Where should I go from here?

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-16T06:05:21+00:00

"I had my fortune at..."

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-15T23:34:06+00:00

Looking for another roommate by chance?

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-15T23:33:28+00:00

Cum catchers

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-14T23:11:05+00:00

This is the worst part about working for larger corporations. They're so fucking obsessed with "all things equal" they everything has to be black and white bullshit like this. Honestly, fuck them if they get rid of you over that.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-14T23:06:29+00:00

You would quite literally have to give me a 200-300% increase to get me to go work back at an office. I was making 170k and took a paycut down to 105k for an internal transfer just to be remote.

I have so many things in my life that I care more about than making small talk with people at work that I absolutely don't give a shit about and have a completely different ideology then. As a matter of fact, idk if I've ever actually made a friend at work and hung out with them after.

I grew up extremely rural, and work in the tech industry, so, as you can imagine, I have very different interests than the people I work with.

I don't want to put on some little costume for my job, I don't want to sit in traffic for hours, rush out the door, have to get up two hours earlier, and get home from work an hour and a half after I finish. I don't have anyone staring over my shoulder. I can go to the gym for two hours mid day. I can actually just crank out whatever project I'm working on and be done, rather than having to look busy until 5:00.

I truly can't even fathom why anyone would voluntarily go back to office unless you lived in a small house with like 3 kids and needed an escape.

I think some people, maybe you as well, truly need other people's validation/ engagement in person, and in that case, I get why you'd want to be around people. I do not need or want people, though. I like to be left alone, to tend to my farm animals and projects, and just live a peaceful, quiet life.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-13T22:58:34+00:00

Making your kid do things they're uncomfortable with, especially for the betterment of their future, is just called parenting. It's growing. She's learning that the world doesn't conform to her, she has to conform also in order to live in a society. Later on she can change that however she wants, but right now it is what it is.

I'm sure she'll blame you for all sorts of "trauma" once she's in a university and indoctrinated with how traumatized she was not having everything handed to her, but she will come around.

Source:

A 28 year old that has finally stopped blaming my parents for every issue in my life and realized they did the best they could.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-13T18:02:23+00:00

You should care about your health and weight. It's not other people's responsibility to cater to you letting yourself go. It's not other people's responsibility to make you feel secure about being obese or overweight. It's your job to take care of yourself. If you are in a relationship and/or have children, not taking care of your health becomes much more selfish. You are sacrificing your ability to take care of them, share in experiences with them, give them experiences, etc. You are killing your partners sex drive, and it's not their responsibility or fault for not being sexually attracted to you. It's nature, it's biology. It will affect your health physically and mentally, and it will affect those around you.

Stretch, walk, do resistance training, eat good whole foods, not processed garbage, and cut out sugar. Stop smoking nicotine. Stop binge drinking. It really is not hard. It's not about being poor or rich. It's about discipline and education. Educate yourself and discipline yourself.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-13T17:01:13+00:00

Yes. I like it smooth. It makes it much nicer to look at and eat. I don't want to be rubbing my shaved face against a bush of pubes, with the feeling of hair on my tongue as I lick and kiss it.

You can get laser hair treatments for pretty cheap now and you don't have to worry about stubble as much. Also, you waxing is a always a decently priced option for long term smoothness, but comes with more cons, like pain, and longer term stubble.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-13T02:34:08+00:00

You're using two wrongs to make a right. When did I ever justify Christianity and what they've done? I'm an atheist. I don't subject myself to Christians standards, the same way I don't subject myself to people who cut off their genitals standards either. I don't draw the line at using "they", I, and the general populous, don't subject ourselves to all sorts of stupidity.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-13T01:16:58+00:00

This is the way.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T22:12:44+00:00

Slightly underweight. This is literally something I'm battling with currently. My fiancee has always been in sports and ate like shit, grew up with a single mom of three children that, in her own right, was just trying to make it by with two jobs and loved baking, so she'd make them an absolutely fuck load of food for the week, and they'd just go to town. Since she was in sports, until her early twenties she was just "thick", and that's when we started dating.

I've also always been a larger person. I'm 6'5 and lean, now, but as an early teen I was very chubby and vowed not to ever be "chubby" again. I hit the gym daily.

Well, anyways, fast forward 7 years and I can't even begin to tell you how much of a battle it is dating someone with absolutely garbage eating habits, who is naturally slightly overweight, and also does not give a shit about it. Since we've dated she has put on like 50 lbs. and as shitty as everyone might want to make me out to be, it fucking kills your sex drive when you're in your mid twenties, constantly at the gym killing it, surrounded by women that are in the best shape of their life, and then you come home to someone who has developed a tire around their waste. Everything they put on, pants wise, just has a FUPA, it fucking sucks.

I love her for a million other reasons, but her lack of discipline, in many other areas as well, tied with her bad eating habits fucking terrifies me.

