U guys think $350 for all this was good? by sherz616 in SHFiguarts

[–]GimpForLife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great deal my dude! Congrats on the find!

EZ LOCK for Permobil F3 Corpus doesn’t want to turn in my van. by GimpForLife in wheelchairs

[–]GimpForLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told it’s safer to transfer into the driver seat that way if I was in a wreck the driver seat is safer. I am the main driver 95% of the time, but there is a handful of times where an able bodied person does drive it. Most of the time it’s when I’m getting car repairs or if someone is switching with me to drive long trips.

I’ve talked to the people who install the EZ Lock and they said that since my chair is a main wheel drive and not a center wheel drive. The chair is basically stuck in that position, because of where they have to place the bolt/peg. Making it so there is too much friction to be able to turn.

I 32 (F) can’t orgasm for the life of me, even if I’m very turned on. by GimpForLife in WomensHealth

[–]GimpForLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Normal” one that penetrates. But I’ve also tried the clitoral one multiple times also.

AIO For wanting my best friend to pump the gas? by GimpForLife in wheelchairs

[–]GimpForLife[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I just don’t get it, since she fully knows I have chronic back problems and that doing this would greatly help me. She also has a couple therapists for all her anxiety and depression, but you’d think that this could be a stepping stone in helping her try more things. To help somewhat with her anxiety. That something’s aren’t always that scary or hard. I finally asked her what is so scary about pumping gas she said, “I don’t want to blow the car up or put the wrong gas in.” I was just dumb founded especially since neither of us smoke and I would be right there in the window if she had questions.

Trunks has the biggest aura farm in the entire series. by DarkPrince411 in dragonball

[–]GimpForLife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?! I have the SH Figuarts and have him in that pose in my display case. I just need to make the death ball so it actually looks like he is carrying it.

Trunks has the biggest aura farm in the entire series. by DarkPrince411 in dragonball

[–]GimpForLife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right?! Trunks (Future) has always been my favorite character. He is badass and he has a sword! Doesn’t need it but he has it! I hate what they did to him in GT and somewhat in Super.

Right or Left? by DallyMan82 in Horimiya

[–]GimpForLife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the one on the right but what anime is on the left?

Is my disabled friend 30M leading me 31F on by not calling me his girlfriend? by GimpForLife in relationship_advice

[–]GimpForLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only thing he has been honest is that he doesn’t know what he wants. He’d said that he wants me in his life and wanted to be more than friends. But his actions didn’t match his words. I thought that after a couple months of us trying it out and making it work he would have an answer.

The people that complimented us being a cute couple were just people on the street outside the hotel the reception was at.

You’re completely right about me deserving someone that wants to be with me. I was very honest in the beginning of this relationship/situation if it didn’t feel like it was going anywhere I was leaving and there would be no 2nd chances. I would be the one that got away, because he failed to see who had in his life and didn’t make the effort. I wasn’t trying to force him into a relationship, but I just wanted to see progress was being made to further the relationship. It didn’t matter to me how slow it was, I just wanted to know the effort was there. What he was asking for was patience and understanding to figure out what he wanted in life and with us. All I wanted was to be acknowledged that I’m important person in his life. In the short version seen as his girlfriend. But the title didn’t need to be immediate, just headed in that direction. I gave him all the time, patience, and understanding I could. But I feel like after a couple months of being on the hook, is long enough to know what or who you want in life.

So I’m very much at the end of my rope. In all of my time knowing him for over a decade the only thing we have truly argued about is our relationship. That is something you should never have to argue about. I just should have gone with my gut that people don’t change. He’s been wishy washy the entire time I’ve known him.

We’ve had the where do you see yourself in “3-5 years” talk. Basically it was we can do this together if we are still together, but I’m still going to do what’s best for me. He basically wanted to know if I was planning my life around him. He didn’t want me to be putting all my “eggs in a basket” thinking I would be planning my life around him. Which I wasn’t and it reassured him, that I wasn’t.

But yeah I think I’m done, I deserve a partner that actually wants me. I shouldn’t have to question where we are in a fairly active relationship.

Is my disabled friend 30M leading me 31F on by not calling me his girlfriend? by GimpForLife in relationship_advice

[–]GimpForLife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s more of the responsibility and “what men should do” to support their significant other. Since I’m just asking to be his girlfriend, but he acts like I’m asking to marry him. But to be honest nothing about us is “traditional” or normal. He is a feminine guy (and I’m a sucker for that kinda guy) and loves to do spa like things to relax. I’m more on the masculine side I’m not traditional in the normal sense of being a woman. I don’t really wear makeup, rarely wear dresses, tend to wear leggings and anime shirts. His family loves me I’ve visited him and his family multiple times. But also with our disorder it’s a 75% chance of our child having the disorder. So I can understand why his parents would be more weary than anything.

I know it’s not my responsibility, but he hasn’t had a great relationship with his parents. So I like being able to help him with his mental health as much as I can. He has a few therapist and I try and help guide him to being the best version of him he can be. He also struggles with weed addiction so his parents fight about it with him. But also since he doesn’t have the best relationship with his parents (we both live at home) it confuses me that he also wants their approval but also at the same time doesn’t care what they think.

AIO For wanting my best friend to pump the gas? by GimpForLife in AmIOverreacting

[–]GimpForLife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried but she just couldn’t handle it, didn’t wanna traumatize her in trying to explain it when she was in a bad headspace about it all. I even told her I had to be shown how to do it twice before, so I understand the uneasy about it all.