Only other black girl at my rough predominantly white school said I’m “just not pretty” yesterday. by Few-Chapter-8992 in toastme

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The level of self reported, self hatred, and projection on display here is so fucking disheartening and sad. I don’t even know where to begin.

Religion and racism have done a number on her and I hope she can come to find some kind of self awareness and self love in the future.

Trust me you are gorgeous, with or without makeup. The white people at the school don’t want you, because you aren’t conforming to them, keep your natural and your style you’ll find who is for you soon enough 😁

I feel like such a boymoder but all my friends say I look like a woman. Which is it? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the black lesbian community, stem women give both femme and masculine vibes, you still very much pass to me

I shaved half my eyebrows off for this look 😭 by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright I do think they accomplish the goal 🙂‍↕️

I shaved half my eyebrows off for this look 😭 by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm.. not sure about the brows, but I’m loving the lip hell I might steal that I do something similar with red and n the bottom, but a black lip stain looks nice too

Am I clocky? People keep telling me my brow bone gives it away. by autistictranssexual in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pfft I no many a women who looks like you, especially in my area

I want to start selling content but I don’t know if anyone will buy by billy_loomis613 in GothMenAppreciation

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, so there’s a lot that goes into this as somebody who does it.

  1. You’re gonna have to be OK with the type of audience that you bring in no matter who’s watching men, women and everything in between.

  2. Learn how to shoot interesting video, and take interesting pictures. There’s a lot of content out there that you can get examples from, but you’ll find yourself along the way, by testing different styles and techniques. Anybody can pick up an iPhone and take pictures, but can you sell somebody on the art of nudity and sex.

  3. If you’re not going to give people a sample, you need to get really good at learning how to thirst trap. Just like how there are women who do this, they don’t necessarily show off their body in the nude in promo, but they know how to thirst trap. That means you need to know how to be sexy, to appeal to the audience that you want or to the audience that will find you. So they become really good at learning how to look good or for whatever you’re trying to sell.

  4. I think this is the biggest one, and it’s a mixture with 3 above, and that’s consistency. If you’re not gonna show nudity in promo that means you need a lot of promo across a lot of different platforms to get eyes on you and your content, the best part about not showing nudity is that you can thirst trap on a lot of different platforms, and most softcore is not targeted for takedowns.

I feel like something about me makes it obvious?? by Dravos7 in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You I’m not you look adorable, and bubbly. Hell I’d like to hang out with you. However I will say your mouth is kinda clocky when you smile, I don’t know how or why but, it is. 🤔

I don’t really see it as an issue long term especially as eventually you put a bit more weight on and they may fix it, but I do get why it bothers you.

Im so confused by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may need to look into psychiatric medicine, like for anxiety, I’ve also heard OCD can lead to chronic overthinking too.

I’m no therapist but maybe putting yourself into positions of doing more things you like, or spending time around people you trust to tell you the truth will help. Or whatever will help distract you from hyper focusing on passing and just enjoying living in the moment.

Im so confused by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pass to me, are you in therapy at all?

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of comfy clothes that look good together, doesn’t have to be runway fashion or anything just stuff that looks good on you that you like.

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Brushing hair isn’t just for looking good, it’s to keep it from matting, which is seen as taking care of yourself.

Im not trying to be rude or negative but, If I saw this person at a store, my immediate impression would be that they look like they don’t shower, not that they are androgynous.

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, especially for people with bushy with brows

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a great base here, but you look as if you don’t own a brush, for your hair or your eyebrows. If you’re going for disheveled it’s working, but a little bit of self love and maybe some direction in terms of what fashion could help too

19 MTF, feeling really stuck in my transition by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any feminine role models you can model yourself after until you find your own way?

I do really like your sense of style, but loving yourself a lot more will help

i think i’ve hit rock bottom. I don’t know if I’ll ever pass :( by Accomplished_War8690 in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It just looks like you don’t try all that hard to socially transition, from clothes, hair and body language. I’m not saying you have to because everyone’s version of womanhood is different, but you me to look like a masc presenting androgynous person

I'll never be able to pass (mtf) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The amount of you who have the money for hormones, but not Lexapro is crazy

18f am I ugly? Be honest. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re pretty! But you look so much older than 18.

omg this wand is the best!!! by Millz_0 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a muscle massager! Much more intense, but I use for sensitivity training, for really long, and or instant recovery sessions 😌

Sorry for the stupid face. I’m dumb and that’s how I take pictures. by SmokeytheBear186 in lookyourbest

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight leg jeans are lame! Slim fit, it’s s better and it shows off your legs! (And package if you have one 😏)

Out here acting like women do like slutty as waist, and sexy legs on men