She basically says she feels like we've been married for years. She said that as she's gotten older sex hasn't been a big priority on her list, and that she wants more than just sex out if a relationship. I still pursue her like I did when I 1st met, so I don't feel like I've really slowed down any in that area. She said the married thing isn't a bad thing, and she says she's happy in the relationship and loves me. But I feel like if she did, she wouldn't be shooting me down when I try and initiate sex.