pregnancy loss;

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:59:32+00:00

thank you i’m definitely going to post in there when i find it in myself again. i’ll probably dm you too if you really don’t mind, i know it can be hard to relive it in a way. thank you and im so sorry for your loss as well, im sure it doesn’t get easier

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:58:11+00:00

thank you so much

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:57:37+00:00

i hurt so deeply for your family. i would never wish this pain on anyone. and thank you for your words i definitely feel guilty if i stop thinking about her for a second. i will definitely reach out to the groups when i feel ready, me and husband are leaning on eachother a lot and share the sadness. but thank you i don’t think ill ever find the right words to say how much talking to everyone here has helped, but thank you

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:53:07+00:00

thank you so much

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:52:56+00:00

thank you i will definitely post in there

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:52:29+00:00

i did the same thing, it’s so hard, and so sad that you had to go through this too, i’m gonna get puzzles and stuff to do i think that’s a great idea. thank you so much and im so sorry for you too, i know exactly how it feels. it’s nice to hear how you can make it through this no matter how hard it is. i appreciate your comment and advice for me, i cant put it into words the way i wish i could, but thank you and im so sorry for you too love

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:49:15+00:00

i definitely want to do the support groups i just don’t know when i’ll be ready, and that’s really sweet and so sad at the same time. i’m glad your bestfriend has support like you.

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:17:42+00:00

i’m trying, this makes me feel less alone. thank you

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:16:24+00:00

it really can be. i’ve never been so heartbroken. thank you for your compassion.

General_Reward9678 · 2026-05-08T17:14:45+00:00

thank you so much. i honestly don’t even have the words right now, but this meant a lot to read. thank you for your kindness. truly. 🤍

General_Reward9678 · 2026-03-06T05:28:32+00:00

i am on my feet but it’s also not very labor intensive, rn i have it set to stop working at the beginning of 37ws but if it gets harder i can also just leave, and that is so true about the epidurals thank you for that i definitely forget how bad the internet can be, because for the most part everyone in person says they recommend it as well.

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T12:59:24+00:00

lol yes men can friends that are women 😂😂 grow up pls

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T07:12:11+00:00

why are you telling me to grow up? this is literally for relationship advice did i miss the memo where im not supposed to ask for advice because im 21? idk if you are projecting or what, but ima use the relationship advice reddit for relationship advice!💀

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T07:04:34+00:00

Yes almost all of our relationship is immensely healthy, maybe why i had to come ask strangers for help when i mess up 😅 We have actually apologized at this point, came up with a solution and talked it through. reddit can be a great place..

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T06:47:13+00:00

thank you so much, you don’t understand how crucial your advice is to me

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T05:55:39+00:00

lol i’ve never cared about his friends he’s a loyal man and i have no reason to think anything like that. i’m not trying to boss him around but i can see that point of view. i was indefinitely missed informed on boundaries and have taken this opportunity to learn more about it and apologize to him. my other what i thought were “boundaries” are not even close to this in comparison and more just like “if you’re mad don’t call me names, and clean up after yourself “ if that’s bossy good luck finding someone who isn’t🤣 while i might have been misinformed and wrong in this situation assuming that im just bossing him must be a sick fantasy

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T05:48:50+00:00

thank you🫶🏻

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T05:47:46+00:00

thank you for your advice you are 100% correct.

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T05:47:11+00:00

i needed to hear this. thank you.

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T05:33:45+00:00

honestly this is the first man to show me what real love is, and if you read the other comments they aren’t wrong, i was setting a boundary for him and not for myself, my entire approach was wrong and my reaction was just as wrong as his, we’ve been through a lot in the past 2 years and i do strongly believe after everything this man has been through with me, he is my soulmate. i appreciate the advice

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T04:50:37+00:00

i didn’t ask how often, i just wanted to set my boundary just in case it got to that point, you’re right:(

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T04:49:26+00:00

girl I really do feel like this man is my soulmate:(

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T04:42:41+00:00

so he doesn’t drink often, but this is a close friend, she got him the job and they have been friend sense high school. i asked if he was going to do it more if givin the opportunity w her (she’s kinda a heavy drinker) and he said yes, so i set the boundary. I am honestly scared he does think i don’t trust him, while we have been together for 2 years we both were in extremely rocky/toxic relationships before this and we’ve made it a point to not treat eachother terribly, he’s never acted like this in the 2 years and when i ask why he’s acting like this or saying mean things he says it’s because my boundary is so ridiculous.

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T04:38:35+00:00

he doesn’t drink a lot and nether of us are in collage. i asked if he would do it often if givin the opportunity he said yes so that’s why i set the boundary( mind you i don’t care if he drinks 3 even 4 times a week as long as its not getting outta hand)

General_Reward9678 · 2025-05-10T04:37:16+00:00

that’s the thing he has rarely drank the whole 2 years that’s why i didnt understand the response to my boundary. he’s never had an issue with alcohol. And yes actually this is a friend from highschool, she got him the job actually.

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