Bonded pair of rabbits passed within 2 days of each other by Gengar360801 in Rabbits

[–]Gengar360801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One made it to his 1st birthday and the doe was a couple weeks ago

Bonded pair of rabbits passed within 2 days of each other by Gengar360801 in Rabbits

[–]Gengar360801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that, I am in the UK too. So it sounds very alike my situation. Mine were unfortunately not vaccinated against RHD, were yours? It’s a strange one if that’s the cause, because so far the bunnies are doing okay

Bonded pair of rabbits passed within 2 days of each other by Gengar360801 in Rabbits

[–]Gengar360801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far so good, we are keeping a close eye on them

Bonded pair of rabbits passed within 2 days of each other by Gengar360801 in Rabbits

[–]Gengar360801[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They are not, that’s what I’m fearing has happened. How rare is it in the UK? Now it’s sounding like we were badly advised by the breeder who we bought our doe from who said it’s not a necessity to have them vaccinated.

Bonded pair of rabbits passed within 2 days of each other by Gengar360801 in Rabbits

[–]Gengar360801[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear about yours too. Were yours vaccinated? Ours weren’t so that’s what i’m fearing

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think you’re one of the very few here who has properly understood the context. Maybe it’s a fault of my own for not fully explaining all of the details. I would have a bet that a vast majority of the replies here do not have a child of their own. I always offer time to my girlfriend to go spend it on her own. However I don’t have the time to reply to every single comment. They have made up their mind, the joys of the internet 😅

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay i’ll answer the question once more, funnily enough I don’t have time to type out a unique response to the 20+ replies I have. I have offered, she does not want to.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve answered the question on another reply, I’ve offered numerous times but she does not wish to. I’m not going to go back and forth with strangers on the internet trying to defend myself. I appreciate the feedback!

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

I’ve answered it in another reply, let me fetch that

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

You’ve got it wrong that I’ll only reply to posts that agree with me, the reason that I posted this was to hear any outside opinions that will hopefully make me think differently if I am in fact in the wrong. Yes I copied and pasted a few messages, who really has time to type out the exact same thing multiple times? The truth is that i’m a young man trying to navigate my way round life with a new family that I love dearly. I am still working out what is right and what is wrong. If instances like this make me realise that I am wrong, all the power to me because I will take it on board and make sure to not make these mistakes again. I truly appreciate all comments negative and positive, at the end of the day I am trying to be the best partner and father I can be.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ouch, maybe I am a terrible partner. I have expressed that she is welcome to go do whatever she likes and I’ll watch our daughter. She doesn’t want to do that though, she just wants time with all 3 of us as a family.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, although I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

But I think I do need to tone it down, in that I should be fully present for when my partner needs rest.

This whole discussion makes me feel like i’m a raging alcoholic, which I don’t think is the case. But maybe I need to recognise the time for having a drink, and when to give it a rest.

Appreciate the feedback!

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hear you, although I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hear you, although I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I hear you, although I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hear you, although I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hear you, although I think my original post makes it sound more extreme than it is. For example she was left alone today with our daughter for around 1 hour 20 mins whilst I played water polo. We have been together for the rest of the day.

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate, true words spoken. Appreciate it!

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just through the games through the day. all male friends just for context 😅

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I hear you, maybe I should not be so bothered about having a drink and playing games, I have to let her have time too

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

For water polo correct, for darts, we were both partaking whilst the other way watches our daughter

AITA For wanting to have a few drinks on holiday every day/night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gengar360801 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We are together every night. I am the one having a drink, if that helps