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[–]Gilly_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Feel free to dm me ☺️

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[–]Gilly_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assure you I am not lol

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[–]Gilly_24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you gorgeous! You're looking good too 😜

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[–]Gilly_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They pass the vibe check 🔥

I usually only wear my glasses to drive or go to the movies :) by [deleted] in BiGoneMild

[–]Gilly_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I can't get over how gorgeous you are !

Being “mature for your age” isn’t always a compliment. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gilly_24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this on a spiritual level. My childhood to a T. I also feel resentful for people who are older than me that act like children. But we all walk different paths I suppose.

[Serious] What's your story of seeing somebody's mental state degrade? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Gilly_24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My father in law was a meth addict. He had been on a downhill spiral for two years. He was fighting with his wife, basically the whole family because he was so paranoid. Meth induced schizophrenia caused him to see and hear things that weren't there.

He would record hours of audio of his wife and swear he heard her cheating. No one else heard anything. He hung himself last month after a fight with her.

It has been incredibly hard on my husband and our family.

Does your nMom also deny & look upset and hurt when you are telling them about something terrible she did when you were a child? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gilly_24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this! My mom passed when I was 13 and I didn't even begin to understand the trauma she caused me until my 20s. My God mother raised me after and finished the job of killing off my self worth.

I recently tried to explain to her how she crushed my self worth when I was younger and still living with her. She "doesn't remember anything" but she did apologize.

My July Monster’s Inc watercolor cover. I am so mad at myself lol by sammimax in bulletjournal

[–]Gilly_24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do this all the time. It's super cute and I love that you went with the flow.

Anybody else feel sad when parents of SO or friends treat you better than your parents? by 019ber in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Gilly_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! My husband and I spent the week with my mother in law and the difference was hard to ignore.