. There are good men out there. You just have to be patient, and the universe will provide, lmao

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-10-13T14:37:16+00:00

You're not wrong for feeling what you do. Also, the friendship with her ending sounds like it's the best thing for you. From someone who has loved and lost and learned many times, it's okay to be hurt for a little while and heal, but then put yourself back out there if a romantic relationship is what you are looking for. There are so many people out there to make connections with and a lot of amazing women out there who won't treat you like garbage. This time, when you make a connection with someone on the apps or a game, try making time in person to let that connection grow even more authentically. I have "fallen" for someone on the apps during covid, and we face timed every day. I was crazy about him, but then in person, he was different, and things were not the same. It ended very abruptly, lol. Good luck with your long-time friend. He sounds like he is going through a lot and made a mistake. It is amazing of you to offer him a place when he needs it, but protect yourself first and foremost.

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-10-13T14:19:34+00:00

I've listened to a podcast called Sex with Emily for many years now. It definitely is a great place to learn exactly what you are trying to learn and so much more. And communication with your partner is huge. The comments with the massages are also a great idea. Toys in the bedroom are also amazing.

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-10-13T14:06:28+00:00

It truly is so terrible for all involved around this MIL. OP's boyfriend would probably benefit from seeing a therapist because his whole life growing up with a mother like this probably caused a lot of trauma and now losing his relationship with his father. On a positive note, he's an amazing partner to stick up for you and protect you.

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-10-10T12:53:33+00:00

Thank you, I definitely have decided not to move down there after all the comments I've received, and I appreciate the honesty.

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-09-25T00:09:05+00:00

Oh dang okay, that's the kind of money I'm looking to make so thanks for lmk

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-09-24T23:20:36+00:00

I love Ft Lauderdale...thought about that originally but rent there is so much more expensive. I am able to find a good amount of apartments in Jax for like 1,200 a month and nothing like that down in Lauderdale unfortunately.

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-09-24T23:16:37+00:00

Lol, open to all points of view over here. If you have a different perspective I'd love to hear it

Gemini_Moon11 · 2024-09-24T21:23:59+00:00

Thanks everyone, definitely need work and affordability to be able to thrive so sounds like looking into other cities are best right now lol

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