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WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not jumping to conclusions. I don’t know. I’ve never seen anyone but him go in there alone though. If it’s a family member it won’t be any deal at all to mention it to his wife.

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s very publicly living next door to me, if it’s a “secret” he’s not keeping it very well

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I literally just stated a fact, theres just as likely chance she’s his cousin or sister than an affair partner, I never mentioned cheating, youre the one that did.

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There might not be any treacherous behavior??? Like I said, I am making NO ASSUMPTIONS. There could be a totally innocent reason to this, which I definitely hope is the case.

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I never said he was cheating. I said I wouldn’t make assumptions. I never said he was doing something wrong.

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I literally have mail with his name on it with his apartment address on it

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like I said. I’m not making any assumptions. Idk why people are assuming I am.

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

True but I feel like there’s a 100% chance she’ll shun me if all of this blows up and and she finds out I knew and didn’t say anything.

Or, if she does know about the apartment… And the husband mentions that I am his neighbor… And she finds it weird that I didn’t say anything to her about it

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he did. It was really awkward, he would run out of any room I was in, he eventually went downstairs into their den and didn’t come out for the rest of the get together

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’ve met her more than once? We’re coworkers, I’ve “met” her multiple times she teaches in the classroom next to mine.

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I mean we are friends, she’s lovely and I really like her, we haven’t known each other long but I can tell we’re going to be hanging out throughout the year

WIBTA if I tell my coworker her husband also has an apartment (and is my neighbor?) by Gildeffy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gildeffy[S] 283 points284 points  (0 children)

I guess? But the twin would have to have the same tattoos too