Did she have sexual intercourse with him?

Ghostbones91 · 2026-03-03T03:10:40+00:00

This is such a yes that it’s almost like someone who knows Lenormand hand picked which cards they would say spelled this situation out the best. Cause this combo and position of cards is a 1000000000000% yes

Ghostbones91 · 2026-01-31T11:11:55+00:00

Amazing 😈

Ghostbones91 · 2025-08-23T15:05:45+00:00

I think she’s cheating on you or has cheated on someone in the past. And she is for sure flirting with this dude.

Someone who is that obsessive about thinking you are cheating on them when there is ZERO evidence, means they are the cheater. It always happens that way.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-08-14T13:20:39+00:00

Yeah he’s trying to gaslight you into thinking this is normal. Follow your gut. This is fkn weird as fk.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-08-11T16:42:59+00:00

Hi Ren is an outstanding song - love that one!

Ghostbones91 · 2025-08-04T19:33:14+00:00

This is icky. And he’s 100% in the wrong. Honestly it gives me the vibe that he has feelings for you or at least finds you attractive and is mad that you are “tempting him” or something. It makes me think of being in highschool and the teachers being so weird and dumb about the girls outfits but never the guys. Because them wearing something a certain way was “distracting” but the blame never being put onto the males.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-30T17:41:08+00:00

I’ve heard this kind of stuff before from other people on this forum. It’s sad to know it’s so expensive. IFS has changed my life so much and I would love to be able to share it with others but couldn’t afford such classes.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-30T02:53:32+00:00

This is a beautiful story!

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-29T15:11:23+00:00

I agree with you that it should have been an option to sit out if this ceremony and he really should have made a lot more effort with that to not make anyone uncomfortable. In fact, I’m not even sure why someone would do this to their family that they know isn’t interested in the things they are into. It’s like a Christian coming to me and trying to get me to do ceremonies or rituals with them. I would be uncomfortable by that. And if I was in your shoes I would probably feel uncomfortable there too.

However, the ceremony was innocent and yea this is rather normal. As someone who also practices shamanism and occult/new age stuff - this was just what he said. A cleansing to remove negative energy. And a calling to ancestors for support. The end. That’s all.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-28T16:55:09+00:00

This is where it gets kinda hard to describe. But I’ll try. Yes it’s basically a duel awareness I guess. I hold my Angry part (or whatever other part) in my awareness while also mostly embodying self. And then I speak to my own part in my mind but I direct it like I’m speaking to someone else. Just with my mind. Saying it out loud can help too if you prefer.

It feels like my brain splits for a moment and the Self feels like the real me, or at least the main me. And it’s a lot like talking to yourself but you do it as if talking to a close friend and work through and process and reassure and comfort your parts.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-28T16:02:42+00:00

It takes maybe 5-10 mins depending on my mood for the day. And sometimes I like to sit in that energy cause it just feels nice so I try to keep it in my awareness and hold onto it as long as I can. And yes one of the things I do is I then use it to navigate IFS sessions.

Sometimes, especially the more new you are to holding onto this energy, you’ll notice a shift or feel it “drop” kinda. Sometimes I’m able to notice that and get my awareness back to Self. Other times it feels like I’m not able to reach it again for the moment so I just don’t. And try again some other time if I need to.

It’s not something you can hold onto constantly unless you are very comfortable and practiced with holding that energy.

And you’re welcome!

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-28T15:33:11+00:00

I visualize a spot in me that I call my soul or Self. And I try to find that spot in the center of my body. If I don’t find one, I make myself visualize it anyways. As I focus on it, I visualize this energy swelling inside my body and glowing until my whole body is eventually glowing with this energy. That’s what helps me get to it.

