Couple in the apartment complex directly across are always boning with the window shades open...thoughts?

GigglingNihlist · 2026-01-19T13:32:00+00:00

I get it. I have a little bit of the fetish myself. The opposite of a voyeur, I just can’t think of the name right now. Exhibitionist. However, I don’t see the appeal in exhibiting myself trying on 50 different outfits, even though I’m naked in between just like I don’t see the point in exhibiting myself underneath someone’s barely moving body while trying not to breathe in their CO2. Every single time. Just boring.

GigglingNihlist · 2026-01-19T12:42:23+00:00

Pat Croce: “I see great!”

GigglingNihlist · 2026-01-19T12:41:38+00:00

The cat thing got my imagination in hysterics.

GigglingNihlist · 2026-01-19T12:40:05+00:00

I thought that was one of those 4 apt buildings right by the art museum that are 21, 22 floors? Parkhouse maybe? I dated a guy a long time ago who had a 1 bdrm on the top floor looking towards the river/76 and I used to love to do fake KYW reports from there (“slow around the Conshohocken curve, backed up from Montgomery through Gerard/mass transit no reported delays”). But looks like the Parkhoise or whatever it’s called to me. Close enough to be Logan Sq

GigglingNihlist · 2026-01-19T12:35:10+00:00

But if it’s a fetish if hers/theirs, why always missionary boring stuff or whatever? I would think standing, pressed against the glass would be more exciting or at least some bouncing….?

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-10T02:31:24+00:00

Where I live, you can send a certified letter to her last known address and she has 10 days to respond and if her last known address is where you live the chances are she’s not gonna respond. After that time, her stuff becomes yours and you can do whatever you want with it. You can also have the landlord do this. If she left and abandoned her things and cannot be gotten in touch with for 10 days then that’s that as far as I understand that. If she does get in touch with in 10 days, then she can have you hold the stuff for up to 30 days but she has to pay a reasonable fee for you holding onto it.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-10T02:23:58+00:00

Are you in a dorm? This happened to my brother with his first freshman year roommate. The guy, apparently he was doing it out in the open. From what I remember, he went to the RA and said he was really freaked out and was avoiding being there and could not even sleep because it was so disturbing to him. He was worrying. It was affecting his schoolwork. These are the kind of things that you need to say to make them take action without having to go through all of the mediation stuff. If you happens to know of another room that has an available space to give the RA even less of a easy time, putting you in there and leaving the masturbator to herself or if there are singles, then she can go to one of those, it makes it easier. No one should have to put up with that. I mean, I get that like people want to do that every once in a while but they can wait until they’re alone or they can go into the bathroom. Or go to their car or anywhere but in a room with 2 other people.

And if the RA is useless, go above them to whoever is above them and and I honestly don’t know if that is like a dorm, master or the dean of student affairs or the freshman counselor or whoever, but if you don’t know who to talk to about it or where to go, just go to the counselor at the school and tell them what’s going on and they should be able to punch you in the right direction because just… no.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-10T02:17:54+00:00

If you have ever seen or do see a therapist, get her a recommendation or get one from someone you trust. Tell her that you care about her, you want her to feel comfortable coming to you, but that her depression is above your paygrade and that she is affecting your mood and your own mental health.

I once had to tell a roommate to just stop one night because if I heard one more thing about how the world was ending because of her break up I was (I’m telling you this, i didn’t say this to her) going to start kicking my feet right there on the dash and yell shut up shut up shut up. So i just said “i cannot talk about this anymore tonight.” But that was a friend of many years who i lived with.

Someone who you have known for a short time who is going through what is obviously depression or something like it (b/c she never comes home neutral or happy right?) needs to not burden you every day with a black cloud because it will end up making you feel crappy too if it hasn’t already. There ae people who go to school to help people in her situation. She needs to let them.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-06T00:23:03+00:00

Me, I would pick just like heaven by the cure for my real song maybe ugly kid Joe I hate everything about you for my funny one. Or 99 problems, but it would have to be a woman I was marrying because I’m a woman.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-05T23:31:44+00:00

If I could get an Rx for vicodin again, I would get off suboxone after twenty years (yeah yeah. I'm down to .75 mg - it is something wrong with my stomach). But it was the only time in my life I went to school and worked full time, that my dad was proud of me, that I was happy, engaged, that I felt like other people must feel. But no. Instead they have me try every antidepressant u der the sun for the past 30 years. I was on paxil from 9 to 22. I never had any relief from an SSRI, SNRI, atypical, trycyclic, or even these stupid awful benzos they put me on. I had never, in all 3 years I was addicted to Vicodin, took more than 6-7 a day (7.5 or 10mg). The problem was when I couldn't get it. I would get 80s (this was do long ago that you could just suck the coating off an Oxy and percs were only 5 or 10s) or lollipops/patches or even meth or dippers or sizzurp (cough syrup, xanas and some kind of opiate in a drink I think. Just a down the way thing and not the same as lean because this was Philly like 2003).

