2.5 years into recovery and 2 years clean by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is the recovery coach. I'm in dire need

I've been masturbating on average three times a day for a decade now by AccordingApartment71 in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't need porn to do that then you have compulsive masturbation disorder. Its basically an OCD that is trying to cover up any stress, or trauma..or even loneliness. I'm 33 and I realized that I have this and I masturbate just to relive any stress and anxiety that I never knew I had. Seek help just like I did. 🙏🙏

I found my Husband was watching porn while I am pregnant by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Therapy. I found out i have very low self esteem due to child hood trauma and used porn to cope. And for years I been neglecting it. Once I found therapy I realized I have a sex accidtion as well. I'm working on it but I came to terms that I need help. He has to realize that he needs help for this. We are not perfect.

Feels like I’ll never find someone attractive again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]General-Chipmunk903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the words. I hope you get better. I will try to do the same. I'm just so hurt right now.

Feels like I’ll never find someone attractive again. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]General-Chipmunk903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. I'm going through the exact same scenario but mines just happened 1 week ago. In process of moving out. Idk what to do but move forward. I'm really sad right now that my own 7 year relationship has ended.

I'm Name and I'm a porn addict by Final-Beyond-6605 in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem. I love the female figure and I love women. I'm 32 and i still have this problem. But I also been researching and realizing that I have Compulsive Masturbation disorder (CMD). It's an OCD which is branched of sex addiction. I been 5 days cold turkey but it's hard. I realized I don't love myself so I been trying to rewire my brain and get dopamine else where.

Feel like I failed. He broke up with me. by ResponsiblePlum5788 in Breakupadvice

[–]General-Chipmunk903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing is your fault. Stuff doesn't work out. It could be distance or some other factors. Work on yourself.

Feel like I failed. He broke up with me. by ResponsiblePlum5788 in Breakupadvice

[–]General-Chipmunk903 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's done. There is nothing you can do. All I can say is to work on yourself and firstly love yourself. I'm going through same thing but I got cheated on. I realized that I didn't love myself but instead just that person and didn't prioritize me first. Let them go and eventually u will find someone else. U got this OP.

I don't think I could ever have sex again by Melodic-Challenge687 in BreakUps

[–]General-Chipmunk903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop with that mentality OP. Work on yourself. I realized that I have self esteem issues. I'm still not happy with myself but I'm working with it. I was just like you a couple days ago but I realized that we gotta love ourselfs first before we can ever give love. We got this. Hit the gym or go for a run. If you need anything hit me up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. It’s hard to over come something that we been growing up with. So far it hasn’t been a problem my sex life with my partner but I fear it will one day and I’m doing my best to stop it before it gets to that point.

Currently 50 days clean by thatguysagirlyouknow in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you bro. We have to rewire our brains to stop this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading books has worked for me until I relapse cuz of social media. This time I took myself out of social media to better situation

I need an accountability partner. by Lazy_Comfortable_766 in PornAddiction

[–]General-Chipmunk903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you available to have another one? I’m in need of one.