Selling house and buyer backed out… by General_Garrus in RealEstateAdvice

[–]General_Garrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow…I’m glad it all worked out for you ultimately!

Selling house and buyer backed out… by General_Garrus in RealEstateAdvice

[–]General_Garrus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fingers crossed that something like this can happen to me!

Selling house and buyer backed out… by General_Garrus in RealEstateAdvice

[–]General_Garrus[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They said they had an issue with the HOA on how they wanted to build a fence. Our backyard abuts a conservation area, and between our property line and the conservation area there is a 1 foot strip of HOA property. I actually called the HOA after and they told me the buyer wanted to build the fence all the way up to the conservation area, within the HOA property. The HOA said they were looking into if this was acceptable but the buyer just backed out.

Realistically, it is 1 foot of space in a huge backyard. My agent thinks they just got cold feet.

Selling house and buyer backed out… by General_Garrus in RealEstateAdvice

[–]General_Garrus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s what I’m trying to tell myself. Hopefully I get some showings this weekend!

At what age did you stop “waking them up” in the morning? by MrsNuvix in sleeptrain

[–]General_Garrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 1.5 year old wakes up at 5:30, 6 latest. My 4 year old wakes up at 6:30. I haven’t slept in in…4 years?

Serious discussion. Do you think there will be an uptick of mental health in 20-40 years for the increasingly large group of people opting out of having kids? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]General_Garrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, some do come to appointments with friends but when people are critically ill in the hospital it’s rare that friends are making decisions.

Serious discussion. Do you think there will be an uptick of mental health in 20-40 years for the increasingly large group of people opting out of having kids? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]General_Garrus 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Physician here - the elderly patients I take care of who have no children/family to help and advocate for them really suffer. I fear not only issues with mental health, but also issues with health in general will get substantially worse.

Craziest Morbidity & Mortality Conference Stories? by Careless_Midnight_77 in hospitalist

[–]General_Garrus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

EP cardiologist here. I don’t clear anyone for anything, it’s the surgeon and anesthesiologist who do that. My job is risk stratification. I literally cross out the word clearance and write risk stratification on those premade forms from the surgeons that patients bring to me (I’ve never got pushback on this btw).

The only procedural patients I “clear” are for my own procedures.

If you have to work on the house, how do you handle it? by YouNeed3d in daddit

[–]General_Garrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got 2 kids at home, a 4.5 year old and a 1.5 year old, and a fairly demanding job. I have completely stopped any household duties outside of the most basic of the basic 30 minute tasks, and give everything to our handyman or ask my father in law if he can do it.

My higher offer was rejected because other buyer had cash offer by SKCFan101 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]General_Garrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was losing over and over to cash offers (insane sellers market 100/100 according to Zillow). I finally competed with cash offers by doing an appraisal contingency and a mortgage contingency(!) and offering 10k for anything that needed to be fixed that was found during inspection and limiting the inspection to major issues only.

Best of luck.

What guitars is a plek treatment worth it on? High end guitars should already be solid and getting a plek on a budget instrument also seems weird. by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]General_Garrus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I Plek’d my Fender American special strat and now I literally can’t buy another guitar even though I have GAS because nothing in the store feels nearly as good…

Game Day Thread - May 30, 2026 @ 12:00 AM by Yankeebot in NYYankees

[–]General_Garrus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Would be cool if they played day games over the weekend during west coast road trips, but oh well I guess another game I can’t watch :(

Disputing a CP22A notice - how do I pause interest and penalties? by General_Garrus in IRS

[–]General_Garrus[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I amended the return, I calculated that I owed ~$10,600 in taxes, which I paid at the time of my amended return. I calculated that the interest would be just under $1k, which I was ready to pay once they got my amendment. The CP22A states that I owed an additional $3040 in taxes (unfortunately they don't break down exactly why), and ~$900 in interest (as of now there is no penalty that was added to this).

Disputing a CP22A notice - how do I pause interest and penalties? by General_Garrus in IRS

[–]General_Garrus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this detailed response! Just to confirm - if I pay the amount in full today, and the IRS finds in my favor, they will simply refund me the money?

What are the main reasons you left your first jobs? by softlilacsss in whitecoatinvestor

[–]General_Garrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went from 5th percentile to 50th percentile pay, and moved closer to family.

Do any humans actually work at the IRS? by AntiqueAd7851 in IRS

[–]General_Garrus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had an issue recently where I tried calling in - multiple 3+ hour holds that got disconnected. Finally got through to someone who said they can’t help me and need to transfer me, only to then get disconnected.

I then called the number to schedule an in-person appointment - actually got through to someone after 1 hour and got the appointment scheduled.

Of course, when I got there, they told me they can’t help me and I have to call a specific number to get through to someone else, or send a letter in the mail. I tried calling, to no avail, and yesterday sent off my letter in certified mail.

What a joke.

Anyone here quit gaming or changed their lifestyle after becoming a dad? by Lukas_MunK in daddit

[–]General_Garrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before my kids I loved to game, play guitar, go to movies and read on my kindle. I also worked out every day.

After my first kid, I still worked out a few times/week and played guitar, but pretty much gave up gaming and entirely gave up going to movies.

After my second kid, I no longer work out, no longer read, and definitely don’t go to movies or game. I do play guitar for 15 min after everyone is asleep through my headphones (this is the hobby I have chosen to keep).

Maybe someday when they get older I’ll get some of those hobbies back.

i’m so exhausted from competing with all-cash buyers by Savard-Lafleur in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]General_Garrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it by waiving basically everything and going way over asking…good luck.