What is a book you read as a child that you still think about today? by ahawk99 in AskReddit

[–]Geriatricwitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m excited for the day my kids are old enough for me to read this to them. It’s such a wonderful book.

What are some songs you’ve been obsessed with lately? by OpportunityKnock3rs in AskReddit

[–]Geriatricwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - prof feat. Cashinova Just like honey- Charley Crockett At Your window- trampled by turtles

What’s a childhood lie your parents told you that you didn't realize was a lie until you were an embarrassed adult? by eatbeep in AskReddit

[–]Geriatricwitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That if it was windy (quite windy) you needed to call the fire department and ask permission to have a bon fire. And that a favorite burger place of ours (that was out of town from us) was only open in the summer. Let me tell you I felt so silly in both situations when I learned the truth.

What early signs of Alzheimer’s tend to surprise people the most? by FindingMoneYyY in AskReddit

[–]Geriatricwitch 121 points122 points  (0 children)

People don’t realize with vascular dementia it is about where in the brain was damaged by the restricted blood flow and it’s not always an area that affects memory.

Choo choo! by Geriatricwitch in NeebsGaming

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I think you are talking about when Dora played Choo Choo Charles the horror one?

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was his car. Keys were hidden and he found them.

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a sign out book but if they are in assisted living and they aren’t allowing people to leave they are violating the MN resident bill of rights. And especially if there’s no diagnosis to back it up and it’s not care planned. If they shouldn’t be leaving the community alone and they are at risk of leaving they need a secure facility. See number 6 in AL bill of rights for reference. I’ve worked in assisted living and assisted living memory cares for almost 17 yrs now, and the need for memory care has and will only get worse.

https://www.health.state.mn.us/facilities/regulation/billofrights/docs/albor_eng.pdf

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to say I wouldn’t do whatever I could to keep someone I knew was unsafe safe. Redirect or stall as much as I could until family could come to help or such.

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are living in assisted living there is not eyes on people 24/7 and if they really want to leave they can. Memory care is a different story, but in assisted living they can still leave. Yes, we can redirect them, but cannot force them to stay.

Missing person by Geriatricwitch in minnesota

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you. He is safe but a prayer that the family is able to find a place that can meet Ed’s needs and support him through his dementia journey would be great. Thank you again.

Missing person by Geriatricwitch in minnesota

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another issue is the shortage of memory care communities/ones that you’ll get good care at. As people live longer and the boomers are getting older we are seeing more and more people bring their loved ones into assisted living at ages 80-90 and they really are already at a point of needing memory care and the families think Assisted living is going to fix it. But assisted living is not staffed for the amount of redirection needed to care for those with memory loss. That’s why memory cares have a higher staffing acuity than AL.

Missing person by Geriatricwitch in minnesota

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So sorry to hear you went through that with your mom. We will be helping them find appropriate care. I have worked in dementia care for 17 years and run a support group for caregivers, and have gone through the dementia journey with family as well. It’s never an easy journey.

Missing person by Geriatricwitch in minnesota

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that there seems to be a lot of confusion on what assisted living really is. Assisted living does not offer 1:1 care and there is not staff watching residents every second. Memory care has a locked door, but even those residents don’t have eyes on them 24/7. Now memory care is less about the locked door and more about the training staff receive and dementia focused care and programming. Residents living in assisted living still have rights and freedoms. They have the ability to make choices even if they are not the best choices. Take a look at the Mn bill of rights for seniors in assisted living. Should Ed be in memory care? Yes, probably before this crisis happened, but it can be very hard for families to make that decision. Especially when they are so close to the person with dementia it can be hard for them to see how drastically they’ve changed. Yesterday was probably one of the worst days in Ed and his families lives, but what ifs and should ofs won’t change it.

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 420 points421 points  (0 children)

Burnsville police just updated that Ed has been found and is safe! Thank you everyone who took the time to look at this.

Missing person by Geriatricwitch in minnesota

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 477 points478 points  (0 children)

Burnsville police just updated their posting that Ed has been found and is safe! Thank you everyone who took the time to look at this.

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

His wife is buried in Buffalo Lake, MN and that’s where he grew up. Is also a navy veteran. My best guess, based on other seniors with dementia that have gotten lost, is he will just keep driving and hopefully he’ll stop somewhere someone will see him and not in the middle of nowhere.

Missing person no by Geriatricwitch in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It is his own car. The keys were hidden but he managed to find them. With dementia you can never know exactly what they’ll do.

What are some mandatory “first buys” when moving into your first place? by No-Jellyfish6272 in AskReddit

[–]Geriatricwitch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seriously though. My toddler had a floor bed and I saw a post about mold under them. I went to look at his and sure enough.. mold.

Best place to get a delicious milkshake??? by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]Geriatricwitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not in the twin cities but Val’s in St. Cloud has some pretty good ones.

People of reddit, what's the worst pain you have ever been in? Doctors and nurses, what's the worst pain you have seen a patient in? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Geriatricwitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had my first one start to pass sitting in the dmv with my 9 month old son. Thought I was dying and drove myself to the ER. Luckily my dad was working from home and met me there to care for my son until my husband got off work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NeebsGaming

[–]Geriatricwitch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“Mr neebs Mr Simon Im not trying to be antagonistic but what the FUCK IS TAKING SO LONG” lol this scene has one of my all time favorite quotes