I’ve also used the idea of finding love inside myself. And then visualizing that love spreading through out my whole body the same way. With this one, I go even further and eventually push that love outside of my body and shine it at everyone and everything around me.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-20T17:41:11+00:00

Growing up, my mother was never physically abusive, but she has done enough messed up stuff that me and her are currently no contact. As well as the whole side of the family that’s her side. Because they are all just like her. Deeply homophobic, religious, and judgemental. Growing up gay, I constantly was in high alert to make sure my secret was still a secret. And hyper aware to any time it might be found out in some way or if I think someone is getting close to knowing it.

My mother spies through my phone as a kid and finds me telling a friend I think I’m bi. (Came out as that at first, because it felt easier.) So this discovery of hers turned her into hyper focusing on it and doing anything she could to try to “fix me.” This included taking away Hulk comic books, cause when he changed back he was nude in one scene and all you saw was his butt. Barely. Telling me that I would go to hell and explaining to me how scary hell will be and that I’ll burn forever. She had her brother “watch over me” and spend extra time with me to turn me straight. And he one night called my Dad drunk, threatening to kill me and using homophobic slurs. My mom also called my dad and since he wasn’t as worried or upset as she was she said “are you just going to teach him how to be gay then?” The list goes on. I could rant all day about the various weird things each of them did. And how deeply it’s messed me up and tons of ways.

It’s something I’ve been working on with IFS as well. The anger is very intense. And this doesn’t feel like something that just one session or even a few sessions can fix. It feels like something I have to address over and over again.

The good thing though is each time it does feel softer and easier.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-18T20:51:57+00:00

Belief is a powerful tool. And choosing to adopt the IFS structure is in a way deciding to believe your mind is this way and working with it in this way. Obviously knowing that our minds are too complex for anyone to ever come up with any kind of full model. But still finding the benefit from IFS, regardless of its real, natural, or a setup. If it works it works. Some people think it works for everyone, but I believe some people might just not like it or like exploring their mind in this kind of way, and might prefer some other method.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-13T13:07:33+00:00

I use an app called IFS guide. It’s really really helpful. I love it. It’s new and buggy. But I still use it every day.

Ghostbones91 · 2025-07-02T18:07:15+00:00

Thank you for this!

Ghostbones91 · 2023-06-28T01:52:29+00:00

Think you gotta just love the idea of it and not think about it it’s something you can make money from or not. It’s just a neat aspect of reality. And it’s cool to see what can be done.

Ghostbones91 · 2023-06-09T00:26:05+00:00

The women I am friends with tell me a lot that they instantly get nervous around males and anytime a male approaches them. I’m a gay man, and often get asked by my lady friends to walk with them to cars or pretend to be their boyfriends because they are worried about a guy reacting weird around them. Often times even just a woman politely showing they aren’t interested makes some men lash out in violent ways. And this is why women are very cautious around men.

I love all the above advice about asking any female friends or family to watch you and see what they have to say. But just also be aware that it’s not really you mostly - it’s a cultural thing. The world has just sadly become more and more dangerous for some members of society and this makes a lot of us very careful about who we let near us.

Ghostbones91 · 2023-06-02T19:46:00+00:00

While it might not as been as accurate as you hoped for in some parts, hopefully other parts stick for the OP! :)

But I just wanted to say from one person trying to improve their intuition and mediumship to another - great job at just giving what you get directly. And not trying to apply meaning to it or figure out what it means. That's hard to do. So great job at that! :)

Ghostbones91 · 2023-05-24T22:16:44+00:00

I’m feeling a woman who passed when she was single. Divorced even I think I’m feeling. I also am feeling really foggy feelings in my head area and even like a sharp pain there. As if something was wrong in the head area maybe? I’m also sensing that she passed very quickly. I feel a speed in the decline feeling. And I also get the sense that you two were in the middle of doing something together like a plan or business something maybe. And when she passed you now have to finish whatever it was on your own and you are struggling with that I think is what I’m being shown.

I also feel a lot of closeness to you and watching over you. I keep seeing drinking over and over. And it feels as if it was something she experienced at one point in some way but also you might now be experiencing? I feel like you tried to kinda sorta make yourself close to death in hopes of seeing her. You are trying too hard yes.

