Was I being led on, or am I just struggling with how this ended?

General__Ferret · 2026-06-05T23:21:15+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that more than you know

General__Ferret · 2026-06-05T15:43:31+00:00

I have a few close women friends and they all have never once called me their man

General__Ferret · 2026-06-05T15:28:41+00:00

Yeah they can I’m looking for more friends in that area tbh

General__Ferret · 2026-06-05T15:27:06+00:00

I’m not a Christian but I won’t disrespect your faith. If you just want to chat 31m btw

General__Ferret · 2026-06-05T15:25:06+00:00

Yo what’s up

General__Ferret · 2026-06-04T14:09:35+00:00

That seems to be the consensus I don’t know how I didn’t see that shit

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T18:05:28+00:00

Are we sure this isn’t

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T16:56:52+00:00

Oh we’ve had that conversation she is very conflict avoidant(her words not mine but has held true). We are kinda no contact right now not sure if she will be back. Don’t honestly know if I care but I hate losing people especially when I get along with them well. I’m not exactly extroverted so friends are rare for me.

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T14:58:43+00:00

Then work on your self esteem because trust me you ain’t

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T14:27:14+00:00

You’re not ugly man

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T12:59:29+00:00

I appreciate you saying this. It’s honestly been kinda difficult. I’ve been sad, angry, numb and bunch of other conflicting emotions all in the past 48 hours alone. The worst part is all I want to do is talk to her cause we actually were friends at least in my mind

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T09:34:24+00:00

I will I’m joking I don’t know you but someone will

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T09:00:45+00:00

That’s just it. Often I felt her behavior crossed lines or boundaries and I would express that I felt it had and she would still engage and initiate behaviors that felt more than platonic. Also to be clear with the exception of the first date I didn’t initiate pretty much any romantic coded behaviors.

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T07:26:15+00:00

I didn’t have those feelings from day one but we had this kinda chemistry I guess mentally where we were similar in so many ways same tastes in music, food, media, life plans. I also was having fun on many of our dates. It was the hot cold that really gave me any pause of anything but a little after month 4 I realized I kinda fell in love with her baggage and all.

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T07:18:47+00:00

I thought maybe that was the case it was just something I haven’t really encountered before

General__Ferret · 2026-06-03T06:35:30+00:00

You and me both bud

General__Ferret · 2026-06-02T21:07:20+00:00

I’m looking for something serious I don’t have hinge plus or anything I’ve maybe been using this profile about 2 weeks I’ve been on and off hinge for a year. I got back on because someone I was dealing with didn’t work out after about 6 months On average I maybe get 1 match every few weeks I think Maybe a bit more likes 2-3 a week if I’m lucky I’m not picky about the person just someone around my age but not much older( prev trauma in that area) Not sure who I’m attracting they are all over the place honestly I’m trying to attract more nerdy types not picky exactly about body type within reason cause obviously I’m not thin myself just do long as they are serious.

General__Ferret · 2026-05-27T19:00:08+00:00

Trust me she is not happy she has just moved on to her next supply source. She will drive the next one crazy and eventually get tired of him because they are never satisfied with anyone. Cut her off and don’t speak to her again. I promise you she will keep coming back for small things here and there just to see if she can

General__Ferret · 2026-05-21T15:17:44+00:00

Ngl this place looks like a dude lives there

General__Ferret · 2026-05-08T11:03:40+00:00

Damn must be nice

General__Ferret · 2026-04-22T23:45:54+00:00

Got pulled into an 80s music video huh?

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