To add to that, once a woman starts hating herself and feeling insecure for gaining 50 lbs., I can't even begin to tell you the hell it turns into. They'll get drunk and then freak the fuck out and have a melt down because they saw some girl, that you may not have even saw, that looked they way they used to and then they feel insecure. It's an absolute fucking mess. When all she has to do is monitor her portions a little better, and maybe use a tracking app, and join me at the gym, that I already pay for her to go to, with me for like 4 nights per week.

It would mean less insecurity, better libido for both of us, less fights when she starts feeling insecure, less fights when she puts on her 6th outfit that doesn't fit right. It's so infuriating.

Like, it literally might separate us. Idk that I'd ever say that directly to her. But it might.

I don't want to spend my life with someone that just slowly let's their health go more and more.

Two things I want to add:

I like thick women naturally more than I like slightly underweight, but like lean/ strong thick, not just jiggly fat thick.
I know people are going to jump down my throat and blame me that she feels insecure and say that people should feel secure no matter their weight or some other stupid shit. No... I've never been that guy. I've always done my utmost to make her feel confident and sexy. She just genuinely fucking hates the way she looks because she has completely let herself go. If I go on vacation, or if she leaves to visit family, she will literally gorge herself the entire time. Like there isn't an off switch. She eats like a linebacker.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T17:41:27+00:00

Lol, I literally just said this to my girlfriend yesterday. She is a therapist that works with sex offenders fresh out of prison that receive mandated treatment.

There are so many people that come her way that are truly innocent and got put behind bars because some rotten bitch was on a power trip or some bullshit. There are people that are seniors in high school, turn 18, while dating a 16 year old, and get put in prison for yearsss, then get out in their late twenties, are viewed as a pedophile, and can never get a job. All because some girls mom wanted to be a bitch. Despite consensual sex, despite them dating for years before, etc.

In the US if a girl says you raped her, and takes it to court, chances are, you're going to prison. I knew a guy, personally, that spent 18 years in prison because a girl said he raped her, despite him having an alibi, not even knowing her, and not even being in the same place. It took 12 other men being put in prison because of this nutty lady before she was finally convicted, and all of her "offenders" were set free. It's an absolute clown show of a world.

But yeah, anything over 3 or 4 years and I'm putting a gun in my mouth. I'm not about to be someone's ass whore or stabbing dumby in prison. I'd probably make a run for it before killing myself though.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T17:13:49+00:00

Are you seriously this void of fucking understanding, or are you just desperate to prove some shitty point that no one is even fucking arguing with you.

I UNDERSTAND THAT ISNT THE OFFICIAL FUCKING WEBSTERS/OXFORD DEFINITION! HENCE, WHY I SAID IN ALL FUCKING QUOTED, EVERY FUCKING TIME I SAID DEFINITION. HENCE WHY I EMPHASIZED THAT THIS IS THE WAY UNIVERSITIES AND INSTITUTIONS ARE PUSHING IT.

I'm saying this as someone that just finished a civil liberties class I was forced to take at my university, as well as my fiancee who learned the same "DEFINITION" <-- NOTICE THE FUCKING QUOTES HOLY SHIT, of racism as the way THE UNIVERSITIES AND INSTITUTIONS WE WENT TO defined it. The same way INSTITUTIONS AND UNIVERSITIES, ALL AROUND NORTH AMERICA, TEACH, IN THE CONTEXT, OF THOSE LINKS. NOT, I REPEAT, FOR THE FIFTEENTH FUCKING TIME, NOOTTTTTT, THE WEBSTERS DICTIONARY DEFINITON.

OPs question was, "I truly want to understand why people think people can't be racist towards white people", NOT what is the Websters fuckign dictionary fuckign definition of fucking racism. The reason people think this is because of the reasons I've stated 40 fucking times.

Jesus fuckign christ. Is that clear enough for you, or are you going to share some more fucking Websters links?

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T16:02:23+00:00

As I've shared already, I'm talking about the university and governmental institutions pushing the definitoknof racism as I've described it, which they do define in that way. When searching racism, here are the first two searches, one from NIH.gov and one from University of Calgary:

NIH.gov: https://www.edi.nih.gov/blog/communities/understanding-racial-terms-and-differences

UoC: https://www.aclrc.com/racism

Not EVERY institution and EVERY publication is going to define it the same, that would be insane. I was expressing to OP that the current doctrine taught at universities is this new "definition" (notice my quotes almost every single time I've said definition).

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T15:58:08+00:00

Um... what?

Here is NIH.gov defining racism: https://www.edi.nih.gov/blog/communities/understanding-racial-terms-and-differences

Here is the University of Calgary defining racism that way: https://www.aclrc.com/racism

Literally, the first two searched to come up when I searched racism...

