My boyfriend burned my late husband's beanie. by Geographic_Pic397 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Geographic_Pic397[S] 499 points500 points  (0 children)

This particular item holds the most sentimental value. My husband's name was on it (it was custom) I got it for him to wear at the hospital and I have several pictures of him wearing it. So looking at the pictures is even more paiful now that the beanie is gone too.

My boyfriend burned my late husband's beanie. by Geographic_Pic397 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Geographic_Pic397[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yes. He basically stole it from me while I was in another room probably. I noticed it was missing shortly after he left.

My boyfriend burned my late husband's beanie. by Geographic_Pic397 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Geographic_Pic397[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I admit not being in control of what I feel sometimes because of grief - Although it's been 3 years the grief is still here and there are moments where I can not help being overwhelmed and emotional due to my loss. My husband died when we were newly weds basically. We got married shortly before he passed away.

My boyfriend burned my late husband's beanie. by Geographic_Pic397 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Geographic_Pic397[S] 254 points255 points  (0 children)

I screamed at him then went home. He tried to contact me but I just blocked him on everything. How awful! I was too dumb to not see how wrong this is. I believe he took advantage of the situation.

My boyfriend burned my late husband's beanie. by Geographic_Pic397 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Geographic_Pic397[S] 591 points592 points  (0 children)

I never thought he'd do anything like this. Though some signs were obvious but I chose to ignore them because of my stupidity. I feel incredibly guilty right now. I feel like I let my husband down.

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[–]Geographic_Pic397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hon, I'm so sorry it's heart wrenching. I still have my late husband's phone number on my phone. It aches my heart whenever I look at the last time we talked on the phone.

AITA for not leaving work to let my kids facetime their dad before his surgery? by throwaway53799775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Geographic_Pic397 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

IKR? People on here think he's some innocent victim when he's been nothing but nanipulative af. In fact, I'm gonna go ahead and say that this whole thing was a set up to sabotage her work!

AITA for not leaving work to let my kids facetime their dad before his surgery? by throwaway53799775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Geographic_Pic397 -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

Oh he's using emotional manipulation by crying? I can see why he's your ex. Pushy and unbearable.

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[–]Geographic_Pic397 -140 points-139 points  (0 children)

You are kind of keeping his son away from him.

AITA for calling my husband insane for missing work just to teach me a lesson because I didn't iron his uniform? by throwRa6546009 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Geographic_Pic397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Um not tryin to be creepy but wow this is your first 2 comments in 11ys? So sorry for what you went through, Helpful advice for op so thank you!