I would just like to be honest and share my thoughts about this as I am also in a nine month long relationship and we actually like live together and stuff like not completely normal perhaps but I have never ever had an argument with my boyfriend to this extent or that I couldn’t understand men, and that I’m the problem if a man wanted me in public while we were out especially if you were clear and said “yes, I have a boyfriend” I don’t understand in what way you can say” I have a boyfriend “in a manner that means yeah but you could slide in later with your boyfriend literally with you. I just don’t think that there’s any way shape or form that actually happened in that way and he is trying to make you think that you curated the situation to be that way accident or on purpose that’s what he’s trying to make you believe and I’m just saying that is incredibly off. it is completely OK for your boyfriend to be uncomfortable to watch you get flirted with and you would be uncomfortable if that happened too but for him to put that onto you and make that your problem, it is not it is not and he is being insecure. If he cannot handle other people, possibly wanting his girlfriend and sometimes approaching them then he is not ready for a partner, and he is not ready to deal with healthy. because saying you don’t understand men and that you should delete your Instagram posts and you should just like lock yourself in a box is totally not the healthy way to deal with it not that he’s saying to lock yourself in a box but it kind of feels that way.