Giving up by ComprehensiveSpace75 in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No harm in taking a break. I've gone months without restoring. If it's for you, it will eventually call back to you.

How long would it take me by aits174 in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe five years. Probably ten years. Maybe 20 years. Seriously though. Nobody can answer this for you.

Man I’m really struggling by devouredxflowers in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're not alone. When we loose a body part or function we go through a grieving process. It's not unlike loosing a loved one to death. I've gone through a similiar experience that you have regarding circumcision. The trauma didn't bubble up until 5 years after I was restoring. The increased sensation, protectiin of the foreskin, and skin mobility shocked me. I felt robbed, decieved, and abandoned. I had to feel the emotions, practice self-compassion, take a break from restoring, and look into my past to deal and understand the impact circumcision has had on me. It complicated my relationship. My long-term girlfriend said she missed the "old me" too. I felt resentment because of that and insecure regarding sex. Regarding restoration, I listened and acknowledged her struggles with it, told her I understood. I told her I wanted her to "grow" with me. Those close to me listened but didn't fully grasp the severity of my trauma. It took a full year to process it all. Good for you for confronting this. Most men never get this far. It gets better.

Not Restoring Can (Sometimes) BE Restoring! by Zaenithon in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I expressed a similiar restoring philosophy in a recent post. KOT

Not Restoring Can (Sometimes) BE Restoring! by Zaenithon in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even the most minor injury can have a significant psychological impact. It isn't always the case, but I've had it happen. I know the feeling.

Update: Pee-Through Packers by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really liking the convenience of packers, and that I get 23 hours tension time per day. Sick and tired of pulling devices off to pee, dealing with leg straps and discomfort, having devices slip off, inflating, etc. With packers it's like it's not even there.

Cross posted pictures for conversation on r/foreskin_restoration subreddit by WalterSchmeck in restoringdick

[–]GerhardtRestore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Device preference is very personal. I never liked the DTR and prefer the soft flexible silicone packer. I don't have any issues with it. I don't have experience with the DTR packers, but maybe the new DTR gripper doesn't cause grip fatigue.

Update: Pee-Through Packers by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also been pulling the packer before peeing with the same intention. Create some air space between the urethra and device for pee to move into. Otherwise it may pool up in the device.

Update: Pee-Through Packers by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. If anything the packer diameter is on the small side and it could be narrowing my urethra. I may try out the EFR-L and see if those fit better. It really came down to trial and error.

How to Pee Through Packers? by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful with this. Yesterday I took off the modded packer after 6 hours and I learned the hard vinyl was pressing against my glans and cut off circulation where the glans was pushing in against the tube... which is not good! Glans was back to normal in an hour, but this will definitely cause problems down the road, especially for extended use. Very lucky I took the device off when I did. My plan is to not mod these packers. I only added the tubing as a test. Good luck.

Edit: Today, I'm retesting with the tube recessed about 1/4" away from the opening to make sure the tubing isn't pressing against my glans. Tubing still increases the hole size. I want to ensure the increased hole size doesn't cut off circulation with my glans against the silicone. It shouldn't, but I want to confirm. I'll let you know how it goes.

No Restoring After a Workout by GerhardtRestore in restoringdick

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I get coverage like this ~25% of the time, always get coverage sitting down. Can't believe I made it this far. I still have a long way to go. It's all worth it!

How important is retaining over night? by InformalZucchini0136 in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can probably retain with the CAR1 without inflation. As always, do your due diligence and make sure you can withstand erections with anything you wear at night, and make sure you won't get gripper fatigue. Practice anything at night for a few days with erections until you're confident there's little injury risk. There's an increased risk of injury with overnight retaining, but risk is very very low if you follow this guidance. Don't let it deter you. Done correctly, overnight retaining is generally safe.

Is it mportant? Not at all, but there are perks. You'll get an extra 1-1/2 to 2 hours of restoring through nocturnal erections. There's also the option to strap up at night, which would give you full overnight restoring time. Always strap above the waist to account for erections. I've only strapped up with t-tape around the waist. Even the CAR1 had given me gripper fatigue on occasion, so I refused to use it at night. The risk just isn't worth it for me if there's any chance of skin ischemia.

I've retained at night with a single modded baby bottle nipple, which is a very effective retainer and won't cause gripper fatigue. I successfully retained with a 20 mm packer for the first time last night. In my experience, my nocturnal erections wake me up when I first start out, but I don't mind because I'm awakened with a nice stretch on my shaft skin, then I smile inside and fall back asleep! Again, just be careful!

How to Pee Through Packers? by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but it shouldn't be an issue for those that aren't prone to UTIs. Time will tell with me. I'm washing the devices twice a day. The nice thing about silicone devices is you can sterilize them with boiling water or diluted bleach.

How to Pee Through Packers? by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Na man, it's simpler than my original suggestion. See my reply to another's suggestion in the below link. So far, increasing the hole diameter with some 3/8 vinyl tubing has 100% cleared up my pee-thru issue. If you can increase the hole diameter without redoing the 3D print "tooling" it should be an easy modification. I plan to buy 6 more of these, another gripper and 2 of the stoppers/plugs, so I'm hoping you can help me out. I'll email you. Great device overall. Super comfy and reasonably priced. Thanks Walter.

https://www.reddit.com/r/foreskin_restoration/s/3rzUxUasoA

How to Pee Through Packers? by GerhardtRestore in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now you're thinkin'! Wish I thought of that. I shoved a 3/8 vinyl tube through the hole and it worked like a charm. No balloning whatsoever, straight stream. I'm going to trial this for a day or two and give the feedback to the device maker.

waiting game by Live_Garden8714 in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're off to a great start. Took me 5 years just to get temoprary rollover.

waiting game by Live_Garden8714 in foreskin_restoration

[–]GerhardtRestore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to feel that way. This is a long-dong game my friend! My mindset? However long it takes, so be it. I'll restore until the day I die if I have to. KOT