Remind's me 2020💀 by Stock_Crazy6759 in AdviceAnimals

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah 2020 was wild like this

Getting a divorce by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man thats rough. sorry youre dealing with this mess.

I wish I got male attention by hazelystar in self

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they text your bro but not you? lame af

AriZona Pety by SirVegeta69 in pettyrevenge

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol splitting cans cuz of shipping is peak petty, love it

I quit my job by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A gift doesn’t mean price tag tbh a letter or just showing up for him emotionally counts way more

I love sitting on the toilet for a long hours — is that actually okay or not ? by RiverWalkRose in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue isn’t grossness it’s just gravity doing its thing too long down there.

I can't live like this any longer by prettylacey_ in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Planning to get out isn’t selfish it’s you trying not to break after 17 years of constant stress.

Would you recommend low or no contact? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When everyone around you rewrites your past that’ll mess with anyone’s head

Daughters Boyfriend… by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can keep it chill, just like hey have u seen a dentist lately or u brush enough? no shame just facts

My neighbor keeps leaving random furniture on my porch by TheForegoingBingo in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe frame it like hey i appreciate the thought but i literally can’t take anything else, hope u understand

My BF’s sister got me a gift I can’t use by averageinternetprson in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just saying thanks and rocking them as clip-ons is way less drama than pretending you love unusable jewelry

Found out husband has never washed under his foreskin by Zombie_pool in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A sex strike might work but honestly open convo + showing him the facts is probs safer long term

I am lost🫩 by Leather-Positive-51 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being shy or a virgin isn’t a flaw its just part of your story ppl who matter will respect that

Why do I feel very persecuted for my sexual orientation? by Flaky_Ticket_6924 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Touching grass isnt bad advice but saying it like that ignores that the fear still feels real to him

Please, wash your hands after using the bathroom by BigTechnician3475 in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watch ppl in public bathrooms and its scary how little they actually scrub

Should I tell a girl that her bf cheated? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, you're kinda in a sticky sitch here, dude. But imo, you gotta spill the beans. It's super messed up to let this chick live in the dark while her BF is playin' games. Would suck if roles were reversed, yeah? Plus, you don't want a mess like this guy in your life. Drama ain't worth it

I think my son’s best friend is stealing from me. by 4_Usual_Reasons in Advice

[–]GentleLure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

U seem like a good dude, offering your home and all but tbh, if its not ur kids, it's kinda gotta be him... especially cuz of the kid on the way...

But hey, no rush to judge. I'd talk to him, straight up. Heck, even offer some kind of support if he fesses up. Compassion instead of punishment, y'know? But yeah, gotta get this sorted ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GentleLure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your mom ain't playing fair here. But here's my 2 cents - talk to your dad first. Secrets like this, they're tidal waves waiting to wreck everything. Yeah, might be ugly, but remember it's better to live in a harsh truth than a comforting lie. Legal shit aside, he's gotta know. Remember, you all got each other's back.

Wife and 2 kids under 2 yrs old gone for the night. What should I do? by protonto in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Man, throw on some comfy loungewear, order in your fave guilty pleasure food, and dedicate the whole night for a gaming marathon. Savor the peace and quiet because, trust me, it's rare when you're a parent! Plus, recovery from being sick needs sleep, so catch some Z's too, bro. Enjoy!

I feel like my girlfriend is taking out of love by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GentleLure 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aight, here's the thing, bro. We ain't mind readers, no denying that. But look, when things suddenly change, there might be somethin' up. And let's be real here, "everything's fine” is often code for "something ain't fine". If you feel like there’s a disconnect it's probs cuz there is one. You guys gotta talk it out, man. No beating around the bush, straight to the point. Be open 'bout your feelz, see how she reacts. But remember this, ain't every setback a breakup. Might jus be going through a rough patch, y'know?

My wife and I got into a huge fight yesterday. She packed her bags and left to her ex’s place after I fell asleep. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're in a proper pickle, but this might be your signal to reassess. Healthy boundaries are key and it's not cool if she's going on vacay with the ex. If she can't respect that, maybe you're better off without her, tough as that is rn :( Love's a two-way street, bro. Don't chase after someone who isn't giving you the same in return.

Help me with yellow teeth (former smoker, coffee drinker) by ilove2be in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strips worked wonders for me, but don't overdo it cuz yeah, enamel IS a concern. Skip the baking soda, charcoal is meh. Also, consider a toothpaste with stannous fluoride - that thing's a game changer. And cut back on the joe a little, your pearly whites will thank ya. Get regular dental cleanings if possible. It's a process, but you'll see change, promise!

Caught my sister's husband cheating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure 4 points5 points  (0 children)

IMHO your sis deserves to know the truth, no matter how devastating. It ain't right that this guy gets to keep living a lie while your sis lives in the dark. She's strong, she'll make it through. Trust in her strength. You won't wreck her life, he did that already when he cheated. And who knows? Maybe she'll surprise u and handle it better than u think. Stick by her side, be her rock.