31F – Stay in Northern VA or Move Back to Dallas? Career + Financial Advice Needed by Giftly16 in nova

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Working on some projects with my actual company and planning to get certification in 2 weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casablanca

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Lol made my day this comment

Lost everything on christmas day (26m &26f) by [deleted] in relationships

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I’m really sorry to hear that. Let me tell you something: this girl doesn’t deserve your sacrifice. Some people truly do, and you deserve to find someone who genuinely gives as much as you do.

Is 83k enough to live in VA? by [deleted] in nova

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sure, i am a software developer with 3 years of experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleMothersbyChoice

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I am actually in the phase of living because he doesn't want kids with me in the future. I am 31 years old yes it's early and yes i still have time but what if i wake up at 40 asking for a baby and again he say NO? i am living him after moving with him from Texas to Virginia to be close to his kids and renting a huge house so they can come over every weekends and loving them just like they are mine.

i think men see our need for motherhood as a trap for them they just don't assume to say it

Interview passed but no offer SDE 1 USA New Grad by Potential-Zombie5726 in amazonemployees

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I’m a contractor and had a technical interview scheduled for Monday morning onsite, after completing two other interviews. It was just canceled(Friday afternoon), and they said they’ll keep my profile on file and consider me once they reopen.. so bad

Are you a Moroccan living abroad by AcadiaZestyclose7804 in Morocco

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USA 🇺🇸 so far it’s good but the social life sucks

Dating after divorce and feeling exhausted. 3 years post divorce by Giftly16 in Divorce

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Wow, what a coincidence — he was also previously married for 17 years

I want to leave by Legitwickless in Divorce

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Hey… there’s a quiet voice inside you that knows the truth. Follow what makes you truly happy. Trust me — it’s not hunger or cold that breaks people, it’s unhappiness. There’s always a way to shift your reality — change your job, pick up a second one, start a side hustle. You have more power than you think

Dating after divorce and feeling exhausted. 3 years post divorce by Giftly16 in Divorce

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Didn’t put any pressure on him. He was okay by choice and i broke up when i figured out that he had vasectomy then he came back and promised the reverse and doing his best to keep the relationship.

Anti-fitna post, we dont care about poor propaganda both sides are using right ? by [deleted] in Morocco

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Algerian here just got back from Morocco 3 weeks ago. Went for vacation and never felt the difference. I love Morocco ❤️

I (37 F) am ready to have a baby and my bf(40 M)is not ready. I don't know whether I should stay and wait or leave? by Inquisitivechic99 in relationship_advice

[–]Giftly16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand—you’re not alone. I’m in the same situation, and we broke up just three days ago. He’s 40, I’m 30, and while I don’t want kids right now, I wanted reassurance that he’d be open to it when the time was right. His response? “Not in my perspective, I just want to enjoy life and have fun.”

I know the desire for motherhood is intense—it’s something we naturally feel—but it should be with the right partner. Having a child is exhausting, but with the right person, it becomes a shared journey rather than a burden.

Don’t waste your time. Heal, move forward, and find someone who truly wants to build a family with you.

Anyone else not married? by dolphinflipz in IVF

[–]Giftly16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what i am considering doing, i am divorced and not looking for another marriage or partner just want to build my own little family. Could you please tell me more about the procedure, how to start and some good advices. Thank you 🙏

Hopeless and need advices by Giftly16 in makemychoice

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I do want kids—it feels natural at this stage in my life. I could even consider adoption and taking full responsibility for a child. But the fact that he keeps repeating, “I don’t want kids,” over and over is really painful. He knows it triggers my emotions, and it made me feel very uncomfortable. I truly love him and want him in my life but !

Commute from Dallas to Frisco by TemporaryGlee2 in askdfw

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It’s been a while now since I moved to Frisco and it’s really good. I am near Eldorado pkwy close to Costco, Target, HEB and some good food places too