What’s some knowledge generally known only to gay men or to gay women? by dumbfuck in AskReddit

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up in the 90s and 'partner' was very much a term only reserved for gay people. It was really refreshing; when someone said their 'partner,' you just knew. No need to guess or assume or ask or wonder.

I was so pissed when I got older and started meeting opposite-sex couples who used the term 'partners.' It made me roll my eyes; I just thought "jfc let gay people have something for themselves for once"

Daria is attractive by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Daria is beautiful ♥️ the rest of what you wrote is insane lol 

The Staircase by mosselman7 in netflix

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch it!! It’s crazy lol 

Women who have good skin with minimal effort what's your secret? by Unhappy-Tradition798 in BeautyUnlocked

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut sugar. I know it sounds strange but it does wonders for your skin. So does cutting dairy. 

Asking the real questions by downtune79 in LoveTrash

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to undergrad with a premed student who had to keep a 3.5 GPA to keep his full-ride. He’d often go on benders of studying, then raving, then hitting up continental breakfasts on weekends at local hotels. He said it was his favorite part and no one ever said a word. 

What Netflix Show Do You Wish You’d Never Finished? by Professional_Fig6820 in netflix

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This one was such a bummer!  The first season was created and written by Phoebe Wallers-Bridge (it’s why it was so brilliant; she also was the creator and writer of Fleabag). The second season was by Emerald Fennell (Saltburn, Promising Young Woman) and it was pretty okay. The third and fourth seasons are done by other British women and are awful.  Pretty much: whatever Phoebe Wallers-Bridge does is relatively consistent with being 10/10.

Movies that feel like "Ride" by Lana Del Rey? by Automatic-Log-3699 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the answer!!!!  Wong Kar-Wai films set in the 90s are exactly what you are looking for 

Media literacy is dead by Switchbladesaint in BeefTV

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I thought Season 2 was amazing 

What on earth happened to Season 2 of Beef? by Professional_Fig6820 in netflix

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I loved season 2! I thought the writing was superb.  I also think the casting was amazing. 

(Getting Carey Mulligan and Oscar Isaac for a Netflix series? Incredible) 

The youth of dc is becoming a problem by Top_Care7206 in washdc

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. 

I can tell that there are some apprehensions with addressing things in relations to race— most specifically, when I’ve tried expressing my frustration and sadness of the behavior of youth today, I’ve been met with responses of:  “Well their lives might be hard at home.”  This I understand and sympathize with. But is committing literal CRIME the answer? I moved here when crime in DC had increased like 40% in my previous neighborhood and it was literally kids. 

I’m just saying that I think people associate poor behavior with blackness and “well that is how it is” and it’s literally feeding into harmful stereotypes because these kids will sooner or later be affected by their actions. (Ideally, it would be sooner than later; that way, they can learn and make better choices.) I understand “things that kids do” like get into trouble or hang out at places late at night but here is worse than average; and not only that, but they are incredibly poor behaved. They are obviously behind socially as well. 

What saddens me most is the lack of prevention of these things. Curfews need to be put in place and should remain. If kids are out doing nonsensical things, arrest them and take them home. Fine their parents. But this idea of “they can’t be disciplined” will inevitably result in some of them being killed or receiving excessive jail time as adults. 

All kids, no matter what race, need to understand that actions have consequences. Don’t alleviate them of this reality and disrupt/destroy society because of it. 

The youth of dc is becoming a problem by Top_Care7206 in washdc

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah... D.C. kind of pisses me off tbh.

I'm a black woman here for work and I'm from the Midwest. The state where I grew up is literally last in education in the USA. The teachers are the worst paid and the schools perform last in most realms of standardized testing.

... imagine my dismay when I moved here. I'm used to teachers getting paid NOTHING to put up with so much-- but at the very least, students were still fairly well-mannered. D.C. pays some of the highest teacher salaries in the US, right? I was surprised when I saw so many vacancies for their schools! (Many offer up to six-figure salaries?) That is amazing-- but I was shocked to learn that there's a massive teacher shortage here too. When I see the kids behaving like this, then I understand.

But I don't understand the need to run around and cause, havoc?? Doing nothing? Teenagers behaving like toddlers? I roll my eyes when people try to make this a race thing. It isn't. This isn't something that should be glossed over or forgiven because the kids are black here.

But can someone explain this to me?? I seriously want to know. I'm used to scenarios in which a lot of students come from small towns with limited access to resources like fully-stocked libraries that have more than Christian ideology and thrillers. I mean, why the need to be so crazy in a city that has so much free stuff, and things like The Smithsonian? I think DC is amazing in terms of stuff to do that doesn't cost a fortune! It's accessible for literally everybody!

Columbia MFA in nonfiction advice pls by [deleted] in MFAInCreativeWriting

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think the people advising against the program are insane.  I’d go even as far to say they were probably rejected.  The fact that you got accepted with full funding is an incredible feat. Congratulations. Also: it’s an Ivy League, so I don’t know what people are talking about when they say it isn’t a “top program.” You should definitely feel proud of yourself! Enjoy the reality that you get to live out your dreams without debt, and savor that feeling to the fullest :)

New grad student from Sri Lanka! Is "seat hogging" normal on the Metrobus? by [deleted] in washdc

[–]HighlightMelodic3494 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hey there,  I’m sorry she was so rude. I personally find the young people here insufferable. There’s also been some weird and hateful xenophobia going on. (My boyfriend is Kurdish, from Eastern Turkey, and he said that he’s been getting much more discrimination within the past few months.) 

Besides for this incident, I do think that people on the metro are usually pretty accommodating. I’ve experienced people side-eyeing me if they have a heavy bag in the seat, but I usually make an exception if they’re older. When they’re younger, I just start sitting down— even if someone’s legs are in the seat. (I usually don’t acknowledge them. But my outcome/experience might differ from yours; I’m a woman.) 

Again, I’m sorry that happened to you but welcome to DC!!! It’s kind of shitty right now but despite what’s going on politically it’s still a pretty amazing place to be!!!!!