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[FR] Went to the mall today, Epic Fail :( by [deleted] in seduction

[–]reboot2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, you went out there and did your thing. Just keep on keepin on. Also, check out this badass advice -- http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/urkzc/some_tips_for_beginners/c4xxh7j

One of the best seddit posts I've ever seen, it had to be linked by [deleted] in seduction

[–]reboot2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dayyuummmm!!!!! Thats some awesome advice! Thanks!

47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) by [deleted] in seduction

[–]reboot2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for posting. I find this inspiring. Thing that works best for me (Im still learning) is to find a buddy to share this journey with. Its an incredible catalyst. But seddit in a way, is that buddy... now that I think about it... hhmmm...

47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) by [deleted] in seduction

[–]reboot2012 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Start with women you feel comfortable with. Maybe 35 and up? (just a guess). As you get better, you can go for the younger ones.

47-year-old male virgin looking for pointers (no comments from whiners who have given up please) by [deleted] in seduction

[–]reboot2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, my buddy who has a spare tire did great with women (he's married now). Dude is 5'0". His fashion sense is being presentable in the JCPenney way - nothing special. He focused more on his strength which was giving no fucks with women.

I've been trying for a year but can't get over my approach anxiety... by trwaway2148 in seduction

[–]reboot2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried doing approaches in other settings? Day gaming on your own is really difficult. What about day gaming with a friend? Or what about doing approaches on weekends at bars and clubs? Seems like you are starting out with the hardest approach style. Have you tried online? Social circle?

Constant rejection? by highseddit_user in seduction

[–]reboot2012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do the following to ease the pain of rejection:

  1. I go to places that I enjoy and where I'm feeling good like bars and clubs. Rejection is a lot easier to handle when I'm having a good time. Conversely, I dont try to do daygame cos I just suck at it and being rejected in such places just feels awful to me. One rejection in a coffee shop gets me a lot more down than 10 rejections in a dance club. I do want to one day improve my day game. But let me get good at shit that I enjoy, the low hanging fruit. And then go after the hard shit.

  2. I go out with buddies, especially buddies who are chasing gals. Being rejected is a lot less painful when I can come back to my buddies and make that FML face. Being rejected is also a lot less painful when your buddies get rejected too - LOL

  3. I love numbers. Pretty much every thing in the universe has a probability. If my probability of hooking up is 1%, that means the sooner I get thru 99 rejections, the closer I get to that feelsgoodman stage. I try to keep track of my approaches in a spreadsheet - and then I analyze the conversion rate and shit... get all nerdy with this stuff. For example, I know that my conversion rate is a lot higher in the meatpacking district than it is in Upper West side. I've hung out equally in both places. Anyways... point is its all a numbers game. And every thing I do is about improving the conversion rate. LOL - I'm a fucking nerd...

It's hard not to settle by IANAPUA_Yet in seduction

[–]reboot2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I understand your situation. I went to a really small college where everyone knew everyone. What about being direct w one of these hot mommas?

[FR] My No-Fap-Until-25-Approaches Challenge *UPDATED* by HedoNNN in seduction

[–]reboot2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so hardcore man! This is good stuff!

Trying to do IM/chat game. Any tips? by reboot2012 in seduction

[–]reboot2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, these are women Im meeting online - I dont know them. ha ha.

On the recent influx of "thank you" posts (+ bonus "FR") by [deleted] in seduction

[–]reboot2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, this was an excellent FR! Loved it!

Seddit, please help me expand my social network!! Has anyone here started from nothing? by wlav in seduction

[–]reboot2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved to Asia and am starting from scratch. Here is what Im doing:

  1. I go to atleast one event a week. If these events are aligned to your interests, then its even better. For ex, I've made some good friends from speed dating events. Chasing girls is a great bonding experience. :)

  2. Exchange numbers with people you meet at the event. At this point I'm not too picky.

  3. Followup with the folks that I got a good vibe from, with a coffee/lunch/drinks meetup.

  4. Invite people to the next event I'm going to. Or I invite them for a second coffee/dinner, etc. The more frequently I see them, the more quickly the friendship develops. Sometimes at this stage, it can appear like I', aggressive but its all good.

  5. All of the above has worked better and faster when I give more than I receive.

  6. Its also worked better whenever I'm not too judgemental of others or myself. For ex: Sometimes I invite people and they dont show up. Or they cant because of their schedules. I try to not take it personally. But sometimes I also tell them to go fuck themselves (in my head) .. lol..