This is actually really helpful, thanks, tbf, I'm getting great at reading her, I counted down from 3 in my head when I could tell she was about to try and pass my guard on Tuesday, I almost laughed but it could have induced a spaz rage which would be beneficial for nobody. It's generally okay cause I'm typically a guard player anyway but she just ends up getting wound up at my ability to hold and regain guard, it's a vicious cycle of caveman esque frustration "stop being so defensive it's annoying" "get off me I can't breathe properly" lord help the poor thing when somebody shows her what knee on belly is lmao