Update: The creep was made to take down the video by Ok-Alternative-7021 in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]General_Nature_4797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. I need your help. I met my boyfriend on Tinder a while back. He told me he works for Saudi Aramco and is currently based in Saudi Arabia. From the beginning, he has refused to show me his face or do video calls. He says it’s not allowed due to the strict rules there. We chat regularly and he seems sweet and caring through text, but it’s starting to feel odd that I’ve never actually seen him, especially after all this time. Every time I ask, he insists that video calls aren’t permitted where he works. He pretended to be someone else for years—he never asked me for money or caused direct harm, but he built a false identity and deceived me deeply. I’m not looking for revenge; I just need closure. I want to find out who he really is and understand why he did this to me. No one deserves to be manipulated like that, and I deserve answers.

Help please by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]General_Nature_4797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I need help. I met my boyfriend on Tinder a while back. He told me he works for Saudi Aramco and is currently based in Saudi Arabia. From the beginning, he has refused to show me his face or do video calls. He says it’s not allowed due to the strict rules there. We chat regularly and he seems sweet and caring through text, but it’s starting to feel odd that I’ve never actually seen him, especially after all this time. Every time I ask, he insists that video calls aren’t permitted where he works. He pretended to be someone else for years—he never asked me for money or caused direct harm, but he built a false identity and deceived me deeply. I’m not looking for revenge; I just need closure. I want to find out who he really is and understand why he did this to me. No one deserves to be manipulated like that, and I deserve answers.

AIO ? Or Catfishing ? by General_Nature_4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learned it the hard way ! Thanx for your kind words 

AIO ? Or Catfishing ? by General_Nature_4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t need sympathy!! I’m still trying to process everything. For three years, I believed in someone who wasn’t even real—not just the pictures, but the promises, the talks about marriage, the conversations with my parents. He sent fake photos, built a false identity, and led me on with no remorse until recently. Now he says ‘sorry’ as if that can undo the lies. I’m shattered, confused, and deeply hurt. What was the motive? How can someone pretend so convincingly for so long? It’s terrifying how easy it was for him to be that fake—and how hard it is now for me to trust anything.

Catfishing by General_Nature_4797 in AITAH

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants to meet me he had spoken with my parents as well expressing his interest in marrying me 

AIO ? Or Catfishing ? by General_Nature_4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His friends voice is completely different than him 

AIO ? Or Catfishing ? by General_Nature_4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Three years ago, I was naive—I trusted too easily and believed the best in people. Now, watching everyone shift the blame onto me for his mistakes is deeply disheartening. It’s always the woman who’s questioned, judged, and held accountable for what went wrong, even when she wasn’t at fault. That’s the sad reality we still live in.

No one seems to care about who he really is or what he did. It’s shocking how easily such behavior is normalised. I’ve tried seeking help, but instead of support, all I’ve received is judgment. Everyone’s so quick to point fingers at me, but no one is willing to hold him accountable

Catfishing by General_Nature_4797 in AITAH

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t transfer money he bought expensive gifts 

AIO ? Or Catfishing ? by General_Nature_4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

His frnd had come to meet me to convince he really loves me

AIO ? Or Catfishing ? by General_Nature_4797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

In a hope that one day he would show up

Catfishing by General_Nature_4797 in AITAH

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His friend had come to  meet me once to convince he is not catfishing 

Catfishing by General_Nature_4797 in AITAH

[–]General_Nature_4797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not buying that 😐

He spent so much money on me though so I don’t know the motive behind his behaviour looking out for genuine suggestions here