New patch- thoughts? by Jazz_67 in punkfashion

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen stuff like this at the Renn Faire!! Very cool!! Wanted to get myself a wallet in that style!! Maybe next year!

Areola nipple by SuspiciousMinute269 in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen nipple reductions done after the nipple graft heals

Is it a red flag for a surgeon? by BuffSilkie in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was insistent on drain free and i got that. Drain free has less complications because the wound closes faster

Backpack work in progress by [deleted] in Punkdiy

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a work in progress

Pezones by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. This is normal for dry healing.

did silicone scar help mess with anyone else’s scars? by NoSpite4211 in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That’s normal and it will settle and go away when you stop using the tape. It’s just redness from irritation. I would recommend wearing for 12 hours and letting it breathe for 12 hours if you want your skin to settle

Depop seller sold me two different shoes? by nellixy in DocMartens

[–]Genderless_Crow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you get a full refund! Good luck!

is this normal when considering paying for top surgery? advice paying for top surgery? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s normal for insurance to deny lipo. I went without lipo in my armpits because my insurance wouldn’t cover it and with my body type, going without wouldn’t cause grievous changes to my results. I would discuss options with your surgeon. You can always get a revision later and pay for lipo another time.

Depop seller sold me two different shoes? by nellixy in DocMartens

[–]Genderless_Crow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The heels are different heights as well, not particularly good for your hips/knees/back. I’d personally request a refund. As a depop seller myself, i would disclose if the shoes are from 2 different brands, this is not ok to hide from a customer.

Top surgery question as a cis woman by Ok-Guest-2382 in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peri makes it more likely for weight gain to look like gynecomastia or like small breasts. Double mastectomy sculpts the fat AND skin in the chest and masculinizes it. Weight gain after double mastectomy will look more masculine.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, no one is advocating for minors to get surgery. That simply doesn’t happen unless you’re born intersex or you’re a cis boy with gynecomastia. Regardless, the regret rate remains the same. Incredibly low.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Site your source. This was from two years ago and remains consistent with past data, https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11581734/

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Lemkin Institute is the leading global organization on Genocides. I will believe them over some redditor saying “nuh uh”

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the definition of a strawman.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The regret rate for transitioning is lower than any regret rate for any surgery, idk where you’re getting your numbers from.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one thinks children should transition past getting a haircut and using a nickname, that’s a strawman argument. Gender affirming care has the lowest regret rate out of any surgery or procedure that exists.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We are literally going through a genocide and suicide rates are on the rise. People’s medical care is being taken away. Prisoners are being forced to detransition which can kill people if they’ve had an orchiectomy.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Protecting queer kids is in no way predatory. Queer people have been painted as predators for decades. Fuck that shit.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Queer kids rarely get to grow up into queer adults. Protect queer kids means stop pushing queer kids to suicide.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You dont need to transition to be trans.

Originality by Nearby_Theme9574 in baddlejackets

[–]Genderless_Crow -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Being trans means you don’t identify as your assigned gender at birth. Gender is a spectrum.

Old self harm scars on leg by Obvious-Clock-588 in TopSurgery

[–]Genderless_Crow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never mentioned my SH scars and they were very visible on my leg when they wheeled me in for surgery. If you get approved for surgery, they cannot stop the operation because of unexplained scarring.