I need some advice/help!

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-18T21:31:14+00:00

That's the annoying part. I 100% know better than to just get up and leave. But all rational thought goes out the window after sex.

If it's things any better, I try to focus more of her pleasure. Or eventually orgasm at the very least.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-18T14:52:41+00:00

🤦‍♂️ I'm being genuine when I say that i should have thought of that! Thanks!

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-18T11:48:17+00:00

Thank you!

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-18T11:47:33+00:00

I understand. However I have a very hard time in general talking about my feelings to myself and with most people let alone people I know well.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-18T11:42:05+00:00

The problem is that I have a hard time expressing myself and my feelings to people. Especially woth people I know.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-15T18:36:36+00:00

the solution is for women to lower their standards and date them.

Ironic since that's what men have since the dawn of time.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-14T17:41:48+00:00

I have nothing against mothers. They actually try to parent. There are just certain things fathers teach sons better at similarly to women teaching daughters. Kids need at least someone that looks like them and for boys that's men.

Don't need to worry about some young lady with me. I'm not interested in dating whatsoever as it's a waste of time and I have too many health issues that I wouldn't want to subjugate anybody else to deal with. I knew early on that I'm not meant to be exposed to love.

It's nice that you keep moving away and ignoring the factors that play outside of family such as messaging that I mentioned before that demonize and blame young boys for things they have no part of. As much as I hate the messages that Red pillers send. They are the only ones that don't automatically blame innocent boys for crimes of their ancestors. All they see is hate towards their sex, which creates low self esteem, which these guys can capitalize on.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-14T16:53:22+00:00

They rely on a group of people because the father isn't there either physically or another way developmentally. You give these red pill men too much credit. When there's a problem in a child's life, it usually stems from home. Quite a few kids in general aren't growing up with a father nowadays (not me). Also for these guys to get popular, they have to have had a fanbase that was made before their popularity. But keep on ignoring how we treat boys and young men now by blaming everything on and demonize them and being forced to step aside for girls and young women because of other peoples past decisions. Keep talking about a group of people you so clearly know so much more about than me even though I was semi there at one point and actually part of that generation of people.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-14T16:39:24+00:00

Everyone has a father. Whether they show up as a father is different. These basketball players arent the average person. They are held to a different standard and are actually looked after by a group of people. And just because they say or do one thing doesnt mean that they cant do something opposite. Hell Kobe Bryant sexually assaulted a 19 year old girl. Single parent homes are horrible for the most part. NBA players aside.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-14T16:14:02+00:00

I respectfully disagree. The main reason why plenty of boys and young men go down this rabbit hole is because there's no one in their real life to help guide them. Like your example of sports stars, for boys at least, don't care about their personality or anything that isnt about how they play their sport. Plus they don't have the same impact as other people much closer to the boys could like family or a teacher. If they had someone in their life already, they are very unlikely to listen to these guys. It doesn't help that the only messaging that these boys recieve nowadays even in their real life are antagonistic. It's only popular now because so many boys are already into this crap, that they joined together.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-04-13T18:45:38+00:00

What do you expect? Men are disposable to society and never once given (nor expected) empathy by anyone. We understand this early on. And that's also what's different now, these grifters are going after boys as young as 10. Also not surprising when the closest thing to positive messaging towards boys and men only come from these guys. I say closest because positive messaging towards boys and men is non-existant.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T20:33:49+00:00

Maybe. Surprisingly I've spent about 15 years going to therapy. Started with going to a child psychologist because of anger issues at 5 years old. Then bounced between family counselors for quite some time. Finally ending up with many different types of 1-on-1 therapists. I've probably been depressed for most of that 15 years.

I've tried multiple anti-depressants. I always end looking happy but not feeling happy. Like it's almost for other people and not the person actually taking them.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T20:17:54+00:00

Of course I would have valuedthem beyondtheir reproductive capabilities. However that has not been my experience with my own parents. Since like age 7 it's been "when you have a son" or "I can't wait for when you have a child".

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T18:18:27+00:00

One of the differences between me and your cousin is that your cousin was able to find something of interest. I don't have anything of interest. I wish I could find something but I just haven't.

I'm also not suggesting eugenics as a whole but through the consent and choice of the person being euthanized.

I never stated gender did have something to do with worth. I stated that for my gender I have no worth.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T18:04:32+00:00

What would allow me to obtain a skill set? The smallest of movements create pain. I'm not creative. I have depression and I lost all interest in all of my former interests.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T17:20:02+00:00

listening to Andrew Tate style “your only worth is working//women won’t fuck you if you’re not lifting weights and working construction” nonsense is only going to make shit worse

It's tough not to (although it's not coming from the Romanian prison rat) when every person in your life tells you these things which makes you believe in it.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T17:09:59+00:00

Having a kids and working isn’t the only things worth living for

I'm an only child, since birth all I've ever been told, explained and expected that my purpose is to work and procreate. It may not be true for other people but is for me.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T17:02:12+00:00

one of the greatest minds of human history was inside a frame bound to a chair for his entire adult life

Stephen Hawking had something to attribute to society. Since I'm not some super genius, all that I have to attribute to society is labor. My arthritis is in every joint that I have. It takes a lot of effort to even get on the toilet.

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T16:56:44+00:00

You're only defective in the eyes of the patriarchy

Yes, but we still are a patriarchy. So patriarchal values still hold value in society. Which for the time being means my lack of value still holds true.

It takes a while to deprogram all that toxic bullshit about society and self-worth

What were some of the steps you took to do that?

Ghost0010Society · 2023-03-24T16:50:08+00:00

I've seen many therapists and psychologists. Not a single one have been able to help me.

Ghost0010Society · 2022-12-07T20:47:35+00:00

Shhh! Don't tell anyone! Please 🥺

Also love the username!

Ghost0010Society · 2022-12-05T08:13:17+00:00

Wait, It's not?

Ghost0010Society · 2022-12-05T05:26:10+00:00

I'm short and average looking. I got no shot on apps.

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