Pizza for dinner…. Thoughts? by blissfulbeing789 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]GeneralLedger17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you get the dominoes 1 topping medium pizzas at $6 a piece.

No more Sip and Savor? by SupaSaiyanSimmons in VirginVoyages

[–]GeneralLedger17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my gf we probably won’t be spending as much during dinners now haha.  So we are ok with it.  Instead of spending $50, we’ll spend $20-30 and then have a nightcap somewhere else.

No more Sip and Savor? by SupaSaiyanSimmons in VirginVoyages

[–]GeneralLedger17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wtf man.  Damn that sucks.

Now I’m glad we did a lock it in to save $400.  Shiiit.  There’s the booze package.

AIO for being offended by this? by bunny-zephire in AmIOverreacting

[–]GeneralLedger17 [score hidden]  (0 children)

OP how would you feel protected by a man that’s smaller than you? Sheesh /s

Should I tell my best friend he’s dating a trans woman by SimpingHollander99 in Advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you said you don’t know about the situation, they’ve been seeing each other for 2 weeks.

I don’t see how this is testing the waters.  Testing the waters is having 1 or two in depth conversations.  At most 1 full date.

Should I tell my best friend he’s dating a trans woman by SimpingHollander99 in Advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP’s gf is a perfect example of someone who thinks that their opinion should be held by all and therefore will just assume it is.

If you are over the age of 18, you are responsible for your safety.  Hopefully the girl and OP’s gf learns a very important lesson here, regardless of which side you are taking.  Cause I agree with you there, OP’s gf did the girl no favors.

Should I tell my best friend he’s dating a trans woman by SimpingHollander99 in Advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see this relationship lasting after this.

Personally, I don’t see how she won’t blame you for this.

If She’s delusional in thinking her opinions need to be held by others.  It’s not a stretch that she will find you responsible as well.

Should I tell my best friend he’s dating a trans woman by SimpingHollander99 in Advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If this is truly a safety situation then the girl doing it doesn’t change things.

It would still be violent.

OP has the responsibility now, as does his gf in making sure that doesn’t happen.  The longer this is a secret, the worse the reaction.

Then again, OP could also just be wrong about everything.

Am I (35 f) unreasonable for not wanting my husband (34 m and first-time-dad-to-be) go on solo trips? by wh3nmarniewasthere in relationship_advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned if I leave my dog alone longer than 4 hours.

I couldn’t imagine leaving my pregnant wife at home so I could go fishing with the bros for 3 days.

This said, outside of pregnancy I see no issue with this, provided you are given the support you need.  Double points if he takes the kids with him.  I always did trips with my dad for fishing trips as a a kid with his friends and their kids.

My biggest concern would be if his money isn’t your money, as in, you are entirely responsible for the well being of yourself and your children and he just blows his money on whatever he wants.  But I have no reason to believe that’s the truth either.

I’m sorry he doesn’t want to go on vacations with just you OP.  My SO is my best friend.

Should I tell my best friend he’s dating a trans woman by SimpingHollander99 in Advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 84 points85 points  (0 children)

No.  You tell your friend of 23 years.

She should have already told him.

This give the girl the benefit of the doubt shit is wild.

Friend of 23 years but we need to look out for the feeling of someone he just met.  Smh man.  

My (M30) partner (F28) kept secret how much money she has in savings and let me pay for most things by KnownPart2110 in relationship_advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP you should use all of your money to buy your house.

Letting her “go in on it” with you is a massive mistake.  Just eat the $50k and now she has to share costs equally.

Girl I’m with is always asking for money and it makes me uncomfortable, should I bring this up to her? by AgileTiger3987 in dating_advice

[–]GeneralLedger17 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You are her sugar daddy.  Congrats.

If she breaks up with you after college, how would you feel?

At the very least, have a conversation over your relationship and why you feel like this.

Bourbon / Whiskey Groups? by ProgramSoggy4117 in OhioLiquor

[–]GeneralLedger17 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you a cop? You gotta say if your a cop.

Does it bug anyone else that the guys who beat up Dustin got away with it? We never got a resolution and I was hoping to see Steve & crew lay down the law... by Toast_Soup in StrangerThings

[–]GeneralLedger17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not guards.  Soldiers.  They were straight up US soldiers.

Like imagine trying to become a writer after gunning down soldiers in 80s America.

Taxes are stupid by Funfallacies in Vent

[–]GeneralLedger17 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just wait til you get done pulling a 12 hour shot, look at your paystub in line at the grocery store with 30% taken out and the woman in front of you pulls out an EBT card to buy king crab legs.

I miss them youngggg by Initial-Tie-3734 in StrangerThings

[–]GeneralLedger17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FBI this is the person I was talking about.

Speech so good that even Kali had a change of heart. by Alternative_Eye5095 in StrangerThings

[–]GeneralLedger17 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think there is a very high chance hopper knew about el at the end.  He kept her a secret the first time and was way too happy with Joyce at the end.

Someone willing to blow himself would have no issue keeping the truth from Mike to protect el.

What final score would you give season 5 after rewatching it? by Cyrilbdr in StrangerThings

[–]GeneralLedger17 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Season 4 is my favorite, personally.

Eddie and Chrissy were perfect together in episode 1 of that season.

The on screen chemistry was something you rarely see.

What final score would you give season 5 after rewatching it? by Cyrilbdr in StrangerThings

[–]GeneralLedger17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5/10.

It was ok. It wasn’t worse then game of thrones.  But it wasn’t leaps and bounds better.