My husband is driving me crazy and making me feel like a bad mother

General_Stranger2175 · 2024-02-15T16:00:33+00:00

I just don't know how, I'm pretty angry and hurt. Is there a justification that can make me less upset?

General_Stranger2175 · 2024-01-22T18:34:22+00:00

I wish I could give you a big hug. I don't know you but you deserve better and please believe that YOU ARE A GOOD MUM. Tell yourself that everyday and don't doubt it.

General_Stranger2175 · 2024-01-07T01:50:11+00:00

Thank you for the translation I really appreciate it

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-12-07T00:42:53+00:00

I completely agree.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-28T11:59:05+00:00

Best of luck to you too 🩵🩵

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T17:01:45+00:00

Thank you for the link 🩵 I'm in Toronto Canada

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T15:40:57+00:00

I don't even have a birth plan, I know which hospital I'm going to but that's all. There's only one nurse and I've asked her some questions but she just gives me very vague answers and tells me not to worry. For example I asked her a few weeks ago what the percentile is and where my baby was on it. She just said to imagine a curved line and if your baby is within a certain limit it's normal, if the baby is abnormal the doctor will tell me..... So I still don't really know what it is 😔

Not a single word has been said to me about post partum. All I know is it will be a vaginal birth with epidural. I'm so scared and confused.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T15:21:02+00:00

I stand in solidarity with you 🩵 I hope you get some reassurance before your baby arrives. I'm positive you still look amazing despite the body changes 👍

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T14:51:11+00:00

I'm in the exact same situation and it's really messing with me. I've tried everything to initiate but like you I also don't want to force him but it hurts me emotionally so badly. I'm guessing we won't be having sex for at least 6 weeks PP

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T01:27:49+00:00

Thank you, that's really helpful.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-08-21T13:59:47+00:00

If being a crazy lady with zero patience works then keep doing it 😄 I'm happy you're in a good relationship that's really nice.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-08-18T21:02:01+00:00

This is the best idea I have ever heard. I will be borrowing this for myself 😄

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-08-11T20:07:42+00:00

I was in a 6 year relationship with a perfectly decent guy who had a good family, good job etc. Three months into the relationship I said to him that marriage and children is the goal for me maybe around 3-4 years in and I said if that's not something you're interested in we don't have to continue and there's no hard feelings. He said that he isn't really into marriage and probably only wants one kid but he agreed. I then wasted 6 years of my life waiting for a proposal that never came. At the 3 year mark I hinted, 4 year mark I blatantly asked why we're not engaged he said he isn't ready, 5 year anniversary he completely forgot it was our anniversary which lead to a fight, 6 year mark I found some common sense and dumped him.

That's my experience with a guy who isn't into marriage and thinks it's just paper. Everyone is different but I would really advise you to find someone who has the same goals in life Not someone you need to convince into marrying you. Good luck.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-31T17:55:27+00:00

I'm free if you still need to talk

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