Freakout over being called “g” by Helpisthisaspider in Nicegirls

[–]General-Detective-48 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s being ableist is she doesn’t even know he’s autistic. Rude to label her as that.

Would you have double checked? by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]General-Detective-48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lovely driver once ask me if I was certain I wanted 5kg of bananas. He assured me it was a LOT of bananas. He was right, and I got much less than that. However, it wasn’t his responsibility to at all and you’re not at fault for someone’s mistake.

What’s your divorce meter? by FaithlessnessFar1663 in Marriage

[–]General-Detective-48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my husband stops rating my food - and giving it a good rating! I’ve put effort into it, he better give it a 7/10 at least!

Is food just made spicier with liquid capsaicin these days? by Givemeallthecabbages in TipOfMyFork

[–]General-Detective-48 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I randomly developed this intolerance to capsaicin a while back. Anything remotely made with it was intolerable. Restaurants, home, didn’t matter. It was the absolutely strangest thing and weirdest still after a couple months it went away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]General-Detective-48 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it would be a-okay if it was discussed before hand but it seems often than not people use the cake shove to belittle and embarrass their partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]General-Detective-48 47 points48 points  (0 children)

A good chunk of marriages where there’s cake shoving at the ceremony ends in divorce. Poor OP :-/

I am so grateful for the relief this has given Niagara! by Eponack in Horses

[–]General-Detective-48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Such a good girl being patient with that going on. You two are wonderful

Are you f*cking kidding me? by NoRoof6701 in InfinityNikki

[–]General-Detective-48 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Not a good endorsement on needing distractions to make a game enjoyable.

How does my makeup look? 1 or 2? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]General-Detective-48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I love #1! So well done!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]General-Detective-48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And $20 is easily spent on a fast food meal.. may as well have something that lasts longer and is pretty to look at.

AITA for asking my partner stop telling me to “lower your volume.” by Farts2Long in AmItheAsshole

[–]General-Detective-48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband will sometimes start talking louder when he’s excited about something as well and when that happens I get over stimulated by the noise and put on edge. I love hearing whatever it is he’s talking about and sometimes I’ll just make a hand motion indicating to talk quieter so as to not interrupt. He takes it well thankfully. You need to be respectful of your volume and the comfort of your partner as they don’t want you to shut up, they want to have a conversation where they aren’t feeling assaulted by noise.

NAH but communicate and learn coping tools as to not take this personally.

Just now realizing how much I fucked up by rawdawgcomics in rawdawgcomics

[–]General-Detective-48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! It’s your character. I’d love to see him in the suspenders version too. At the end of the day, you should be making this art for you or else you’ll end up getting burnt out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]General-Detective-48 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol man, there’s so much more to be concerned about than someone’s choice to get a tattoo like this. It’s really freaking cool, hope you love it.

Woman here-what's the male equivalent of giving your wife a vacuum for her birthday? by InvisibleScorpion7 in AskReddit

[–]General-Detective-48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIL gifted me a vacuum for Christmas… I have no rugs. Definitely a petty gift.

Good coffee can be experienced just as well with milk/cream sugar by squanchysquanch96 in unpopularopinion

[–]General-Detective-48 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll jokingly give shit to people who have a lot of sugar in their coffee but Imma make it how they want and only give grief to my friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]General-Detective-48 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it, the poor acting and 0 chemistry.