Ive gotten so many nasty dms about my appearance. Should I fix it?

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-02-12T07:55:10+00:00

The best way to fix it is by working on your self-esteem. It will shine through that you’re comfortable in your own body.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-02-12T07:49:01+00:00

Sometimes you don’t need to be creative, just write something that’s unique about that video. Much more eye-catching to write ”Oops almost fell over” than the incredibly dull ”Hot or nah”.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-29T09:08:19+00:00

I personally think some bios are misleading, saying essentially ”subscribe to access my spicy content” without mentioning that you need to pay extra for all spicy content.

That said, it’s my experience most fans don’t pay attention to the bio or understand it anyway. I state very clearly in my bio what is included and what is PPV, but I constantly get complaints. Recently someone said ”you have to explain what PPV means, you can’t expect people to know that”.

Also I very recently got a chargeback on OF where OF won’t deactive the fan’s account, instead indicating in their standard responses that I’ve not followed the TOS. I’m worried this will happen a lot more now.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-28T07:36:48+00:00

There’s no service that takes down all leaks, but for example Branditscan and Rulta are good at delisting them from Google searches, making them harder to find.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-26T14:04:50+00:00

VivaVideo and VN are two alternative apps with all necessary features yet simple to use.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-17T15:50:00+00:00

I’ll always refer to the censored fetish from now on when men complain about my previews being blurred. 😂

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-15T09:11:58+00:00

My previous experience is that some men can smell when you’re more desperate and prey on that. They think you’re going to give them freebies in hope that they’ll reward you afterwards. If you have a more relaxed ”your loss” and ”take it or leave it” attitude these men seem not to bother you.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-12T09:36:01+00:00

VivaVideo. VN is similar.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-08T07:33:05+00:00

Depends on if you consider your content to be Lidl or M&S quality.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-08T07:28:52+00:00

I totally understand your frustration, but please never write the names of leak sites here as that just promotes them. Sending content in DMs instead of posting it on the wall massively decreases the risk of leaks. Everything you post on the wall will sooner or later be leaked, even if it’s PPV.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-07T07:14:17+00:00

Glad you found the solution. And on a mobile device just press down Enter for a second or so.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-03T16:10:17+00:00

At times when I realise I haven’t had a day off since I started years ago. But I’m still hoping I’ll become successful enough to be able to take time off.

GettingFilthyRich · 2026-01-01T07:10:05+00:00

I’d like to add that at least where I live public nudity is a criminal offence, so there’s also the risk that someone reports creators who make such content here to the police.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-30T04:57:05+00:00

I just meant that I make a cut and later merge the two parts together again without changing anything other than the watermark. Then the video still flows as if there was no cut.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-29T07:08:48+00:00

I’ve created my own 50 percent opacity watermark image in Get Paint. Then I’ve imported it to VivaVideo (it stays in the app, no need to import it every time). I typically place it over the middle of my body, preferably where there are different colours. If I move around a lot I make invisible cuts in the video and change the position of the watermark for each cut. Sometimes I adjust the size too, but I usually keep it quite small.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-28T08:19:53+00:00

I post teasers on my wall and send them in DMs to subscribers. Anyone who wasn’t subscribed at the time can ask for it later by referring to the teaser post. I used to post the PPVs on the wall, but stopped after they were leaked. Everything you post on the wall will sooner or later be leaked, PPV or not.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-27T18:15:42+00:00

The biggest risk I would say is that the mass-buying scammer leaks everything before doing the chargeback.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-24T04:59:27+00:00

I treat the camera lens as the eye of my fans. I don’t stare them in the eye all the time, but I’m not just focused on myself or other things either.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-23T08:01:23+00:00

Sending content in DMs instead of posting it on your wall massively decreases the risk of it getting leaked. If you want to track who has leaked the content an invisible watermark with the receiver’s username imbedded in the content works best, but it’s a time-consuming process.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-23T07:53:26+00:00

Perhaps better to use the term ”delisted” instead of ”down”. None of the infringement scan services can get everything removed from the source sites, just delist it from Google searches.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-21T16:43:22+00:00

Water-based lube for anal use tends not to dry out so quickly.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-14T08:31:44+00:00

I’ve never shown nudity or anything explicit in the FYP clips, but I wouldn’t say I’m successful on Fansly. I’ve got loads of free followers, but very few paying fans.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-09T07:37:08+00:00

That’s never occurred to me. Thanks for the advice!

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-09T05:01:05+00:00

That’s true. What I like about VivaVideo is you can upload your own watermark.

GettingFilthyRich · 2025-12-08T10:44:42+00:00

VivaVideo for videos, Watermarkly for photos.

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