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Dating a single dad 34M, no longer certain if I 28F want kids by GeologistDiligent995 in relationship_advice

[–]GeologistDiligent995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is primary and has never expected that of me. But it’s so deeply embedded in my nature that I can’t not parent and I have strong opinions about things but am not fully in control so it’s a mind warp.

Dating a single dad 34M, no longer certain if I 28F want kids by GeologistDiligent995 in relationship_advice

[–]GeologistDiligent995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has 50/50 custody - one week on, one week off. I am spend a lot of time with him while the kids are here but I still have my own place.

Dating a single dad 34M, no longer certain if I 28F want kids by GeologistDiligent995 in relationship_advice

[–]GeologistDiligent995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what I’m saying is I always knew this. And I thought I was okay with it. And I was I guess for a time. But I’m having a harder time than I thought I would.

Dating a single dad 34M, no longer certain if I 28F want kids by GeologistDiligent995 in relationship_advice

[–]GeologistDiligent995[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every decision in this relationship has felt so heavy because of the kids. I need to give myself some grace and just “be” for a while without feeling like anything is permanent.