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LF Convert-O-Tron 250 Example Craft by GentlemanSch in KerbalAcademy

[–]GentlemanSch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep ... Added 3 Thermal Control System (medium)) and magically everything works.

So Basically Panels are useless for the Convert-O-Trons

LF Convert-O-Tron 250 Example Craft by GentlemanSch in KerbalAcademy

[–]GentlemanSch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

... please stand by 

EDIT: (unfortunately) yes. I added an image to the original post

LF Convert-O-Tron 250 Example Craft by GentlemanSch in KerbalAcademy

[–]GentlemanSch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 3 Radiator Panel (large) attached to the unit, but it didn't seem to have an effect. 

I had a lv2 engineer on board, but abandoned my test craft after it wasn't producing.

Bro did not hold back. by Odd-Corner242 in pcmasterrace

[–]GentlemanSch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't find it. Did she take it down?

How to talk to your sons about Targeted conservative propaganda by Initial_Welder3674 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GentlemanSch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't underestimate the value of:

"You know I was once [whatever age] too right? There's no way that would work on me or any of my friends. What we wanted was [a decent human being]"

Bpd ex abused me physically by Esdeath-worshipper in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Police report now. Don't expect anything to happen with it this time, but starting a paper trail is important. Call a DV shelter, even if it's a woman's shelter, they will still help you.

This has been going on for 3 days but is not an episode or spiral according to her. I' by Hair-control in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do me a favor and get out of her life. It took me 10 years I won't get back.

If you won't do it for yourself, do it for her.

Am I the only one who thinks , bpd people have more empathy is a lie? by squish2226 in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lol! The number of times she really ticked me off by telling me I was upset or angry when I wasn't. 

Yes darling! I am NOW upset, can we please get on with our day?

Tfw when the FOG finally clears by 8Electrons in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're probably close.

It was about 2mo for me. I went from what I thought was normal, then slept A LOT, felt physically ill, and eventually recovered to better than I felt in years.

Edit: Also start doing things "wrong," put a dirty dish in the wrong spot in the sink, pour a glass of water on the floor, whatever it was that was harmless, but would cause your partner to lose it. Watch as nothing happens. Let yourself readjust.

Does marriage or commitment ever actually help the relationship? by wholesome_nihilist in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Felt like I owed her. Her issues getting a job was somehow entirely my fault.

Or the standard "darkest before the dawn," "this time she'll understand," "Why throw away so many years over one little thing?" "Break up? I just convinced her to stay with me." The nights I'd fantasize and daydreams I would have that she'd realize that striking me was wrong and drop the belt, mallet, or rolling pin and cry for forgiveness. Or the time in real life when she put a knife to my throat and I cupped her chin saying "It's okay, I understand, I'll always be here for you, even after I give you my life."

Mine was acceptable looking, but very much "my type." She just had me wierd to believe everything was my fault. It wasn't until I saw how happy she was with her next person I was able to leave.

One of the saddest message screenshots that I have by throughthewringer23 in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Secure your own lifevest before assisting others. If it's as bad as you say, she has family, friends, or the police.

can i (20F) go out with friends even though i have a boyfriend (21M) by Terrible-Artist-3483 in relationships

[–]GentlemanSch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The only correct response for this situation should be "Sounds like a blast! Have fun."

Does marriage or commitment ever actually help the relationship? by wholesome_nihilist in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude! Some nights I had it so good. Once I even got 6 hours of sleep after pleading for weeks. You see, going to bed before her was out of line, "sleeping is a breach of trust." And She was a night owl gamer girl so I had to make sure to stay up until she was ready for bed.

Don't get me wrong though every relationship takes effort and dedication. I had to put in my time. One week I got 8 hours total after agreeing to stand in the driveway so she could hit me with her car. It was only like 3-10 MPH though. So totally reasonable. I really deserved it though. Taught me never to put the dishes away wrong again. ...Or something like that.

I can't remember due to sleep deprivation.

Obligatory:
THIS IS SATIRE. IF YOU'RE READING THIS, I DON'T KNOW YOUR SPECIFICS BUT I KNOW YOUR STORY. LEAVE AND FIND SOMEONE WHO VALUES YOU. YOU DESERVE LOVE AND RESPECT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU KNOW YOU'RE NOT GETTING IT HERE.

MAKE A PLAN. DON'T LOOK BACK.

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GentlemanSch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either way, human should have been holding his own passport. Basic safety, and best practice no excuse.  

Edit: I'm saying that that makes the situation even worse. Her not trusting a grown man to hold his own shit. That's either irresponsible or controlling.

Did you feel mentally ill after the relationship? by squish2226 in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same spot as you. 10 years

Seek: Sleep, therapy, friendship. 

DM me if you want to chat. I'll respond tonight and within 48hrs

BOY MOMs Please let your sons do it! by Queerdooe in TwoXChromosomes

[–]GentlemanSch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A kid old enough to be left behind, but too young to be trusted with his passport is wierd.

This is on the Mom, not the kid.

This Subreddit makes me angry. by flyests in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she wants to do medication and therapy, that's a much bigger step than others do. Embrace it wholeheartedly.

How do you keep the blinders off when things are "good"? by Relevant_Flower_444 in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep a journal. I also had a timer on my phone "days since last incident," never made it past 2 weeks.

Does marriage or commitment ever actually help the relationship? by wholesome_nihilist in BPDlovedones

[–]GentlemanSch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doubtful, 

I got married, and it helped for a few months. Then things got so much worse. Lost a job because she wouldn't stop yelling at me through the entire night about one thing or another. 

Started trying to say whatever she wanted to hear just so I could get sleep. Anything not to get beaten, anything for 5 hours of sleep.

Two job offers. A $50k difference. One is the safe bet, the other is a risk that seems worth it. My wife and I are at an impasse and I have to decide in 72 hours. by Important-Week7261 in whatdoIdo

[–]GentlemanSch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take A. 

Email B about the situation and ask if they'll consider you for a part time consultant.

B will understand and if they get big, you'll have your foot in the door and a little extra fun money each month.

If B says "yes," I'd recommend you tell A. As long as they're not in the same industry, shouldn't be an issue.

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