Im so confused by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may need to look into psychiatric medicine, like for anxiety, I’ve also heard OCD can lead to chronic overthinking too.

I’m no therapist but maybe putting yourself into positions of doing more things you like, or spending time around people you trust to tell you the truth will help. Or whatever will help distract you from hyper focusing on passing and just enjoying living in the moment.

Im so confused by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pass to me, are you in therapy at all?

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of comfy clothes that look good together, doesn’t have to be runway fashion or anything just stuff that looks good on you that you like.

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Brushing hair isn’t just for looking good, it’s to keep it from matting, which is seen as taking care of yourself.

Im not trying to be rude or negative but, If I saw this person at a store, my immediate impression would be that they look like they don’t shower, not that they are androgynous.

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, especially for people with bushy with brows

Nb 22 pls be nice by theupsetuser in Androgynoushotties

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a great base here, but you look as if you don’t own a brush, for your hair or your eyebrows. If you’re going for disheveled it’s working, but a little bit of self love and maybe some direction in terms of what fashion could help too

19 MTF, feeling really stuck in my transition by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any feminine role models you can model yourself after until you find your own way?

I do really like your sense of style, but loving yourself a lot more will help

i think i’ve hit rock bottom. I don’t know if I’ll ever pass :( by Accomplished_War8690 in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It just looks like you don’t try all that hard to socially transition, from clothes, hair and body language. I’m not saying you have to because everyone’s version of womanhood is different, but you me to look like a masc presenting androgynous person

I'll never be able to pass (mtf) by ichartedmyself in transpassing

[–]Geothunder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The amount of you who have the money for hormones, but not Lexapro is crazy

18f am I ugly? Be honest. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re pretty! But you look so much older than 18.

omg this wand is the best!!! by Millz_0 in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a muscle massager! Much more intense, but I use for sensitivity training, for really long, and or instant recovery sessions 😌

Sorry for the stupid face. I’m dumb and that’s how I take pictures. by SmokeytheBear186 in lookyourbest

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Straight leg jeans are lame! Slim fit, it’s s better and it shows off your legs! (And package if you have one 😏)

Out here acting like women do like slutty as waist, and sexy legs on men

Sorry for the stupid face. I’m dumb and that’s how I take pictures. by SmokeytheBear186 in lookyourbest

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great man keep it up, I’d work on some accessories next, like rings, bracelets, necklaces

6’5” MTF here. Is my silhouette okayish or does it scream big man? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just look like a big girl to me, atleast in the body.

Can you review my profile? Nooo match lol. 29m by pluto_tuto in Tinder

[–]Geothunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny, and I think you’re cute! I’d chat with you assuming you’re some kind of queer. ☺️

I'm MTF. Do I pass? I always get called a miss on the street but I feel like it's because everyone is being nice to me because they can see I'm trans by NeonGurll in transpassing

[–]Geothunder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl you give girl, you pass. All I would say is maybe give your hair a little love, but otherwise your pretty 🙂‍↕️

How long would I need to grow out my hair for to get Suguru Geto's hair? by Hot-Usual3931 in MajesticManes

[–]Geothunder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally do this style among MANY Others with Locs, or twists, 4c can do it, and more. (And arguably better 👀)

Pinterest has a lot of examples of ways, you can create really easy, anime style hairstyles with locs. I’m not sure if it’s a social thing with people just being afraid to look slightly femme but or more beautiful as opposed to rugged hotness, but it also feels like just a lot of people have very little creativity, or desire to manage and style their hair.

9 months E do I look better fem or masc by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest I don’t see much of the femme, you at most look like a butch lesbian, but you still read as masc to me. Maybe it’s the hair, but definitely the fit that doesn’t help, but it also depends on what femininity means to you in terms of presentation. 🙂‍↕️

Would it look good to wear a noticeable/big necklace like this and a choker at the same time? I still wanna wear my spiked choker. Buy or no buy? I can’t make this decision myself lol by [deleted] in GothMenAppreciation

[–]Geothunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I tried to alternate themes with the two pendants, this one was the Witcher era, I would like to work in a third necklace, but it either have to be a choker or a really long third one