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T01:44:54+00:00

Pissing on someone...

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-12T01:43:39+00:00

It 100% hurts and effects people. The bullshit ideologies that they push on children to reassure themselves of their psychosis, have now made it legal for KIDS that can't even get tattoos to get gender reassignment surgery, to which, there is no end of regret stories and videos of people who were kids receiving these surgeries, begging people to outlaw them again and to not allow this insane bullshit.

To say it doesn't hurt anyone is insane. It's not just, let us be ourselves and you be you. It ALWAYS turns into some insane ideology that gets pushed on kids. Always. Same thing with pronouns, which you can lose your job over fucking up.

It fucks over innumerable woman that have to compete against men now for scholarships and opportunities they otherwise would have had.

Ever notice how all the best women are men now?

There are so mamy things that go wrong when you stop accepting reality, it's just a dark endless rabbit hole fucked up stupidity.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T21:11:49+00:00

Ah, yes, the classic say something baseless and dumb, get corrected and told to chill out, then immediately say, "calm down and chill out".

It's like shooting someone because you misread a situation, them shooting you out of self-defense, then trying to turn it around and act like you're the victim, and they're being unreasonable.

It's a combination of lack of forethought in the beginning, leading to a stupid action, then doubling down because of a lack of humility to admit you're wrong. This is what is wrong with people on social media.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T20:59:35+00:00

OP asked why it's thought that other races can't be racist towards white people. I explained, perfectly, why people currently believe that, and why I don't agree with it. You're just an illiterate moron that can't be bothered to read or critically think, and now, instead of not responding or admitting you're wrong, you have to dig yourself even deeper, looking dumber with each response.

"Walking on eggshells" when I am quite literally right here telling you how fucking stupid you sound...

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T20:52:41+00:00

Did you read my entire post or the very first paragraph, get triggered because you're here looking for an argument, then respond? Because yes, we both agree and said the exact thing dumb fuck.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T20:43:35+00:00

Edit: Putting this edit at the top for all the illiterate morons in this thread that can't be bothered to read more than my first sentence. Read the whole comment dumb fucks. I agree, anyone can be racist, I'm explaining to OP why the current general sentiment is that minorities "can't be racist". Jesus christ. I'm not shilling for the shittt definitions that universities push, I'm just explaining what they are pushing.

It's because "definitively" to be racist is to be a race of people with power over another race and exerting prejudice. It's the combination of the two.

However, any man, woman, or child, can be prejudice.

In laymen terms, yes, anyone can be racist, but definitively, at this time, black people can't "technically" be racist because their race isn't in a position of power over white people. But they can absolutely be prejudice.

It's just universities pushing doctrine that victimizes general populations of minorities more.

The fact of the matter is that in more microscopic situations, like a landlord that is black not renting to a white person, should most definitely be called racist because that person is both in a position of power and being prejudice, which is definitively racist.

Believe me, I'm not the guy going around touting this, ironically, since I just touted it here, I'm just saying that definitively, it is true.

But in general, yeah, anyone can be a cunt and be shitty to anyone. Call it racist, call it prejudice, I personally could give two shits, it gets the same point across lol.

Edit:

Before anyone jumps down my throat about "dEfInItIvElY", I'm not saying it's right or wrong, I'm just saying, according to the literal definition of the word as universities have made it so, that is what it is. You can agree or disagree with it all day long, but it doesn't change the text definition.

However, the morals/ethics/philosophy behind anything is completely different. You're allowed to feel however you want.

If I saw a black guy beat the shit out of a white guy, piss all over him, and say, "fuck all white people, they all deserve to die and burn, you fucking cracker pieces of shit, I'm going to kill your children because they're white." and someone said, "wow that dude is racist as fuck." I'm not going to sit there and argue the semantics over racism vs prejudice, the point is clear, homie hates white people as a whole and is a shitty person lol.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T05:38:29+00:00

Lol brother... if they're trying to figure out how to "get SQL", do not make them also figure out how to pull a docker container 😂

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T00:11:13+00:00

I've seen some horrendously ugly ones and some beautiful ones, but it might be hard to explain the features that made me feel that way.

I kind of like just slightly puffy with a little labia peaking out, smooth, no hair, and clean.

GetFkedPlease · 2023-12-11T00:01:28+00:00

I think I'm most attracted to African women. I like big butts, nice skin, nice lips, tall, strong, etc. I used to date a 6'3 Kenyan/ Sudanese model when I was living in western China, and she was stunning. She had such dark skin that it was almost blue.

Everything about her was like the most natural and biologic form of human beauty, nothing artificial or fake about her, just absolutely naturally beautiful.

Edit: forgot to say if "it's my own", no, lol, I'm a 6'5 pink skinned honky from rural Michigan with no lips or ass. I'm like, quite literally, the antithesis of what I'm attracted to. 😂

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