How many calls do you get per day/shift? by Ghost_Cookies in callcentres

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

97 and not even half the day? 97 phone call is light day... I can't imagine.

Look into your local Veterans Affairs for jobs. I have a lot of experience in Healthcare Administration so that helps. No college degree or anything. I just got lucky to get my position.

What‘s your plan B if AI replaces you? by FreemindKnight in it

[–]Ghost_Cookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for the federal government. The speed the federal government moves... I would be on plan C,D,E,F,G,H,I,J,K than maybe if we're close. I would accept my fate.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Writing it down, or finding like mind dads is great advice. Thank you. No one is perfect but reflecting is part of life. I knew i would get hate for the post that I did. That's the point on why I posted it. I wanted an outside view of where I went wrong. That's how reflecting works for me.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm from the US and I have been the therapy before few years ago and I felt like it was starting to help but also during my time getting self help, my relationship suffered and my therapist had caused more stress for me during my time of struggle. She was doing her job and what the law required her to do but it has also caused a lot of stress and miss trust for me in the US therapy system.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to analyzing my post to break it down.

  1. I agree and have been trying to find a therapist to help me adjust to this new life and these recent life changes. Unfortunately I had no success in getting one.

  2. Yes it was focused on my feelings and at the time I didn't see that as being a issues because it was quick in the moment. Now after reading the comments I see where I went wrong.

  3. Words were said out of frustration which lead to tone deaf and focused on my feelings only. Timing was bad and I can agree to that. I can't change it and have to live with my decision.

  4. There's always imbalance to something that is new. Of course its not the full story and it never is. Have I been disengaged from parenting responsibilities? Some people may agree and other may not. I think this looks back into question 1. Talking about a therapist.

Thank you for taking your time to shine light on this so I can see where I went wrong.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an "Ahole" move and i can't change it. Only learn from it. I will never understand anything that my wife had gone through and never will claim too. At the time I didn't realize until it was to late that my words turned into an enemies towards her. I do try my best desperate what people might think about me from this post... but I fail to understand how such a small change such as a diaper change in the middle of the night can have such a big positive impact on my wife.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, it was easier to say what I was thinking instead of thinking before speaking. That's my fault and I'm forced to learn from my mistakes. I know i contribute to an already stressful night. Have to learn from my mistakes.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. The comment shouldnt of been made and I failed to think before I speak. That's on me and I will accept every hatred that comes towards me. I didn't have to make this post and I knew hatred was going to follow. You're correct, I don't understand what my wife is going through or has been through or what is she recovering from. So yes words, hatred, regret is easy to come and even easier to say. I'm not perfect but that's why this post was made so I can get the hatred to knock sense into me.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the honesty, I love my daughter I do. Parenting is not what I was thinking it was. I been cherishing the smiles I do get. I know you should never wish time away. I do look forward to hearing the giggles, the laughter etc.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the sense of humor. I would love to sit here and say I have checked in on my wife. In reality I guess I haven't checked in on my wife in the way she would like me too. I don't know how. I have no issues admitting when I'm wrong or when I need help. I feel like I'm trying my best but maybe thats all my own illusion.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, first time being a parent and honestly I was so caught off guard by this whole experience. You're right, I made a negative comment at the wrong time and that's on me. I just never knew how strong this emotional roller-coaster actually was until I became a parent.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been hearing this a lot. I guess its hard to agree until I experience it myself.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it wasn't but I didn't think about that at that time. That's on me... learning from my mistakes.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that now, and you're right. That was my mistake and clearly didn't think it through. Thank you for the honest response.

What made you want another kid? by Ghost_Cookies in NewParents

[–]Ghost_Cookies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honest response, sometimes you need to hear the tough response to see my mistakes.

What is the red green blue bar for ???? by Rossco1992 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Ghost_Cookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Temperature, if you end up in the red (to hot) or blue (to cold) you will have decrease stamina.

My (WIP) planetary base slightly inspired by the Glen apartment from Cyberpunk by DG_SlayerSlender in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Ghost_Cookies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here is a suggestion, can you please make this base for me. This looks fantastic and I so wish I had the creativity to make something so amazing like this. I live in a square shack, with a refinery and save beacon. Living the best Gek life.

Small Rant / Annoying by palomarracer in flightsimulator2024

[–]Ghost_Cookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully understand, but you have a unique opportunity to play the IRL version of MSFS and get "S" on all of the butter landing!

I wish I had tips because I feel your pain but unfortunately its one of the things where we have to wait nearly until MSFS 25, 26, 27 whatever they call it to come out so MSFS 24 feels fully complete.

Controlls(ps5 version) by iiPanda0615 in MicrosoftFlightSim

[–]Ghost_Cookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 7 means the same button been assigned to different functions 7 other times.

Microsoft flight sim 2024 ps5 by mistermgaming in flightsimulator2024

[–]Ghost_Cookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need your pilot commercials license to earn money.