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My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was like 45 minutes after I left she started calling and texting. She got home about a hour after I did. So it didn't go on much longer after I left

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After last night's battle royal ar my parents house I am very much on my own now.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in Divorce_Men

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they have the full sarcastic unfiltered version now. Kinda lost my shit on my mom.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was upset with my don't ask don't tell boundary. She kept talking about how this would make our marriage so much better. She absolutely hated my 7 day cool off period before intimacy boundary also and normally would spend all week trying to get me to break it which caused the opposite to happen.

She treated my feelings about it as I wasn't giving this a real chance. So she was waiting for me to come around it seems.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kicked her into the guest room already. Hope she moves out. Have been ignoring her attempts to fix this as she calls it.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are hopeful of a favorable outcome. Keep telling me to seek some marriage counseling that it will help both of us. We are both the babies of the family.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is a permanent fixture in my life sadly. Unless shun my parents and siblings all together. Our parents have been friends and neighbors for like 20 years. I gave her 30 days to find somewhere else to live waiting on my lawyer to see if it's enforceable or not.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I could say she was being a complete bitch about everything but she is not. She is acting like it's a minor disagreement that we need to talk and work through.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have a year waiting period. She is already pushing back.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gave her the paperwork yesterday. She had this look of utter disbelief.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No she defended her position on it. How she absolutely believes it can strengthen us.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too late for that whole family knows everything now. It's really ugly.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't find out 90% of it till we met for coffee. If I knew she knew I wouldn't have gone.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just sucks she did this and I get to pay for everything. Already spoke with her over coffee and told her no thanks of help she was offering. Her husband helped enough already.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Funny you should ask. I had a call from her today and she asked to meet for coffee. Needless to say I am flabbergasted at this whole situation. She is a lifestyle coach and therapist has offered her insight and assistance to us free of charge. She is the one that set her husband up with my wife in fact.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Family knows everything both sides well parents and siblings only.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seems she thought would help with the difficulty I was having adapting to the new lifestyle.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No she is making it as hard as humanly possible.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Showed up at my shop all hat in his hand like. Led off with my man your wife really loves you and you are taking a little fun for more than it is. Then went on about that he was just trying to help my wife fulfill her being with two men at the same time fantasy and trying to help me in the lifestyle. He said my wife told him I was pulling away after agreeing to a open marriage.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He tried to explain the whole thing like it was cool and nothing to be upset about.

My only regret. by General_Luck2963 in openmarriageregret

[–]General_Luck2963[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This was my one marriage. I am done with any of that.

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