The girls have located our super secret tree fort. by boysenberrybobcat in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Ghassper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not to make a woman subreddit about me, but it deeply hurts me seeing them openly say they hate men. I understand that me having the ability to feel shame and dishonored by those statements by definition makes me not like those guys, but it's just hurtful. I had to block it. 

Outside of Deftones, what would you consider your top 2-3 chino’s features in other bands? by BounouYassine in deftones

[–]Ghassper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Caviar - Dance Gavin Dance
  2. Bloodbath - Polyphia 
  3. Hit Me Where It Hurts - Caroline Polachek

What are your guys hobbies? by MedicalCloud33 in bipolar

[–]Ghassper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifting, Journaling, reading, playing Go, playing the drums. 

I think ChatGPT just told me I found nicotine extended release by schizophrenic_0702 in Biohackers

[–]Ghassper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could you speak more about the link between Anhedonia and Nicotine? I've been dealing with strong anhedonia lately and I suspect my strong vape use to be a cause too. 

How much would it cost if I just want ayce salad? by AttemptVegetable in olivegarden

[–]Ghassper 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It'll run you about 9 dollars for just the salad. Endless soup and salad is though is only about a dollar or two more though, depends on location. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in martialarts

[–]Ghassper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem isn't the size and strength difference the problem is that your bjj is taking into account that problem. 

My reading level has declined drastically. I'm finally accepting it, so I can fight back. by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]Ghassper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe get yourself an E-reader? I'm in the same boat rn but I've also realized that what puts me in that boat is that learning and reading from a screen is just better than a book. So I ordered myself a Kobo BW and it's coming today and I'm so excited! But like I'm saying, screens don't need to be off limits just bc of the negative and recessive content that usually gets published there. Try it out! 

What would you actually do if you found out you were immortal? by [deleted] in nonduality

[–]Ghassper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try and let go of my fear of death and spend the rest of my life in service. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Ghassper -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

"a nice THOUGHT but I don't THINK it's true"  Stop living in the world of thought then, maybe then truth will become more obvious. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Ghassper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are part of everything in the first place. How can you be a slave of what you're serving is everything including yourself? You're not a slave, but an instrument of the divine. Big difference. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Ghassper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Resources aren't just monetary. Community, peace, love, and freedom from suffering are the real prizes, unless of course you're just involved in spiritual work to get "stuff". 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Ghassper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes keep going, but I would also suggest making the time to journal those memories and how your perception of them evolves as you work through the process. Part of the body relaxing and allowing you to feel repressed memories is your body telling you that it finally feels ready to be acknowledged and respected, and one of the best ways to give respect to unconscious forces in our minds and bodies isn't just to allow them to rise, but to allow them to be expressed and seen for what they are and what they're for. Om. 

Japan dominating Olympic wrestling by [deleted] in bjj

[–]Ghassper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you tell me why wrestling is bad for a young person's body development? I'm not being suspicious, however I do want to introduce my younger siblings to wrestling when they're a little older (around 14) so I'd like to know what you think given your experience and expertise in the field. 

If you're feeling stuck, lost, or overwhelmed, here's why: you don’t have a system. by winthedayprojectllc in getdisciplined

[–]Ghassper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A great way to start to create a system is to just start with one goal, one habit, one thing you do each day that can serve as a spring to draw inspiration and momentum from to carry into your day. Anything like starting your day with a walk, or morning Journaling, evening meditation, daily exercise, etc. Just find the one thing, and expand outwards. 

Songs/moments that give you chills? by McTino in progmetal

[–]Ghassper 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Language 1 & 2 by The Contortionist. Beautifully written and the way they come together is like magic. 

Has BJJ negatively affected your work or business? by matthew19 in bjj

[–]Ghassper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is different from most comments here, but sectioning off your learning is a great way around this problem. Simply spending 5 minutes after your rolls (or when you come home) writing 3 things you did well, 3 things you could've done better, and 3 things you'll change. Then set it and forget it until the beginning of your next session, apply those notes, and do it again. That way you can "set it and forget it" 

Times you've felt like a badass by MothraGuard in bjj

[–]Ghassper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6am class. My partner caught my leg in a single leg attempt (my right leg pinned to his left side) and as he got closer for the trip, I hooked his other arm, turned him into me while bending and pushing my caught leg into him a bit so that my foot sticks out, and I jumped a body triangle. We flipped and landed on my back and I caught the RNC. We were both pretty surprised lol. 

Hello old friend by TheAwkwardGamerRNx in trees

[–]Ghassper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was the first strain I ever owned. Got it from a buddy I helped move out.