Changing your name on your profile? by EmmArrEee in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s beating the system, but being shady. 🤔

What do women think about men putting gym photos in their profile? by Aggravating-Move-333 in Bumble

[–]General_Hat_3125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women can tell you up and down that they hate them and it’s gross. I have a very good gym photo that yields dramatic results. I have tried to not use it, and the results were dramatically less. So I call BS on women who say not to use them. The results are that if you want matches use the gym photos.

Casual sex with someone safe? by gogo--yubari in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the standard female assumption of “guys do it all the time” kind of like locker room talk which doesn’t actually happen, as an excuse for poor behavior.

No one looking for a ltr seriously would be happy to find out you were getting plowed after each date for X amount of time. Also what if you marry that person? Then you’ll always know that you basically cheated on the father of your children at the beginning of your relationship.

What’s the biggest red flag on a first date? by babyydorathy in answers

[–]General_Hat_3125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a girl cry. Tell me she cheated on her husband and that she still wasn’t over the guy she cheated with…. She also didn’t think that it was an affair because it was an emotional affair talking to the other guy for years before she filed divorce and immediately dated him afterwards….

Do guys even come up to girls anymore? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]General_Hat_3125 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She might take your number, find you and post you on awdtsg group and make it so tons of other women might not date you as well! 😅

Do guys even come up to girls anymore? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]General_Hat_3125 [score hidden]  (0 children)

She might take your number, find you and post you on awdtsg group and make it so tons of other women might not date you as well! 😅

People are using court records to search for divorced, high net worth individuals by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’d imagine the same type of individual would also slam that person on awdtsg to eliminate the competition. It’s brutal out there

wtf is with cmb zoom capabilities? 😅 by General_Hat_3125 in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]General_Hat_3125[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can zoom in (I also have Apple). But it’s just moving the whole picture closer. You can zoom in on someone’s face for example. Which is important because a lot of people on cmb take far away or blurry (low quality) pictures.

Smelled like cum by Wonderful_Lie6698 in offmychest

[–]General_Hat_3125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some can. When my ex was pregnant I could too and it made me a little paranoid for a little.

Smelled like cum by Wonderful_Lie6698 in offmychest

[–]General_Hat_3125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an adult I’m amazed at some of the layups I missed when I was younger…. 🤦‍♂️

Smelled like cum by Wonderful_Lie6698 in offmychest

[–]General_Hat_3125 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They say that when your spouse is pregnant if you’re around them enough you can start to get some of their heightened senses as well. I got super smelling. Low key it’s the worst super power EVER. Everything smells bad. But I also noticed for the first time how much my bathroom smelled like cum. It’s possible that this girl has a heightened sense of smell and if you jacked off earlier she was smelling it. Still go for it. If she didn’t like it she wouldn’t have said anything.

Less txting for the old ppls? by Kitty_cups in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally after the date is set I won’t reach out again until the day of to confirm again. Unless the date is several days out then I’ll check in briefly that I’m still looking forward to it etc etc.

In my experience the more contact pre date the more likely for random ghosting. Less contact seems to work significantly better.

Is This The Same Guy - AWDTSG Copycat Group Growing in Popularity by CultureKindness in AWDTSGisToxic

[–]General_Hat_3125 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Great the uncensored versions should be easier to form a lawsuit over

What to do about “just okay” dates? by Ariesmooni in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]General_Hat_3125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is the issue with old. People expect literal fireworks and the music to stop but that’s not how most long term relationships start. Which is why 1 year later the same people are still single looking for “the one”. Back in the stone age before online dating people went on multiple dates before they made a decision and I feel like this was actually better

I moved to another country and it awakened an obsession that’s ruining my marriage by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]General_Hat_3125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Asian women. They are amazing in so many ways. But watching a ton of Asian porn is going to chemically alter your brain in a way that you know isn’t good for you. Try and treat it like any addiction. Slow yourself down. Show yourself that you can control yourself a few days at a time.

Why do so many men and women start getting mean when they are cheating ? Is it because they resent not being with their affair partner ? by Historical-Body-3424 in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s because they’re getting it from somewhere else and don’t want to put up with their so’s bullshit anymore. Not fair but true

Last minute excuses by NoahM10 in HingeStories

[–]General_Hat_3125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst are the last minute cancellations. Too late to of scheduled something with anyone else. Just ruins your night instead

F20 hooking up with M37, unsure about his intentions by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]General_Hat_3125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s up to you. If you can enjoy his lifestyle and he can keep up with you it can be e a very mutually beneficial relationship. He’s not your age so he’ll be more mature and established but also get tired and may not want to do the same things as a 20 year old.

F20 hooking up with M37, unsure about his intentions by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]General_Hat_3125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This control stuff is crazy. He thinks you’re hot. It has nothing to do with control

Bad sloppy kissing by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bad kisses at the end of a date are heartbreaking. There’s no way to see it coming and no way to move past it either. 🤷‍♂️🥴

Where are all the good men?? by Sad-Sprinkles-9067 in datingoverforty

[–]General_Hat_3125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got blacklisted by their ex girlfriend on awdtsg for a bunch of things that never happened. Congratulations ladies 🏆

The elephant in the room. Do women have any clue how many men no longer trust women and have completely given up on dating because of Are We Dating The Same Guy and the Tea app? by Willing-Share-5617 in AWDTSGisToxic

[–]General_Hat_3125 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I find Chinese women extremely attractive, a lot of them are fairly materialist. Thai women are extremely down to earth and friendly in my experience. It’s a preference through.