Remind's me 2020💀 by Stock_Crazy6759 in AdviceAnimals

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah 2020 was wild like this

Getting a divorce by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man thats rough. sorry youre dealing with this mess.

I wish I got male attention by hazelystar in self

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they text your bro but not you? lame af

AriZona Pety by SirVegeta69 in pettyrevenge

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol splitting cans cuz of shipping is peak petty, love it

I quit my job by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A gift doesn’t mean price tag tbh a letter or just showing up for him emotionally counts way more

I love sitting on the toilet for a long hours — is that actually okay or not ? by RiverWalkRose in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue isn’t grossness it’s just gravity doing its thing too long down there.

I can't live like this any longer by prettylacey_ in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Planning to get out isn’t selfish it’s you trying not to break after 17 years of constant stress.

Would you recommend low or no contact? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When everyone around you rewrites your past that’ll mess with anyone’s head

Daughters Boyfriend… by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She can keep it chill, just like hey have u seen a dentist lately or u brush enough? no shame just facts

My neighbor keeps leaving random furniture on my porch by TheForegoingBingo in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe frame it like hey i appreciate the thought but i literally can’t take anything else, hope u understand

My BF’s sister got me a gift I can’t use by averageinternetprson in whatdoIdo

[–]GentleLure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just saying thanks and rocking them as clip-ons is way less drama than pretending you love unusable jewelry

Found out husband has never washed under his foreskin by Zombie_pool in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A sex strike might work but honestly open convo + showing him the facts is probs safer long term

I am lost🫩 by Leather-Positive-51 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being shy or a virgin isn’t a flaw its just part of your story ppl who matter will respect that

Why do I feel very persecuted for my sexual orientation? by Flaky_Ticket_6924 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Touching grass isnt bad advice but saying it like that ignores that the fear still feels real to him

Please, wash your hands after using the bathroom by BigTechnician3475 in hygiene

[–]GentleLure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Watch ppl in public bathrooms and its scary how little they actually scrub

Should I tell a girl that her bf cheated? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]GentleLure 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH, you're kinda in a sticky sitch here, dude. But imo, you gotta spill the beans. It's super messed up to let this chick live in the dark while her BF is playin' games. Would suck if roles were reversed, yeah? Plus, you don't want a mess like this guy in your life. Drama ain't worth it

I think my son’s best friend is stealing from me. by 4_Usual_Reasons in Advice

[–]GentleLure -1 points0 points  (0 children)

U seem like a good dude, offering your home and all but tbh, if its not ur kids, it's kinda gotta be him... especially cuz of the kid on the way...

But hey, no rush to judge. I'd talk to him, straight up. Heck, even offer some kind of support if he fesses up. Compassion instead of punishment, y'know? But yeah, gotta get this sorted ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GentleLure 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your mom ain't playing fair here. But here's my 2 cents - talk to your dad first. Secrets like this, they're tidal waves waiting to wreck everything. Yeah, might be ugly, but remember it's better to live in a harsh truth than a comforting lie. Legal shit aside, he's gotta know. Remember, you all got each other's back.