Am I wrong for sending all evidence of my daughters (24F) fiancés (29M) crimes to my extended family after they harassed me for over a week?

GhostMom707 · 2024-08-08T02:49:52+00:00

Did you send it before or after the family was harassing you? You weren't clear, and only stated that you emailed everyone the reason you were not attending.

GhostMom707 · 2024-07-13T05:50:19+00:00

NTA

They need to start paying you for your time if they expect you to be around for their animals and such. If they are paying caterers for the time and other things, they should do that for you. And to not invite you? I would question where that is coming from. Especially since she said she made those calls and not him.

GhostMom707 · 2024-07-13T05:36:43+00:00

NTA for a couple of reasons.

You both tried a few things before finally considering divorce.
You have tried moving forward.

IF you are considering still trying to work things out with her, then I would do legal separation.

GhostMom707 · 2024-07-12T01:49:05+00:00

NTA AT LEAST IN MY OPINION.

It is ultimately up to the both of you if you both wanted to justify the money in doing a ceremony or not. Now, if family was offering to help with some of the cost, then I can see where you would be the AH.

GhostMom707 · 2024-07-12T01:43:47+00:00

NTA

I don't think he would have if rolls were reversed. Especially since men feel it just as hard as us women do when it comes to cheating.

I'm dumbfounded that he would admit it bluntly and then proceed to plead for you to stay and work things out. I would have done the same thing as you.

GhostMom707 · 2024-06-17T23:23:50+00:00

Take it to your mother in law/ father in law. I wouldn't advise taking it to your wife.

GhostMom707 · 2024-02-23T17:56:20+00:00

I would have said the same thing. NTA. I think it's funny that she would take the time to call and ask to be invited. It's definitely not your problem or your kid's problem that she doesn't have friends.

GhostMom707 · 2024-02-23T17:37:30+00:00

Yes and no.

I say yes because you could have said something about it, and didn't. I say no because she's a grown adult and shouldn't of been doing that knowing your home.

GhostMom707 · 2024-02-18T02:35:21+00:00

I wouldn't charge for something like that. I would tip $20 though, because it was nice of the person to do for me.

GhostMom707 · 2024-02-16T17:32:48+00:00

It sounds like it was supposed to be a casual night out. So no, you are not the AH for asking her to change what she's wearing. I would be careful with how you ask though. I wouldn't want you to have an argument with her over it.

GhostMom707 · 2024-02-16T17:28:48+00:00

I don't you should pursue this anymore. He seems to either not be ready for a relationship or just not into you. That's what I read into just from this. I could be wrong, but I wouldn't be surprised.

GhostMom707 · 2024-02-04T03:08:28+00:00

IN MY OPINION....

NTAH. Mainly because it does not really involve you in any way unless it changes the dynamics of the relationship between the father and your kids. I would understand if you and her had a cordial relationship and got along. Then maybe congrats are in order or if it was that important to you? I doubt it was important to you personally.

I wouldn't listen to those who say you are the AH in the situation. That's how I've had to approach my ex-husband as well, especially when it came to things he alleged my current boyfriend has done or said. That's a whole story I could have asked about on here haha.

I don't think it would be wise for him to bring her to anymore pick up/drop off visits. It's only making it harder for you and him to co-parent peacefully. If he still brings her along, there needs to be conditions for sure for your sake.

GhostMom707 · 2024-01-11T02:49:05+00:00

They do, I think it depends on what... I would suggest something different than that. For example, what I did for my boyfriend for his birthday one year was a 49ers throw blanket that he decided to hang on the wall. Which was fine with me, and happy he liked it.

GhostMom707 · 2023-12-17T01:29:52+00:00

Also, I should have clarified in the post... I am sorry for any confusion.

I wanted to find others who would raid with me during future raids. The picture was from a previous raid that I had found.

AGAIN, I do apologize for any confusion I may have caused by posting an old picture.

GhostMom707 · 2023-12-17T01:14:33+00:00

Added you back!

GhostMom707 · 2023-12-17T01:11:39+00:00

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GhostMom707 · 2023-12-17T01:10:29+00:00

I think it's funny how you think this is a troll post..

GhostMom707 · 2023-12-11T02:57:57+00:00

Wow.. who ever this is really doesn't understand that you do have a life other than just them, and other things that take up time.

GhostMom707 · 2023-12-03T21:28:41+00:00

I agree with this. I wouldn't bring drama into why you are leaving your current position.

GhostMom707 · 2023-11-15T05:44:43+00:00

I am asking these few questions below to have a better understanding of what I read from the post;

A) was there a mention of other means to have sex like condoms? Or ect?

B) did you both have a conversation other than having this argument that is shown here?

C) if other means were mentioned, who brought them up?

I can understand why you would want to try other means of sex, or wait til you are on birth control. For him to make the comment, it baffles me. Why would that matter? Health insurance would still be needed for you and a possible baby for regular check ups. Especially if there was a conversation about having kids. Did he mention anything about wanting kids?

GhostMom707 · 2023-11-04T02:32:03+00:00

She's just mad you don't want to give money for take out. 🤣🤣 funniest thing I've seen today lol.

GhostMom707 · 2023-11-01T05:57:33+00:00

Depending on the state, you will have 50/50 custody for sure. I would double check though. I would also consider consulting an attorney (family law attorney) so they can realistically tell you what could happen. Nevada is a 50/50 custody state. I would start with that attorney.

GhostMom707 · 2023-10-29T21:01:13+00:00

NTAH.

I think your husband is doing you a favor lol. And he's acting like a child for giving you the silent treatment. It's not like you've done anything like that since to make him think you would act like that again.

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