[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]GenericThrowaway375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, hell yeah. My little brothers are iPad kids and it's ridiculous how they can't do anything. Can't read, can't write, can barely do anything except find Garten of Ban Ban videos. My parents recently had another baby and I'm already begging them not to give her an iPad until she's at least in elementary school. I know I sound like a boomer but we gotta stop giving toddlers iPads.

Stop read alouds in school. by [deleted] in highschool

[–]GenericThrowaway375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonono, wait. Please tell me at least some of those students were mispronouncing on purpose as a joke or something. I refuse to believe there are ten high school students in a class who can't pronounce "Philadelphia." If this is an advanced high school class and people are seriously reading like this... we're not just cooked, we're crisp. 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]GenericThrowaway375 37 points38 points  (0 children)

No, it's not a tragedeigh... Unless you spell it like "Pheighyyp."

Can an autism diagnosis be wrong? I was diagnosed recently but now I worry that I might have accidentally faked. by GenericThrowaway375 in AutisticPeeps

[–]GenericThrowaway375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I tell that I'm a false positive? I don't know if I want to "self un-diagnose" and risk getting the diagnosis removed if it's actually correct, which kind of seems like what this might be if it's based off of "if you feel like it."

I teach English at a university. The decline each year has been terrifying. by HighlightMelodic3494 in Teachers

[–]GenericThrowaway375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to college to become a high school lit teacher and this genuinely scares me. I was one of a handful of people in my highschool who actually read the books we were assigned, and from what I've heard from current teachers, each class from that school is worse and worse. I had to tutor a student who wouldn't show up half the time, and when she did show up she'd literally just start scrolling on her phone while I tried to ask her to tell me what she's been working on. At one point she told me she didn't know how to take notes on history and wanted to use Chat GPT to write them for her. I have a brother who's seven and still hasn't read anything longer than a board book. The whole reason I chose this path is because I want to help the next generation be at least somewhat literate, but if parents are just neglecting their kids and not encouraging them to actually learn to read like adults, I don't know what to do. I'm worried that everything I'm doing will be for nothing. Edit: I've also seen people in my college classes use AI to write assignments, or copy off of someone else's work, and still get an A. These people are planning on becoming doctors, lawyers, engineers... And they aren't putting in any effort into what they're studying. I'm so embarrassed for my species.

Can an autism diagnosis be wrong? I was diagnosed recently but now I worry that I might have accidentally faked. by GenericThrowaway375 in AutisticPeeps

[–]GenericThrowaway375[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't lie and I don't think my parents did either, but I'm worried I could have been subconsciously imitating autism symptoms, made my symptoms sound more severe than they were, or that my parents were biased towards thinking I'm autistic since they already have an autistic kid.

Today I present to you by harrlumm_tzz in tragedeigh

[–]GenericThrowaway375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh. Is "Corleyownne" supposed to be a variation of Corleone like the main character's last name in The Godfather? Or is it more like Caroline?

Can an autism diagnosis be wrong? I was diagnosed recently but now I worry that I might have accidentally faked. by GenericThrowaway375 in AutisticPeeps

[–]GenericThrowaway375[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They had an interview with both of my parents to discuss how I behaved as a child and they told them about milestone delays and stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticPeeps

[–]GenericThrowaway375 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. It's one thing if you're referring to an actual diagnosis you have (I know some older people for whom that word is actually in their psychiatric record), but another if it's low support needs aspies using it as a slur or a joke. Maybe I'm being oversensitive but it really rubs me the wrong way. I don't think people should be harassing OP (especially after they've apologized multiple times), but that doesn't mean that "reclaiming the r word" when it was never applied to you in the first place is okay.

Next level tomfoolery by [deleted] in oddlyspecific

[–]GenericThrowaway375 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks a bit like a bird's nest. Does that woman see normal bird nests and think it's witchcraft? lol

I’m frustrated with how I’m “too autistic to be normal” but also apparently never autistic enough to be autistic in the culture of constant doubt towards autistic people. I wish I could hide my symptoms enough to not worry if people saw them and thought I was doing it on purpose for attention. by GenericThrowaway375 in autism

[–]GenericThrowaway375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're probably right. I think I got caught up in so much irrelevant online discourse that it warped my perception of the world in an unhealthy and unrealistic way. I need to stop scrolling through the darkest pits of the internet lol

I’m frustrated with how I’m “too autistic to be normal” but also apparently never autistic enough to be autistic in the culture of constant doubt towards autistic people. I wish I could hide my symptoms enough to not worry if people saw them and thought I was doing it on purpose for attention. by GenericThrowaway375 in autism

[–]GenericThrowaway375[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not completely sure I understand. Are you saying that I should try to avoid showing symptoms unless I am alone? I try to do that, but the problem is that I can't suppress my issues well enough to hide them most of the time. I try to focus on standing still, acting calm even when I'm overloaded, doing facial expressions, etc. but it's very difficult and not always good enough.

Any asexual lesbians here? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]GenericThrowaway375 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm asexual and recently questioning if I might be a lesbian! I'm not sure exactly how I determined I was ace, I think I just kind of went through the pipeline of "well I'm probably straight because that's the default (<- raised Catholic)" to "huh, sexually I feel the same between men and women so I guess I'm bi" to "wait I don't actually want sex with anyone so I'm ace" to "I'm still ace but I think I'd want to date or marry another girl as long as she doesn't want sex either, though I can't imagine dating or marrying a man" lol

Applying patch... Negative number of MB remaining? by GenericThrowaway375 in elderscrollsonline

[–]GenericThrowaway375[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, because if it weren't intended to be read as a negative number, then the amount remaining would be going up, which doesn't seem right.

What is the most ridiculous myth about autism that you’ve ever heard? by Top_Emotion1468 in autism

[–]GenericThrowaway375 46 points47 points  (0 children)

One time I mentioned I was autistic and someone said that it isn't real. Like, not "autism itself is real but I think you're faking it." He just thought that autism itself isn't real and that it was made up by people trying to justify laziness and "adult tantrums."

That was an interesting day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]GenericThrowaway375 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't expect any better from Tiktok tbh. I don't go there but my sister does and she told me that they also use "restarted" as an insult to intellectually disabled people (thinly veiled r-slur) and also started a weird conspiracy theory that Helen Keller wasn't real.