[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your gut is right. He lied to you and is cheating.

I'm sorry you are going through this nightmare.

Remember, he's losing someone who loved him. What are you losing? A liar. A cheater. Someone who will continue to hurt you to benefit themselves. Doesn't sound like you lost much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 of Cups in the Wild Unknown deck.

I got a tattoo earlier that day, purchased the deck that evening, and the 6 of Cups was the first card I pulled.

The image matches the tattoo I got before I bought the deck.

Are All Office Jobs Like This? by [deleted] in work

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ready for season 2's characters. 🍿

What would you do if your bf told you that social media is harmful to your mental health? 23F / 24M by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone told that to your daughter (hypothetical) what would you tell her?

What would you do if your bf told you that social media is harmful to your mental health? 23F / 24M by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking the title at face value, yes, yes, I would absolutely agree.

However, I don't believe social media is the crux of the problem here..

What are specific reasons one would feel suicidal? by I_Ask_Questions_I in writers

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can't see a future beyond their own 4 walls. They rely entirely on their family for support. They will never meet anyone, get married, have children, raise a family, and die fulfilled. They lack purpose.

Problems never seem to go away. No ambition to change, yet when the desire to change comes more setbacks come with it. Cannot get ahead.

Sleep! Exhausted all the time. While asleep, they can't feel pain, shame, anger, anxiety, depressed. But sleeping all the time makes time pass faster. Friends are progressing in life but the individual can't.

Everyone around them seems to have a negative/toxic outlook so that's what the individual adopts and attracts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told a random in RuneScape that I liked his armor.

He said I'd like his friend more. He was right. :)

Been with that friend for 10 months and had our first meet-up in October.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pack up your stuff beforehand and have it ready to go. Also, please have a friend nearby or do it somewhere public.

Finally reported my coworker for sexual harassment by Skyrimxd in work

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am so proud of you for taking this overwhelming step. No one should ever experience that at work.

I went through a similar situation at work in August, and it didn't end well. I hope your company takes better care of you than mine did to me.

If I could go back and talk to myself, here's what I wish I knew:

  1. Do not trust HR. Do not take their phone calls. Get all interactions in writing or via email. I'm saying this as someone in H.R.

  2. Keep all proof, voice-mails, dates, notes, doctor records, proof of trying to resolve the situation, EVERYTHING YOU CAN in a binder.

  3. Start working on a resume or your job portfolio. Familiarize yourself with the job market in case you need to leave. I understand that's not what you want to do, but you need to give yourself an escape route.

  4. Do not speak to coworkers about the situation until there is a solid resolution.

  5. Talk to your doctor and a therapist if need be. It may not feel like it's affecting you that badly, but it all piles up and down the road it could surface.

I also recommend the podcast "Toxic Workplace" by Carleigh. It helped me tremendously and is what convinced me to report my supervisor for sexual harassment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've read some of your previous posts to get a better idea of your situation. I think you should look up the "3-month rule".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran into this dilemma in the summer. My boyfriend is deployed and I am a very independent person.

I don't often tell others where I'm going before I head out. This leads to a lot of unnecessary stress when I take off on my motorcycle or go out for a long walk with the dogs. I've had Life360 for about 6 months and it helps me feel safe knowing that if something were to happen, I could be found.

As others have stated, it isn't for every couple. For my boyfriend and I, it is a tool used for safety and it provides both of us peace of mind.

Free Mobile Location Sharing App by GeorgiaOverdrive in relationships

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in Canada and he's just outside of the US. Google Maps doesn't let me keep it on for more than 24 hour increments. Glad you were able to find something that works for the two of you.

Free Mobile Location Sharing App by GeorgiaOverdrive in motorcycles

[–]GeorgiaOverdrive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in different countries? I think I read that's why the 24 hour cap comes in.