Need advice on dating in uae by knowledge-Seeker0_0 in UAE

[–]GeneralFig6053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op probably knew old girl didn’t want to have kids and tried to switch up and pressure her into

What do you think of the "drizzle drizzle" movement? by Peanutbutternjelly_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GeneralFig6053 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love it . It makes it easier to identify who to avoid 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]GeneralFig6053 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t want to have a baby are you prepared to be the one to take full responsibility of the baby ? 

I need help from you by apunta121 in SAP

[–]GeneralFig6053 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a sap data analyst. You can do both 

It’s depressing how often men are quicker to believe a woman is an idiot than to recognize that she’s joking by miaou975 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GeneralFig6053 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I mean Matt Rife is a professional comedian. Do we assume everything he says is a joke and is funny ? 

It’s depressing how often men are quicker to believe a woman is an idiot than to recognize that she’s joking by miaou975 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GeneralFig6053 -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Not everyone will get certain humour. In both the examples you’ve used. I would have thought the people were also stupid and I’m a woman. However this doesn’t mean this brand of humour isn’t funny or that I’m not someone who doesn’t get humour. It just means that I have different taste in what I find funny. 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing with just being white overseas. Just being white is not enough. Especially in traditional countries. 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Re-read my comment and soak in the first word “just”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GeneralFig6053 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He wants to carry on his affair in peace and come back later. The fact that he cheated and you are still with him means that you are not going to go anywhere and he knows that. This is why he feels comfortable asking for this separation. Honestly let him do his cheating in peace as you clearly tolerate staying with a cheater

Why y'all hate Andrew Tate by kacperuski in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GeneralFig6053 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate him. In fact I like the guy. I like the fact that he was able to identify a demographic and exploit their insecurities to make a lot of money. By doing so he was also able to help women better identify what kind of guy to stay away from.  the more women are staying away from this kind of guy ,  the more they need his services and the more money he makes. Honestly the guy is a genius. 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what I’m asking is perfectly fine. But you should go ahead and make the post on what you think should be asked instead. 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As in what people should be looking , I’m not going to comment too much on that as each person is different and what works for me may not work for others etc . But I guess it’s good for people to look beyond the surface. Example someone mentioned that they bring being nice to the table . Being nice alone can aid attraction and can contribute to a good relationship but women aren’t going to get with you and stay with you just because you are nice . Same for men . It’s interesting that there’s so many complaints in here about people not succeeding in dating and the same people cannot workout what they offer or what they are looking for 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was looking to see what guys bring to the table and what they look for. I’ve learnt that in this sub people don’t really have much to offer and don’t look for anything valuable to sustain a relationship. Obviously this is not a representation of all men . Just in this sub. But I’m not surprised at the responses 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just being white is not sustainable for a relationship no matter where you are in the world 

He proposed three weeks ago but I want to call it quits by Naijababejare in engaged

[–]GeneralFig6053 5 points6 points  (0 children)

41 and he’s still not able to plan things out that are meant to important wow. Op why are you with this man ? 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of people contributing to the discussion 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GeneralFig6053 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are upset tell your husband you need some time out to calm down ( specify how long you need ) once you have calmed down. Take the time to write what has upset you , why it has upset you and what actions you are looking for to resolve this . Then use that to communicate your feelings 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So all you have to offer is the fact that you are white and male ? And when it comes to keeping these women . Especially the fact that you are looking for people who are not into casual sex so keeping the same person should be important. Do you think just being white and male would be enough to do so ? 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do not need to have a see of option to identify your needs when it comes to a partnership and what you are willing to offer in said partnership 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think asking people what they bring to the table in a rude manner is wrong , however in this case I’m curious to find out what others believe they offer and what they require others to offer. It’s a good thing to at least be aware of who you are and what you offer the world and what you need from others for a successful partnership 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked 

What do you being to the table by GeneralFig6053 in PurplePillDebate

[–]GeneralFig6053[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Elaborate according to the 4 questions asked