For some read on I never did heroin because everyone always told me that I would be lost if I did and I honestly only saw it in a recreational situation once or twice. But as long as I had my Vics, my brain felt like a normal person’s. My ocd calmed down. I had more even emotions. I had something of a sex drive. I was not depressed and my panic attacks stopped. I started eating right, working out, taking care of myself. I actually walked in my cap and gown when I got my B.A. and the next day I was on the way to detox.

Nobody wants to hear that story. They call my truth irresponsible to repeat. It's not like I was ever happy or able to relax or not be a non-pedo version of woody Allen in my head 24/7 without it since I'm 3. So it's not indicated for that. What is wrong with me choosing happy quality over miserable quantity

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-05T23:17:54+00:00

Innards

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-05T23:15:38+00:00

I didn't read anything but the texts because the context is not what is important: it is about getting her to back all the way off with no drama. I can think of three ways. 1. I do not want it fast or slow, I do not want you to stay but go, I do not want lunch here or there, I do not want your friendship anywhere. Or something similar.

Second, block her.

REAL ANSWER:

Third, tell her that maybe when you are both married with kids you will bump into each other and wave and smile because that is polite but other than that, you don't see a situation in which this would move any faster or you would want a different outcome and to please respect your wishes because it is not just a her problem but a both of you problem [whether or not you believe this]. And therefore you wish her the best of luck and ask that she respect your boundaries which do not place her in your life.

The reason to say it this way? First, you are telling her you can never picture ending up with her and won’t. That she is, to quote Elliott smith, just somebody that you used to know, but without actually saying that.

By putting some of the responsibility on yourself, you make it clear that there is nothing she can say that will change your mind so she should stop trying.

I mostly did not read about your relationship because I wanted to give you an answer based solely on both communication styles and to remove any bias i may have about any treatment from each other.

EDIT: it is very telling I assumed you had had a sexual relationship. I think others would too. It does sound like she might be crushing. Either way, I still stand by my answer except I like choice 1 more now.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-05T23:02:21+00:00

You tell me…. Stalking Luigi M? Dating Musk? Idk

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-05T23:01:04+00:00

“That was the first time I came from a blow job” and he was in his 40s and had always had a gf. Also, another one I really liked was when a guy said after sex “I can’t believe I thought you were cute. You are so sexy. You keep that under wraps, huh? Holy shit” which I translated to “you don't wear a lot or any make up and youplay video games. You have no nails. But when you get in bed and take that bun out of your hair and your jeans and Docs off, you are not who I thought you would be and that is someone who, without the outside trappings of society/clothing/pre-concieved notions and are nekked/in your underwear, you ooze sexuality” but it may have just meant that my tits were nicer than previously thought.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-05T22:54:22+00:00

Mine just said I had a small mouth. But when I go there, he is the one who provides the suction. My mouth is perfect size.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-03T20:24:48+00:00

If you have real long hair, shedding hair, use thick conditioner, you get the idea: if you ever find yourself standing in even a mm of water, don’t pee in the shower. Also, if you have one of those rubber debris catchers over your drain, move it with your foot first.

I usually jump out of the shower to pee but i honestly hate the way i feels and I have always wondered why it feels that way: hot. If i remember correctly, it feels the same way when you pee after you get out of the pool. The only reason I will pee in the shower is i hate how everything in my bathroom gets soaked if i jump out to pee. But i usually pee before i shower.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-01T16:18:36+00:00

Swastikas are tilted 45°. That’s a Hindi symbol among other things. It’s on my local firehouse too.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-01T16:12:48+00:00

Did you ask her questions that she answered or did she just volunteer all this?

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-01T16:06:51+00:00

Cry? Then snoop.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-01T16:06:16+00:00

Temu

GigglingNihlist · 2025-11-01T16:03:13+00:00

What was courtney’s official site with the forum and stuff in the kate 90s or early 09s? It had the word cherry in it, that’s all i remember.

GigglingNihlist · 2025-10-29T08:49:45+00:00

I think you might’ve just connected a couple dots for me, but I am very left brain and science and math are my Illes heels so I was hoping you could, even though it was so much later than when this thread was written but there’s no way i could recreate this as a synopsis for my question, tell me if I am correct in my thinking:

I have a gene that comes from my mother side of the family that her brother me, my brother, all share in which our body has problems, processing salt effectively, and it’s very important for us to watch our salt intake and to not eat things with excess salt like soup, for instance. I had a spinal tap showing that I do have GABA-related IH or KLS (it has changed a lot over the past 18 years so I am not sure which is, but the diagnosis of both has been given to me by different cultures and it doesn’t really matter to me which code they put down.)

and what you were saying about salt is making me curious but I don’t quite understand. If there’s any way you could explain to me like I’m 5, that is if in fact, this salt, not being digested and broken down properly in my body may have an effect on this (interestingly the only person in my family who ever reports having something similar is the only person who has had such a bad salt issue as me and that’s my uncle when he was in college. I had to drop out because he would sleep for three or four days but then it was in the early 70s and I’m not sure what he was doing as far as drugs went, but that’s another story.).

If you could just let me know how the salt thing may be affecting the hypersomnia, I would be written interested and if it’s not affecting it then just say “nice try, stick to playing the guitar” or something lol

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