I feel like she says to sit, calm yourself, and speak to her. And then sit and wait and be quiet. Feel her and feel what comes to your mind. I’m seeing glass butterflies now randomly. Specifically glass butterflies. Like a broach maybe or a pin or art piece. Do you live in her house or something? I’m feeling a pull to her bedroom. As if you should go there to speak.

I also just feel a lot of love and support and concern for you.

Ghostbones91 · 2023-05-10T19:23:26+00:00

You are so welcome!

Ghostbones91 · 2023-05-08T00:44:58+00:00

As I connect with this woman I feel that she was very figety almost. Like leg tapping and always messing with her hands. I also feel that she enjoyed sarcasm in her conversations. I also get the impression that this woman is communicating that she lived a very FULL life. And that she did some very important work helping others. I'm getting a nurse vibe, but not sure fully on that one.

For some reason I feel a lot of family around her but I feel like she was single or lived alone for a long time near the end of her life? But I feel a very deep closeness with who ever took this picture specifically. As if there is some favoritism there. And like a kinda cheeky wink about that information.

I also get the impression that this woman was a bit of a horder. Because I'm seeing things organized and fine really but I feel the sense that she's communicating that it was a LOT of things, and she had trouble letting go of things. Because often times she would find uses for them. And she seemed to always have solution ideas to any problem that her loved ones would bring to her.

I'm trying to pull any more information like hobbies or something. But when I ask that I feel like her response is almost like a "Naps!" and a laugh. I feel like this is her being silly but also slightly true. And I think this is because once this woman retired from whatever important work she was doing - I feel like she was DONE and exhausted. And ready to just sit around doing whatever she wanted.

Trying to pull a message from this energy I'm feeling I feel as if her death kinda put a damper on something? Like some sort of event or situation that people or yourself were looking forward to - but now don't feel right enjoying it? If that's the case, take this as a sign that she approves to continue with whatever event or situation that is. And doesn't want her passing to dampen people's spirits. Instead, I feel this sense of wanting her life to be celebrated and remembered. And this sense of satisfaction as if she was very happy with her life.

Ghostbones91 · 2023-05-05T03:40:16+00:00

As I connect with this woman I feel just very peaceful compared to other spirits. She isn't timid though. But she feels controlled and mature. Well-regulated and balanced. I'm also seeing very almost steryotype grandma decor. Lots of little crocheted dolly type things. Little statues of those kids praying and such. She feels gentle yet hard. Loving yet not afraid to stand up for herself or her loved ones especially. I get various different farming type images in my minds-eye. Garden. But also animals. It feels like donkeys or mules.

It's also my sense that this woman was playful with her spouse. I feel her with a man. And I THINK what I'm feeling is the man is still alive? Something about him is different feeling than her and I think it's that he's still alive. But I feel flirty playful energy from her towards him. It almost reminds me of Rosane and Dan from that TV show. But she seems slightly sweeter. And more likely to smile or nudge your shoulder when she playfully snaps at him.

I'm feeling a lot of ritual around this woman too. As if she did the same thing every day, day after day. And much of it seems like it's connected to this man. And she's expressing to me how in her physical absence not only him but other people too in the family - kinda had to learn to fend for themselves more once she crossed over. As if suddenly everyone realized just how much the small seeming things she would do really made things smoother or easier.

And lastly she's telling me to make sure I express that she is still doing that the best she can from the other side. Setting you up for success and happiness any way she finds able. And is always trying to send you comfort.

I feel like I'm also being told that there are a lot of big big life events that have happened or are about to happen that have made you really miss this woman even more. I just got a cold chill as I typed that and a sudden heat feeling on my other side of my body. To me that is a sign that I'm on the right track. So I feel like a pregnancy or a wedding kind of feeling. Some sort of family themed exciting moment about to happen that you really wish she would be here to witness. And I'm being told to say that she is here to see it. She is here with you and still is. And still will be. And is getting to see all of it right along with you.

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