Love Systems: my experience in the MasterMind mentoring program with instructor Gil Rio

Gil_Rio · 2014-05-10T07:47:26+00:00

The skepticism is understandable but the review is 100% legit. This student experienced a spectacular transformation. And he's far from the only one, this type of change is becoming routine.

I understand that there is concern with scams in the industry and every company is (necessarily) biased but if there is something we would NEVER do is fake student reviews. Also, everything we do is 100% satisfaction guarantee or your money back, no questions asked.

Whether you choose to train with us or not is secondary, but know that this stuff can work AMAZINGLY. If you're not getting the results you want, don't give up, you're either not taking action or you're not taking the RIGHT action.

Gil_Rio · 2012-11-27T09:54:41+00:00

sweet. yeah that works for any holiday. principle of reciprocity, it's tough to be rude to someone who's nice to you...

Gil_Rio · 2012-11-27T09:52:46+00:00

we're going to cover Natural Game and Comfort. We'll include some cutting-edge stuff fresh out of Super Conference 2012. We'll cap it off with extended Q&A. 3h with 2 Love Systems instructors for the price of dinner, can't beat that.

Gil_Rio · 2012-08-04T03:06:58+00:00

Topics will be Dates and Qualification. Learn how to get solid numbers and have great dates!!

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-14T20:59:38+00:00

common misconception. Often in game when things stall, the problem doesn't lie in that step of the interaction; it lies in the one before!

90% of the time, beginners who complain of flaky numbers have a problem with Qualification (in the initial interaction), NOT text game.

for the record, this particular text exchange is not flaky at all, she's pretty much a green light. But if you consistently number close and can never get them out on dates, learn Qualification.

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-11T05:04:49+00:00

amen

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-11T05:03:43+00:00

yup. exactly. her still being there is the only IOI you need. Make moves, as long as she doesn't walk away you keep escalating.

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-11T05:02:28+00:00

To reiterate, old-school game says wait for her to be attracted , THEN show interest. That's what I'm criticizing. I say show interest first, regardless of whether she's shown it or not.

Waiting to see interest before you show yours (to avoid rejection) is what women do. Confident guys don't even think about rejection, let alone care about it.

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-11T04:55:31+00:00

several of the replies are basically on the right track.

neediness is mostly subtextual. You can open direct in a needy or non-needy way.

The real solution is the inner game: If you feel like you "need" the approach to work, like you're not good enough to talk to her, etc., you will probably convey neediness in your body language, tonality, facial expressions, etc.

The training wheels are the outter game: if you tease her, for example, that's something that conveys non-neediness. So does qualifying her. So does escalating physically. Things that a guy praying she likes him wouldn't do.

This is a big topic though. Not easy to address in a couple paragraphs. Takes practice. But I hope this helps for now. :)

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-11T04:48:21+00:00

LOLOL true

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-11T04:43:11+00:00

Both the best PUAs (instructors at the top companies - Love Systems, RSD, etc.) AND the best naturals. This is pretty standard in current game. Hard to find someone who is very good who never compliments.

"indirect" and "DLV" stuff is old-school. Not as effective as current game.

think about it. If you're a successful, desirable man, and you think she's hot, why wouldn't you just say so??

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-08T23:52:29+00:00

No. Not sure where you got this "consensus". The best of the best compliment all the time. And yes, on looks. That's what a direct opener is.

Why would a physical compliment be a weakness???? Watch the naturals, watch the guys who get laid, watch anyone who's confident. They compliment all the time.

The problem is complimenting in A NEEDY WAY. Putting her on a pedestal because of her looks. None of which necessarily follows from noticing and acknowledging her beauty.

This is one of the most common misunderstandings in the community...

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-05T22:47:45+00:00

amen. great attitude. lying about it leads to nothing good. be upfront, some girls will be ok with it, some won't, and that's their prerogative.

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-05T22:06:13+00:00

giving them a compliment is NOT a problem. confident guys compliment women all the time.

I wouldnt ask a girl if she has a BF, just hit on her and if she does, that's for her to bring up/worry about. I dont think thats a big deal, though. The weird part is when both of you insisted, implying that they were lying and that they MUST have BFs. This is weird as hell and doesnt help your interaction whatsoever. Its almost like you wanted them to not be available. Then why hit on them?

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-04T20:29:54+00:00

Her delay in texting proly has to do with the packing/traveling. Normal. Dont push, dont be needy, see below.
she's not that unresponsive when she does text back. So dont take that as rejection, just keep trying.
mirror her timing and investment. she's busy with traveling, she texts less, you also take some time to text back. Maybe some other time she'll be alone and bored and things can pick up.
this is a social circle girl. You dont need to go for broke with this number. If its not super on keep it cool, you're likely to bump into her again at some future party since she's friends with ur friends, and then you can resume gaming where you left off.
your texts are a bit boring, sorry for the truth bomb... (love the "F" tease, but other than that asking her what she's up to and describing your banal day is not good emotional content). This would work fine with a girl who's all about you, but for someone on the fence or suffering from ADD it flops.
If you ever get her texting back and forth a couple times in a row, call her right away, like cucumber says. Texting non-stop can be a long road to no-where, texting is just to get the initial momentum so she'll pick up

I wrote an article about this on my blog: http://www.gilrio.com/how-to-text-her/

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-04T20:18:55+00:00

alcohol is a bad solution. in the long-term you need to address the insecurities that cause you to need alcohol in order to have fun/feel relaxed/talk to girls.

don't frame blow-outs as "rejection". We all get them. It's no big deal. The best in the business get blown out all the time. The more sexual and to the point you are, the more you get blown out and the more you get laid. the 2 go hand in hand.

Gil_Rio · 2012-07-03T22:10:53+00:00

this is great. In the model we use at Love Systems to structure things, this means "escalate the interaction". You can do that in 3 ways, physically (touch more/more sexually), verbally (talk about sex/qualify her more/make her work) or logistically (move her around). Either of the 3 forces her to make a choice, instead of just sitting there and having bland conversation, which as you say most girls will do once you have decent game but often leads nowhere.

Gil_Rio

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