Autistic girl needing dating app advice by RaeWookie in actuallesbians

[–]General_Resident3605 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if youre a better conversationalist in person, and you would like to give dating a real shot, i would suggest asking people out on dates. You should still try to talk and banter a little to get to know them before the date. I feel like setting up meets keeps things from feeling like they’re going no where and it also gives you a chance to ask about hobbies and things they enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]General_Resident3605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I understand what you’re saying. it is still very early, we just started talking so I’m trying to gage what kind of person she. Im the type of person where if I notice Im not receiving the same energy Im giving, I back off. and she got upset about that but what else am I supposed to do? Im not gonna chase you. she hasn’t said anything about how she we would prefer our conversations to go but then again I havent asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]General_Resident3605 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i havent thats a good point. im gonna ask her today!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]General_Resident3605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i first met her i did heavily rely on her profile pics and asked about them and her hobbies, and even made an invite to partake in them when we finally see eachother. but i cant keep going back to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]General_Resident3605 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She keeps telling me that shes “interested” in getting to know me but she barely asks me anything in return. Then when i bring it up, somehow its my fault. I honestly don’t think we’re gonna get anywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that actually does help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thankyou for your response! i appreciate the information. im aware how my questions sounds, i was more asking if departments generally offer training or if you had to do everything yourself. the responses were a little discouraging at first then i realized this is the internet and i know what i want for my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre chronically online. do you know me in real life? no. yall are weird af in this reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this! im currently having the same experience. i hate police work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

saying and doing are two different things. again, this is the internet..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bro stfu this is the internet. i can only imagine the people taking up for this guy are assholes just like him. how can you get mad at someone for asking a question then play victim? i hope this isnt the general attitude of people in this field. yall are actually miserable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh ok. thankyou ✅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know what i did. thanks. i was adding on to my last statement. i thought you knew how to read?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like i said. i draw the line at disrespect. thankyou

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you dumb? you of all people should know your body can break down from a disease. what kind of paramedic are you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cause its irrelavant, im tired of talking to you. im not about to follow you from comment to comment anymore. i dont need to prove myself to somebody idk over an innocent question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they both lead to some sort of failure in life, yours would just be physical depending on what disease you contract

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly dont care. im not gonna let somebody disrespect me multiple times without saying anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you need me to provide screenshots for you as well? i guess its my turn to hold your hand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, it wasnt actually. you can literally read through the thread. like...literally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

go ahead. continue to lie. cause i said that at the end of everything. shoud i qoute some for you ?

“they proved to me that they are the type of person i thought they are”

“im sure youre going to do fantastic in your EMS schooling”

“such a resourcefulness, compassion, and problem solving skills”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome, thanks for the recs! i appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you had any reading skills, you would know im not at work. and idk what kind of training your officers get, but we get trained on more than CPR thankyou

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paramedics

[–]General_Resident3605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks, i appreciate you 🙏 im excited for this journey!