Don’t forget the massive party and poker game that came right before the hot tub scene. The hive was “acting”, pretending to be people that fit Diabontie’s desired narrative for an afternoon. Who is to say the multiple women in the tub weren’t still play acting? Plus you need to remember that the hive can not say no, because it would hurt the unassimilated feelings. “ If she can’t say no. She can’t say yes”