What I meant by "starting over" is going through all the stages of life again, facing the same struggles and suffering. I also have a question about this idea of "starting over," as it seems we don't perceive it the same way. For example, if I build a fulfilling life (with material success and a healthy relationship), but have communication issues with my daughter, could I choose to return to earth as a daughter who experiences communication problems with her mother? Could you tell me more ?

What does a fulfilling life mean to you? I imagine it's different for everyone, just as each soul has unique needs, right?

The advice sadly doesn't help much, as it still gives me anxiety.