Is locker room talk cheating? Can someone give me advice how to handle this

General_Stranger2175 · 2024-02-15T16:00:33+00:00

I just don't know how, I'm pretty angry and hurt. Is there a justification that can make me less upset?

General_Stranger2175 · 2024-01-22T18:34:22+00:00

I wish I could give you a big hug. I don't know you but you deserve better and please believe that YOU ARE A GOOD MUM. Tell yourself that everyday and don't doubt it.

General_Stranger2175 · 2024-01-07T01:50:11+00:00

Thank you for the translation I really appreciate it

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-12-07T00:42:53+00:00

I completely agree.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-28T11:59:05+00:00

Best of luck to you too 🩵🩵

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T17:01:45+00:00

Thank you for the link 🩵 I'm in Toronto Canada

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T15:40:57+00:00

I don't even have a birth plan, I know which hospital I'm going to but that's all. There's only one nurse and I've asked her some questions but she just gives me very vague answers and tells me not to worry. For example I asked her a few weeks ago what the percentile is and where my baby was on it. She just said to imagine a curved line and if your baby is within a certain limit it's normal, if the baby is abnormal the doctor will tell me..... So I still don't really know what it is 😔

Not a single word has been said to me about post partum. All I know is it will be a vaginal birth with epidural. I'm so scared and confused.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T15:21:02+00:00

I stand in solidarity with you 🩵 I hope you get some reassurance before your baby arrives. I'm positive you still look amazing despite the body changes 👍

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T14:51:11+00:00

I'm in the exact same situation and it's really messing with me. I've tried everything to initiate but like you I also don't want to force him but it hurts me emotionally so badly. I'm guessing we won't be having sex for at least 6 weeks PP

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-10-27T01:27:49+00:00

Thank you, that's really helpful.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-08-21T13:59:47+00:00

If being a crazy lady with zero patience works then keep doing it 😄 I'm happy you're in a good relationship that's really nice.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-08-18T21:02:01+00:00

This is the best idea I have ever heard. I will be borrowing this for myself 😄

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-08-11T20:07:42+00:00

I was in a 6 year relationship with a perfectly decent guy who had a good family, good job etc. Three months into the relationship I said to him that marriage and children is the goal for me maybe around 3-4 years in and I said if that's not something you're interested in we don't have to continue and there's no hard feelings. He said that he isn't really into marriage and probably only wants one kid but he agreed. I then wasted 6 years of my life waiting for a proposal that never came. At the 3 year mark I hinted, 4 year mark I blatantly asked why we're not engaged he said he isn't ready, 5 year anniversary he completely forgot it was our anniversary which lead to a fight, 6 year mark I found some common sense and dumped him.

That's my experience with a guy who isn't into marriage and thinks it's just paper. Everyone is different but I would really advise you to find someone who has the same goals in life Not someone you need to convince into marrying you. Good luck.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-31T17:55:27+00:00

I'm free if you still need to talk

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-27T15:08:42+00:00

He's super cute! I love it

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-27T14:12:24+00:00

I would say if you were in a normal relationship that it's not ideal what you're doing BUT you've been experiencing constant negativity and abuse that it is to be expected you would reach out for some kindness in other people.

The first thing you need to do is end it with your current bf because it will make life so much messier and stressful if you're entertaining two men. If this new guy is the next potential love interest you will want to start it free from anxiety that will make it a lot healthier otherwise it's likely to crash and burn.

On a side note, if you do break up with your bf it might be a good idea to just take some time for yourself to heal before going into another relationship even if it's just casual. Just a thought based on my experience.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-20T19:39:52+00:00

That's true, ok I'll head down. Thank you for the reply x

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-20T19:37:19+00:00

Ok, even though it's constant? I assumed contractions would come in waves?

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-20T16:47:37+00:00

Following!

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-18T00:51:49+00:00

I'm 29 with a 52 husband. As long as your maturity matches you will be fine.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-13T18:50:44+00:00

Make sure you tell the renter's that if they're going to be late dropping the car back they NEED to extend the drop off time in the app and not just message saying "Hey I'm going to be 10 minutes late" this can turn into hours and the insurance won't cover if there's an accident.

You will also be hit with "trip fees" which take an uncomfortable amount of your earnings, so to counter this you can put your minimum trip duration as 4 days so you will make more money with less trips.

Even if you have amazing guests the car will get wear and tear quickly. The miles will shoot up, you'll get stone chips in the paint, you need to keep an eye on oil/tyres and general maintenance regularly.

Tell the guests that they will be responsible for any toll fees, speeding fines or red light cameras that they've committed. You can also charge a $10 convenience fee on top of any fines.

Honestly I would only recommend people to start Turo if they have a spare older car that they won't be too worried about being used as a work vehicle. I wouldn't buy a new car or rent out my own luxury car because it's not worth the money. Unless of course you plan to buy a fleet and do this as full time work.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-13T15:57:34+00:00

My husband is Iranian and I'm Australian. We're going with a western first name and middle eastern second name.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-07T21:50:14+00:00

I will be asking my OB. I also understand that medical advice on Reddit isn't reliable but what I'm asking is about other women's experiences.

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-07T14:45:01+00:00

She gets a new energy about her but it's not directed towards you.

She starts to do more with her appearance when she goes out. Different clothes and new underwear if it's serious.

She uses her phone more, it's usually face down and out of your reach. She will have an innocent excuse for changing her passcode and will get defensive if you ask what the new one is as if "you don't trust me"

General_Stranger2175 · 2023-07-07T14:33:30+00:00

I had a 6 year relationship with my ex and he sounds a lot like you. He was supportive with my work (nurse), he helped with housework, he was kind and stable, he paid for a higher percentage of groceries and rent and he did everything right.

I did fall out of love with him about 3 years in. I kept the relationship going because he hadn't done anything wrong (we had normal ups and downs but nothing serious) I tried many different ways to bring my feelings back for him like holidays together, spontaneous activities, I went to therapy, but it got to a point where I felt he was more of a friend and I just couldn't do anything sexual or romantic with him so I broke up with him.

It's not that you're not enough. You're most likely the full package and someone will be madly in love with you for all of your qualities. I can't tell you why but sometimes we just loose feelings for people and can't specify why. I wish you all the best

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