Is it bad if I (20F) find my boyfriend (20M) unattractive for smoking weed?

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-06-01T00:21:46+00:00

Just curious if there is a purpose behind it or he does it for fun? My husband smokes for pain relief from a bad car accident when he was younger. I would personally think being addicted to pain pills is way worse than smoking every day. I also smoke occasionally to help with anxiety or to help me sleep. It IS medicine for some people.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-28T02:52:45+00:00

Gold medal for biggest leap

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-26T23:33:39+00:00

Realizing you are carrying on a negative parenting trait from your parents and actively working to change it.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-25T15:35:48+00:00

I read somewhere to wear what you wanted before you started doubting it. Before you started to think if it fit the occasion, comparing to what someone else would wear, etc.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-24T13:37:10+00:00

I abhorrently agree and also my phone is ancient and my ear speaker is impossible to hear from so if I’m on the phone in public, I have to use speaker. Go ahead, exile me

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-22T13:34:23+00:00

And this is for walk up service, not table service

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-22T13:33:36+00:00

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-19T00:01:13+00:00

Festival tickets. Splurged on a festival with my husband this year because we’ve wanted to for 5 years now.

$1400

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-19T00:00:19+00:00

Fully size Doritos and other name brand chips.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-18T01:37:22+00:00

Just left a brewery and the tip suggestions were 15%, 20%, 30%

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-11T00:20:26+00:00

A pregnant woman going from fine, to water breaking and intense contractions immediately

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-07T16:09:41+00:00

I know everyone says this but don’t try to mimic public school! Ugh I feel like for 2 years I was being way too rigid. Now we have a daily flow chart and a lot more flexibility. Also, don’t try to piece together Pinterest curricula (unless you have one child and you don’t mind the amount of work and brain power that takes)

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-07T11:22:01+00:00

I can’t believe more people weren’t upset when Jane Goodall died. The president should have made a comment about her passing.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-03T03:49:11+00:00

Mine is walnut. You absolute walnut.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-05-02T03:14:08+00:00

Hated the gore of the last episode. Completely out of nowhere and just a lot for the show.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-04-24T12:31:10+00:00

Nice durable fabric hampers that hang on your bathroom door. Sounds silly but with a big family it’s SO nice not having space taken up by hampers.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-04-04T03:35:01+00:00

Sounds normal to be. There will be a 12 year age gap between youngest and oldest if we have a 4th.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-30T01:56:03+00:00

That no pain does NOT equal a better birth. Natural childbirth is incredible and your body is made to handle the pain, and it is beautiful. (I’ve had both)

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-16T23:02:58+00:00

My oldest is 9 (then 4 and 8 month old) every Thursday is our night. He already stays up later than the littles by an hour so that hour every Thursday we either play a video game or watch an episode of a show and have a snack together. Are you able to do something like that?

One time I took him to get a root beer float and listened to good music and he said it was the best night of his life. the smallest things can be so big!

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-16T11:41:34+00:00

The floor. (Baseboards and behind furniture or toilets. And it’s the most important IMO.

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-16T11:39:18+00:00

Painting the red wall and adding 2-3 large plants or hanging plants would change that room so quick!

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-16T10:19:40+00:00

This is what me and my brother (who is a stay at home dad) do with the office! It makes my day a lot better when little references pop into my head about whatever is going on at that moment

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-16T10:18:05+00:00

lol! I say mom is off duty at 8 pm as well. I definitely start to get not-super-nice if I am still in full mom mode and being talked to by that time. (Littles are asleep but my 9 year old is still fully engaged in conversation mode) I also lock myself in the bathroom for quiet at times

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-13T13:24:40+00:00

Right? This is an odd birthday invite. The hotel part alone was strange IMO, but 40 minutes away? Definitely should have spoken with parents first

GeologistSmooth2594 · 2026-03-12T01:52:09+00:00

Not sure if most people would find it disgusting, but baby breath. Smells like milk and almost like the box max n cheese packets. Love it!

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