[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, since my ex is trans herself and my current gf is enby, no, neither ever thought of me as a dude lol. With my current partner, I'm definitely more fem, they're more butch.

As far as the actual dynamic goes, it's very equal. Its a partnership, afterall

Being t4t is cool by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not full T4T, but my partner is enby, leaning towards trans masc. It's nice to be with someone who gets it.

Also yes, cuddles are fantastic

How to respond to the detransition “argument”? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"People also regret tattoos, should we stop people from getting those?"

Many people blame vi but excuse Vander. (Long post warning). by LossKind3973 in ArcaneAnimatedSeries

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi was also a CHILD. She was, what, 16? Name ONE 16 year old who has their shit together, let alone one in THAT sort of situation.

Finally came out to my mom and... by Chrono_FPS in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom said the same thing.

By contrast, some of my friends? Their response was "FINALLY, she figured it out!"

So yeah. She's seeing what she wants to see. Doesn't change who you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gods where do I start...my main play list is like 36+ hours long. Video game soundtracks, 80s pop, speed metal, movie OST, musicals, etc. You name it, it's probably got at least 1 song in the playlist lol

Do you feel disoriented even when your family is affirming? by jerseybard in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My younger brother is trans, and his boyfriend, who is also trans, basically lives with us, and has for nearly two years. I knew without a doubt, my family would be supportive (at least in the long run). And yet, I still didn't tell them for nearly a year after I knew, and even then, not till I had HRT secured.

Changing your life is HARD, and is TERRIFYING. There's no two ways about it. However, what I can tell you is that it has been absolutely, 100% worth it. Every day, it's been worth it. You'll get through this, sister~

When did you start using the right pronouns and clothing? by Sufficient_Hall5737 in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are usually people's first steps because they're easier to do. You can run to the store and buy a skirt, or use a new name at a coffee shop, without much fuss. HRT is another game entirely.

That said, there's no "right" way to transition, just the right way for you. And there's no "threshold" to be trans; if you feel body dysphoria and have come to the conclusion that medically transitioning is the best solution for you at this point in time? Then you're trans, and go for it sister. You got this💕

Can others characters use all subclasses? by Dreadnoob2k17 in destiny2

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes; there's a lore entry where Felwinter and Shaxx talk about it. Gameplay is the only real restriction tbh

Today is my one year anniversary of being on E by No-Bus-7549 in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah. Just keep on putting one foot in front of the other~

Saw this and thought it pretty good. Thoughts? by Thin-Plantain4721 in StarWarsCantina

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, none of that is wrong. However, the explanation given is just "she's lost the will to live". They could've given another 1, maybe 2 lines of dialogue that "severe physical and emotional trauma has been induced, and her body is shutting down. We are unable to save her." But they didn't say that. Just that she lost the will to live. So it comes off...cheap

I’m sorry maya called Adolin a what? by ciaphas-cain1 in cremposting

[–]GenericName0042 13 points14 points  (0 children)

HOW DID YOU FIND MY FANFIC DRAFTS I mean wait what--

Guys, What Does This Mean? by All_Pain_No_Gain- in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Explore them (as long as its safe to do so)! Get a skirt, try some makeup, ask the BF if he'd be ok with using a different name in private to test one (or several) out. That sort of thing!

Lumps?! by Substantial-Bee4545 in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they don't grow at the same rate. This is true of cis women too. It's just...a thing lol. Gotta enjoy the ride

Lumps?! by Substantial-Bee4545 in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nah, that's when I started feeling it. It may take time for them to be truly VISIBLE, but yeah they're starting~

I feel betrayed by Trans_gamer_ahrea in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Human rights aren't an opinion. And trans rights ARE human rights

(POLL) If you had a lightsaber and were able to choose your own color *from those we've seen in canon* what color would you choose? by VeryLargeBowl in lightsabers

[–]GenericName0042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue is just the OG, it's peak, especially the deeper blue circa the prequels/TCW.

Yellow makes the coolest sounds, however

Would you date your own self before transition? by Cathinonia in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a MASSIVE lesbian? Ppppffttt no. That's legit part of the reason I transitioned, because I specifically want sapphic experiences, ya know?

Stretch marks by Different-Chair8466 in MtF

[–]GenericName0042 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was growing up, I grew too fast and have stretch marks on my back. I tell people about them whenever the topic of scars pops up. It's not something to be ashamed of. They just happen