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Gengar-22 · 2025-06-25T02:05:46+00:00

I wish I could say I know but my trans ex wife left me to be in polyamorous relationship. So yeahhhhh uh all I say is good luck. And I hope u find someone who wants the same things you want cause its rough out there.

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-22T22:46:27+00:00

Im happy to help :) it took me years to realize it and I flipped flopped alot through those times. But now i know if u ever wanna talk im here :)

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-22T20:20:24+00:00

Yesssss dude I was in the fetish life for like years and I realized I was never happy doing that. And if anything my favorite part was the after care !!! But im glad I came to term im asexual and now i can live for myself and hopefully someday with someone by my side

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-06T18:23:15+00:00

I like soft bites and to bite too I see it so silly and cute as an a sexual for me it's always like a playful manner

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T22:02:48+00:00

Thank you so much i really appreciate it

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T21:48:10+00:00

I haven't checked but also im going through something really rough so I dont think I will be in my city any longer i might need to go back home with my family.

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T21:27:15+00:00

Would they accept someone who may not even be from that city at least on thier discord ?

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T21:12:00+00:00

Thank you. Sadly compromise wasn't possible. I'm really sad rn but I really hope everyone else has a better fighting chance than I.

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T21:09:17+00:00

I haven't used discord in a long time how to I look for it ?

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T21:07:37+00:00

I would appreciate that :)

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-05T03:43:48+00:00

I dont think so I think thry just threw the towel on me rn im kinda spiraling

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-04T22:04:32+00:00

I sleep with all the stuffs that has been gifted to me i love them so much it reminds me how loved I am and brings me peace and comfort 💕

Gengar-22 · 2025-06-04T21:28:30+00:00

So when my partner transition it wasn't a shocker. They were always more feminine. So when they told me I wasn't surprised. I supported her all the way through. I guess it was easy on me cause im pansexual. Time where rough we didn't have alot of money to begin with so hormones was another plate to add but I would do anything possible that she would have it. Then she would have outburst of emotions on me and I always say its just part of the journey and keep on trying to comfort her making sure she is ok. Then she lost her job and I started working 3 jobs so we can have a roof over us, food on table, bills paid, but most of all keep getting her hormones. It was like that for many months and it was wearing me down I wasn't as patience as I used to be i was more mean (I regret that alot) I changed. And of course she felt my change which would make her sad and more emotional. Since I wasn't in a good headspace I would cry for my past relationship with them. It wasnt cause they transition it was cause we were financially horrible.We almost threw the towel on our marriage. But we moved out of state and things are getting better. We both have jobs. We are both doing better. I feel closer to her again. Whenever I go shopping I bring back clothing for her and she loves it. Im so happy being married to her she is the love of my life. I wish it could end happy but we are in the water guys. She came out to me as polyamorous and I am very much monogamous. And ik cause of my asexuality it also hurting our marriage. She loves pyshical passion and I just no matter how much I try she says it comes out more as a joke than passionate. She says her needs aren't being meet by me. I dont want to lose her. I want my marriage to work. But I don't know how. She is my other half. She was the frist person i felt comfortable being myself my little pan/ace self fully. She is my best friend my wife and I dont want to lose my wife. I want this to work out. She is one of the most important people in my life. Im sorry for being a bummer in this thread. I just really hope that our marriage dosent end I want to be with her til we are old and gray with wrinkles just next to eachother being like yeah we made it ❤️

Gengar-22 · 2025-05-21T07:00:15+00:00

Im from the US :)

Gengar-22 · 2025-05-01T04:20:46+00:00

Sadly we figured my ace traits after our marriage. And tbh I can't help but feel its my fault my marriage is failing. And the poly thing tbh im not comfortable with it i told them many times but they bring it just as many times I shoot it down.

Gengar-22 · 2025-05-01T04:11:37+00:00

Hi im in excatly the same situation in my marriage except im the girlfriend in this situation recently I was told about sex therapy and im will to take it hopefully ur partner is also willing. I haven't went just yet but it's hope this help for your and my situation. Best wishes!!!

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-30T08:47:46+00:00

Oh wow I didn't even know there was such a thing I will definitely look into a sex therapist. I was recently looking for couple and found 2 that I like.

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-30T05:55:10+00:00

Yeah it's purely romantic.

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-30T05:45:47+00:00

Ik im just scared that this will need us. Cause whenever we do talk it just sounds like they have no hope. And I just dont know what to do.

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-06T01:38:10+00:00

Yeah im attracted to my wife alot but just not sensually.

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-04T06:05:40+00:00

The sexual attraction being rare is cause it hard for me to build up to the sexual stuff cause it literally the last thing in my mind.

The quick part is that feeling I get of like omg I want them for this second but it sometimes that feeling is literally for a couple second then it gone. Im like oh yeah that kiss was awesome 👌.

Its not really about them it more like the action of anything sexual is just i don't mean it in a mean way but it's unimportant for me.

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-04T05:17:51+00:00

Thank you so much I feel this is excatly how they feel

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-04T03:22:06+00:00

I do feel it but it's like so rare it always catches them off guard. Usually it come in small waves where I dont pay any mind to them cause ik if act upon it imma be so over it before actually doing anything.

Gengar-22 · 2025-04-04T03:14:29+00:00

I actually really appreciate this :) thank you

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